Did you have to hear your parents having sex? If so, how did that affect you?

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Growing up, i had to hear my mom having sex and it would piss me off. I was like one of those kids who was protective of their mom and just wanted the dude to die for touching her. I remember first hearing this shit when she created my sis. I was like 5 years old (year 2000). Traumatized me. I was crying in the hall, beating on the door telling him to get off my mom. His son (same age as me) would just come hold me and tell me not to cry and that it would be over soon. Sucked. Shit started back up in 2004 with her new boyfriend and their bedroom was always next to mine. Plus my bed shared the same wall. Ugh. I had to hear that shit for the next 8 years. Made me so mad. I vowed for revenge when i turned older. I wanted her to hear me, see me, catch me. Id have sex loudly, lively and publicly. I’d even be doin it on the porch when she was in the house. So many people tried to tell her bout me but she always stated “you guys are haters. My daughter would never, she's a virgin. you're just mad your daughters a teen mom.” Yea thats been her statement up until last year. Guess she's in denial I don't know. My dads no better. When i was like 10, he went down on his wife in the hotel while me and his other 3 kids were sleeping in the bed across from em. He just didn't give af even tho the wife told him we could see. Lmao my parents not giving a damn as well as my first ex makin me do stuff publicly, just really got me into some crazy voyeur/exhibitionist shit. But its not extreme
or anything. I also was addicted to soft porn in 6th grade but quit after 2 months of sneaking to watch it. I’d buy HBO porn and my moms boyfriend would get blamed cause i was sucha “good kid”. Yea hardcore porn didn't start up til i was 21. #FeelFreeToList #FckinParents

Did you have to hear your parents having sex? If so, how did that affect you?

ultimega · Answer

No thank heavens

Rosa135 · Answer

When I was kid, I used to sleep with my parents in their bed. One night I was drowsing and heard my mom moaning. I didn't pay attention at it and neither opened my eyes to see what it was. But as I grew i realised that mom was having her great time with dad and this still gives me goosebumps.

gangster123 · Answer

Anyone should maintain the dignity to keep their private life away from kids... And maintain their respect for themselves.. and not good to lose shyness in these things. And definitely can't do these things in public...

worldscolide · Answer

i would need eye bleach and ear bleach after that... they dont make a delete button big enough... EWWWWWWWWW

call_me_scar · Answer

Nope but I'm pretty sure I heard my brother and his soon to be wife having sex, it didn't effect me for I was already 18 at the time

Riddler1412 · Answer

No. We have thick walls in our house.

buttcrackjoe · Answer

“Ya’ll niggas got any brea-“ Im dying

BigDog69000 · Answer

I caught them in the act once when I was about 11. I don't think it affected me because I had already started to explore with the neighbor girl.

Walrus_au · Answer

I did not. But then by the time I would have recognised what that might be their marriage was very much on the rocks.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I have never, ever seen or heard my parents having sex. And they've been married over 40 years now. (Now granted, I haven't been living with them that whole time.) If they do it at all, they must be quiet as a church mouse. But they MUST have done it before, because they had 6 of us! To this day it's still a mystery that I cannot understand.

Browser101 · Answer

Growing up in and currently living in a small house I can relate. But go easy on your Mom! Should people go celibate once they have children? I think not... distracting and slightly disturbing to think of your mom in that situation, yes. But perfectly natural, normal, and healthy!

HeyMikie · Answer

I never heard or saw my parents having sex but I would have been OK with it.

lonelybroken · Answer

Never heard it the one time I recall my mom cleaning the house and dad had a funny grin on his face and he kind of grabbed her and scooted her back in and slam the door and then shortly afterwards he come strutting out so I assumed the worst. But it didn't bother me not the Time. Though i often wonder what i would have turned out like if he wasn't a dick head.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No. Mine were too unhappy together and separated too soon.

vald9inches · Answer

why did you not want your mom to have sex? lol

grizzlybearbite · Answer

Can't say I have much memories of parents having sex. Don't think I have any memories in fact. I was raised by Soviet Union communist Russians. Meaning... There was no sex lol. Russians now are known for sex, but wasn't always like that.

Likes2drive · Answer

No I never heard them actually, I was far from the room

lovedejj_xo · Answer

Yea I heard things I didn’t want to ever hear

DDpsy · Answer

I realy doubt that my parents ever fucked.

Trooper205 · Answer

Oh... I'm so sorry! That must have been SO rough for you! I cannot imagine. My Father died when I was 8, and my Mom never remarried, nor "hooked up"... However, I DO remember when I was 6 going to my Parents room when I had a nightmare, and was confused on why Dad wasn't wearing a shirt... He ALWAYS wore a shirt to bed... (Probably explains my youngest brother...)

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