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I lost my virginity to another virgin so it was pretty great since we were on the same level and took things slow. Hard to even imagine losing it to someone that was experienced like I don't think I would have liked that at all just cause of the imbalance of experience.
If you lost it to someone who was experienced was it awkward or no?
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35 58im trans (mtf) and the guy I lost my virginity was experienced
@chris_987 lol maybe you shouldn't ask that
@chris_987 people like you are why trans people fear coming out
@Apple1996 Im dissapointed in your comment
Chris always rude. He shouldn't be asking anything
I blocked him
@date_a_snob I'm glad that you are comfortable in your own skin, and stand up for yourself. People should be able to be love their lives.
Was the guy who had it with u surprised?
We were both 18 she was a senior i was a junior. She had been with one or 2 other guys.
To someone who was more experienced than the average woman.
She was older and more experienced.
He had experience.
Virgin.
We were both virgins, the 1st time
I was a virgin, she wasn't.
She was older and experienced. It was technically statutory rape or illegal sex with a minor since I was 14 and she was 18.
As it is normal in our culture, neither me nor my wife had had any physical or romantic relationship before marriage.
No she was very experienced and older than me and she taught me everything to pleasing a woman physically, mentally, and sexually. She taught how to eat a girl and the engenous parts a woman that can turn her on.
i lost mine to an experienced person
I was her second so she was experienced
Yes. I was 16. She was only 15 😏
“Only”... as if there was some huge age gap 🤣
My high school girlfriend was a year older and had some experience (a boyfriend prior to me).
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I lost my virginity to a prostitute and I am grateful for that. Her experience was a lifesaver.
The next woman I had sex with lay there like a fish and would have been a very uninformative first experience. I am looking to learn during my first time.
For us men sex is very performative and we are not allowed to really have our fun until you women are done because once we blow we're typically done for a bit.
I don't think the pressure to preform well comes till later on like I wasn't expecting anything from my guy the first time
She will always remember the first time and you never know if she's going to make some kind of remarks towards her friends when she knows you won't be able to listen to her. As a man, do I want to be someone who she takes pity on or do I want to be someone she feels lucky to have? I want to wow her, I want to be her everything.
Anytime my clothes come off with a woman or the like, I am under a tremendous amount of pressure to perform.
If I could have sex without having to worry about my performance at all? Like if I just laid back and received a blowjob? That would be so relaxing..
(And before anyone says anything, my body and its measurements are more than fine so fuck you trolls.)
You probably could wow a girl without having previous experience tho
You stressing to hard then lol
Well my first time I was super nervous so I was practically dead silent and I had trouble getting an erection because I was so nervous. Figuring out how my body worked and how to maintain my mental state to balance arousal without blowing too quickly was something I had to learn. I lasted 20 minutes my first time so not that bad I guess. She came twice before I left.
Some girls can be pretty mean so I get your worry
Dont think the time really matters to girls the first time. I can't even remember how long my guy lasted... Maybe a few minutes but didn't matter since he ate me out a long time before starting
I figure as long as you get your fun it really shouldn't matter, right? Good to see that other people think similarly.
I did - At least she told me she was. I’m pretty sure she was.
I believe he was also a virgin.
My wife and I were both virgins.
Before or after you got married?
After we were married. Before the reception.
Awhh how cute. Surprised y'all managed to find time
We had a morning wedding then a luncheon. We had a few hours before the reception and our new apartment was ready... And so we're we!