Did I waste my virginity?

So i really liked this guy and we dated for a little while, he wasn't ready for a new relationship since he just got out of a long one. So now we're just friends. I went out with him two weeks ago, we got really drunk and ended up having sex. It was my first time and he knew that. He was somewhat sweet to me which i liked. The next day we had sex again and that was alright. But the same day he told me well at least you've gotten rid of your virginity and you can start living. I was like uhm ok? And didn't really respond to it. I'm not the kind of girl who is that easy with guys since i mostly get hurt. He ended up hurting my feelings a couple of times now but i still keep on saying we're just friends. Even my friends say he is a little weird and acting strange. Now he tries to hook me up with a friend of his saying i need to let loose a little. So i started joking a bit saying it's like tinder but through your phone, i will let you know when you've matches on my phone. To which he responded saying that he already has more than enough girl especially after posting a shirtless pic online. I feel like i wasted my virginity, i waited 21 years to find someone who would have respecf for me and like me. And i thought he did, i'm just really confused and hurt..
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  • Yeah, especially if you were waiting for someone special. The guy sounds like a dick. The good thing though is that most guys won't care about your experience with him and won't treat you like an object when it comes to sex.

    Also a tip: don't get drunk to the point where you lose control and awareness and don't have sex when you're drunk. There are a lot of guys that will really respect this and they're going to be the type of guys worth having sex with in your future.

  • " I'm not the kind of girl who is that easy with guys since i mostly get hurt. "

    Actions > Words

    • What do you mean?