Did porn influence your sexual life?

[juliammm]

If so, how?

[nolabels]

I've been a heavy consumer of porn since I was 12 years old.

I've questioned for years whether the porn led my life in the direction it went, or vise versa, where my life situation steered me toward porn, or if it was a combination of porn and other psychological hang-ups in combination which make me who I am today.

I have bipolar disorder that manifests in my needing little sleep, working very long hours, and probably mostly, I am extremely hypersexual.

I was terrified of girls when I was young, so that left porn and masturbation for my relief. I got over the terrors of interacting with women, but the stage had been set, masturbation was my go-to.

I've been married for many years.

Once my wife got pregnant early in our marriage with the child she wanted, she declared herself to be done with sex.

So, porn and masturbation.

Although I fantasize about having sexual encounters with others, I'm OK with it.

Those fantasies may someday become a topic of discussion between my wife and myself, for me to seek outside sexual partners.

Or not.

[glennos89]

In a way it influences us all I believe. Everyone who ever watched porn probably saw some positions or fetisj that you wouldn't have known orherwise. Personally I don't have really crazy fetish cravings but a thing that really turns me on and porn introduced to me was deepthroating or facefucking.🤤🤤🤤
A normal blowjob feels like heaven on earth already but deepthroating a submissive girl is next level shit for real. Sadly I can't get a subscription for that but damn I love it

I also really enjoy 69

[chrissykerdock]

definitely i got into blowjobs through porn i saw how the girls would just suck a cock and tasted cum... so i tried it and liked it... also i got a lot of compliments on my blowjobs and always wore the shortskirts which helped me get to suck cock i'm sure... through the years i developed i guess as a cocksucker and still maintain a love for it.

[Poppymarie]

Maybe not directly. I don’t watch porn because it just kind of makes me feel dirty, but I understand that most people do. I suppose in some secondhand way it has affected my sex life because what’s popular in porn is usually what our culture as a whole will find sexy. It has also influenced the people I’ve dated who have in turn influenced me.

[Light_beam]

You have dated people? like a 100 ?

[Leapfrog00]

Even before I started having sex, porn always seemed unrealistic to me. I can honestly say I've never been with a girl that said some of the ridiculous things they say in porn.

Although, there were some girls in the past, we made our own porn and made up our own storyline. Role-playing is the shiz.

Now, some of the Rea; amateur porn, I find hot. Especially the fetish and threesome ones.

[pascal_climbs]

Porn sex is usually very far from reality, but sometimes there are ideas that can be used in a more practical way. The drawings of the Kamasutra are more interesting to try other poses

[MasterKS]

@pascal_climbs you nailed it!

[Poliker]

I have never had sex, but porn has shown me what would look like if I did one thing or if I did other things.

[katiesmuff]

No it did not, fun to watch however

[Lliam]

Maybe a bit. I had lots of sex before I ever saw any porn, but I might have gotten some ideas for different positions that hadn't occurred to me.

[Quackthulu2]

Other way around. My sex life influences porn.

[Jamie05rhs]

Haha. You must be the female Chuck Norris.

[Sour-rose]

I've seen many porn videos... probably not the ones you know of. But porn videos or not, it didn't do anything. i still don't feel shi for sexual bits, even a gif I have saved in my phone for "steak to my audience". And yes, i've seen it more than 5 times and... still don't wanna get plowed. :)

[rachel776]

no really i had some orgasms to it by myself but that's about all

[OfMiceandMen]

I rarely watch it and when I do, its just massage stuff. Not into the whole BDSM scene or sex without passion/connection.

The massage stuff is something I do and see myself doing with someone special in my life as it has an intimate/personal touch to it.

That being said, I may watch it a few times a year, so I believe porn has little to no influence on my sex life.

[Kaneki05]

Porn is my sexual life so... insert a pity awkward lol here.

[Dargil]

Yes. It provided a road map and insight into the works.

[sheenagwapa]

when i watch hollowood movies i noticed that when there are love scenes they are always in a hurty and so before that's my ideq od fuckinh. i should feelhigh libido but that was before now i'm not that black and white anymore thanks to the people who help me but even though i'm very thankful i goota be true to myself when it comes to my love life it's what i feel i

[Mrgoodstuff62]

What movie is your favourite?

[Natalya01]

It gave me idea of new things specially three and foursomes lol

[appetitefordominance]

How often do u have threesomes?

[Natalya01]

@appetitefordominance 2 -3 times in a month

[appetitefordominance]

Well how do u find people who are down to do it? Thats difficult

[Natalya01]

@appetitefordominance My friend boyfriend always want to fuck me so we have that and 2 more couples.

[appetitefordominance]

Damn thats cool.. i wish i was your friend's boyfriend lol

[Natalya01]

@appetitefordominance oh great.

[appetitefordominance]

Would you ever accept money to have sex or would it make u feel bad?

[JohnK123]

@natalya01 how do foursomes work?

[FunkyMonkee]

It's given me some ideas, over the decades but I don't think it's influenced it, all that much.

[Wild_princess]

No... it don't picture and reality are two different things

[FilmGuy93]

Not really... I never looked at porn and thought it was real in any way. The only that porn did mislead me about was that when I was a lot younger, I assumed women would be more confident and comfortable in expressing their desires. I thought that, if a woman wanted a man, she would express her lust for him more openly. I also thought that, when a woman was having sex, she'd feel more comfortable expressing her physical needs to her partner.

Both of those assumptions turned out to be wrong. That was the only impact porn had on me though.

[elizamichale1]

Yea definitely

[PolkSallad]

I think so.

[Nikki1989]

I had a sex life for many years before ever seeing porn.

[Bruins37]

I don't watch it. As I grew up I realized the negative aspects of it.