Did you (or did you not) wait until marriage to have sex, & are you sexually satisfied or not?
Also please answer: You're in love with someone to the point you'd be willing to marry them. What are the chances you'll be able to work out a satisfying sex life?
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What Girls & Guys Said
17 23I didn't, and I'm very satisfied.
I would never marry someone without having had sex with her before. I need to know if we're sexually compatible.
I didn’t wait 😭 although I swore I was going to but ended up loosing it at 18.
I didn‘t wait but wish I had. Premarital sex hurts God and strongly grieves the Holy Ghost.
Since I am highly sexual and resisting sex is hard for me, I am marrying in October.
Hahahahahahahaha
Why laugh at my misery?
Would you consider oral sex (both giving and receiving) as sex here?
Oral sex is SEX, like vaginal and anal sex.
@DiegoO then i didn't really wait
Noup.
Oral sex is just nasty tf?
@specops I guess receiving is just fine for you
None
Normal sex is just OK for me to connect with my partner
Nobody wants virgins that bad anymore... they are usually boring fucks
I'm not married and I'll wait until marriage
I'm waiting for marriage.
I voted number 7. Unmarried. I'm not asexual.
It's couples personal decision
No if I had to “wait until marriage” I’d still be a virgin.
You want you are still unmarried..
I’m gay they don’t have same sex marriage isn’t legal in Greece.
You mean you are a lesbian?
Bingo.
@Maria1979 So you mean it causes punishment? Or they just don't offer legal steps for same sex marriage?
I really wish I could find the study I recently read on this that highlights the inaccuracy of previous research and argues that from a more accurate analysis married couples are actually the least sexually satisfied!
Something along these lines; www.psychologytoday.com/.../does-marriage-really-improve-sexual-satisfaction
The people saying they're sexually satisfied but didn't wait, give it a few more years and half of them will be divorced. It's statistically proven that waiting for marriage increases the likelihood of a successful marriage.
Yup Its scientifically proofed as well (as far as I know)
I'm currently waiting for marriage and haven't had sex. I am religious but I'm not waiting because of this. I want my first time to special and to be with someone I trust and love. I might have sex before marriage but I definitly won't have sex before love
Had some sexual partners before but not actual sex. Now wife and I didn’t wait though we had sex before marriage.
Marriage is currently 100% sexless. Very unsatisfied.
Not actual sex? What do you mean by that?
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What is sexual satisfaction, for a guy like me who have have been conservative and never had sex it is hard to understand.
If you haven't had sex: 1. You can't understand what sexual satisfaction is 2. This isn't the question for you
@hhues If you can not explain it then it is obviously a myth, and you can just say there is no sex satisfaction in the first place, because every question should have a response.
Sexual satisfaction is when you're happy with the sex you're having (both quality and quantity)
People can tell you what sexual satisfaction is, but you won't be able to fully understand it until you have sex.
@mistixs thanks for the quick definition!
@hhues So sex satisfaction only occur when you have sex, and what is the opposite of it, seems like only people who had sex could be unsatisfied and people who don't are satisfied by default.
If you're asexual, then the absence of sex is sexual satisfaction. If you wish to have sex, then sex is what it takes to sexually satisfy you. Sexual satisfaction is only one part of overall satisfaction. Just because you aren't sexually satisfied doesn't mean you can't be satisfied with life.
@hhues The other girl stated that you could understand that you are sexually satisfied or not satisfied only if you experience sex but what you say is different, "If you wish to have sex, then sex is what it takes to sexually satisfy you." and with that being said, even if you don't know what sex is in the first place you still can be unsatisfied. in other words sexless people know what sex satisfaction is which is not the case.
Go back and read who said what
Any statement after my first statement is further clarification.
@hhues I simply can not tell if i am sexually satisfied or not because i don't know what sex is in the first place, so if i my self don't know how could you tell that sexless people are not sexually satisfied?
Do you want sex?
@hhues I don't feel comfortable with of idea of having sex with someone for no reason.
Are you satisfied with your sex life? Do you wish you had a deep enough connection with someone that you could have sex?
@hhues I never thought about it so i most likely would not be sexually involved with someone, but why you ask these questions?
Because if you dont want sex and you're not having sex, then you're satisfied
@hhues lol, seems like a solid rule, i don't care anyway.