Difference between good and bad sex?

[EmoKate97]

OP is self-explanatory

For me personally
Good sex = He has good foreplay and is able to display himself in a way that makes me want him on an emotional level. He's confidant and comfortable leading and is able to reads my body and can tell what i like and don't like. After he ask what i liked and didn't like which is always cool with a guy actually wants to learn.

Bad sex = Doesn't eat me out, either wants to try everything and puts your body in a dozen positions or vice versa just wants to do 1 position. Is quiet during foreplay and sex, its really boring, has to be asked to help me finish after he cums. Missionary is my favorite position but if that's all you do then you need to google shit asap. Also its frustrating when 1 person is doing all the work, from being sexy to thrusting to reading each others bodies.

[motownplayer2000]

Good sex= willing to do anything and try anything. Enthusiasm in what she wants and what she likes... flirty month in bed, able to make me want to do her as soon as I finish. Great communicator in bed and knows that he can guide me when it doesn’t feel the way it wants.


Bad sex= unenthusiastic, a dead fish in bed, doesn’t know how to be sexy and turn me on especially after the first session, like to do things (oral, anal, etc) only because “I like to do it and it makes me happy.” I love it when a woman gets turned on by the idea of giving oral and sex and can actually give good oral and sex. Quite in bed, and scared to do something spontaneous or in “public.”

[PrudentGuy]

For me, good sex has a lot to do with attitude.

I always find it sexy when a person is confident. Such confidence is not arrogance, but the ability demonstrate acceptance of one's limitations and flaunt one's strength instead.

And of course, becoming vulnerable for each other in the bedroom is sensual, exciting and hot.

These bedroom attitudes will translate into some form of communication and acts to satisfy each other.

Ya, oral sex will come naturally and foreplay will be creative and fun.

The couple will then climax when both are ready, and satisfied even when the position is "vanilla".

[centerline]

you have a well balanced of the difference between good and bad sex... i agree with it.
the only thing I can say is that BOTH partners need to be involved in whats going on... if all the decisions are left to one person, it may not always go well, but when both people are fully engaged in the action and putting forth the effort, its almost always good...
I had girls tell me about lame guys they've been with, and I know i been with a few lame girls, and its sometimes hard not to hurt someone feelings by helping them learn a better technique, but in the end its worth trying... when both are into it, there is no end to the excitement until their energy fades away... and orgasms aren't the determining factor... they're always good in themselves, but it doesn't make the difference between a good or bad sex experience..

[ohshee]

Good sex starts out so very slow every touch kiss is in slow motion for me I make it all about her and no matter what I'm doing I listen to the way she's breaths the sound of her moan the way she moves with my touch her eyes will tell me everything with out a word and 9 out of ten time if she wants some thing I start until I feel her starting to say yes and then I go the opposite way and that's because I want her to feel that there are many many ways its all in how it's done if you ask a girl how they like to have sex be fucked make love they will tell you and and it's all the same rough hard deep fast ,, they like that because that's the only way they know , ,, don't get me wrong I like it to many times when I change directions I've had girls get pissy nooooooooo what are you doing ,,, I say shhhhhh and at first 2 min they act as if they hate it and the more they do the slower I go ,, and then they are hanging on for dear life if ur start to speed up they grasp your ass and say. Noooooooo go slow lmao so good sex to me is when I never do it the same way I did it last time. When I make it about her when I make her try and then love it another way and when I can make her scream with at least orgasms

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

It's like the difference between a Ford and a Chevy. Yeah, the Chevy will get you there. But you won't feel good about it and your friends will make fun of you if they find out.

[PiffDust]

If you're both satisfied at the end of it, that's good, the counterpart's pretty obvious.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

virgin learning. thanks

[Anno2]

Emotional connection, without it might as well fuck a doll

[kemo56]

Well if I'm understanding you right good sex is all I would define as sex

Bad sex this one you're never going to have one of them again and you're going to run as soon as you can get free

And I really think you defined both real well so don't try to add anything to it

[Ripper_E]

Good = She is satisfied
Bad = She is not

I'm not going to go into detail but as far as me, I'm always far easier and simpler so it's far more important to me to take care of her satisfaction before my own. So if SHE does not enjoy it and is left unsatisfied, then I am not satisfied.

[chriscdi]

for guys pussy is pussy, or at least for me lol

[es20490446e]

Bad sex = Likely will lead to drama later on.
Good sex = anything else :D

[0oGreyo0]

Eating her out
Making her cum
Differnt positions her on top doggie missionary 69
Her moaning
Dirty talk
Engaged and not a pillow princess

[Iron_Man]

I disagree with all of this
plus you’re not married

[gibgabbs]

If I get to eat pussy, that's all I need to satisfy me

[COMMODOREII]

I agree with 100% lol

[Jerre]

Totally agree with your words on good sex. I spend a lot of time on foreplay which eventually leads to fingering her and then to eating her. I try to make her cum several times to get her good and wet, ready for my big cock. While fucking I can usually make her and myself cum multiple times. A mess when we are finished, but we’ll worth it.

[asshole_]

Good sex- does things they're not expected to do

bad sex- does things they're expected to do

sex should never be about expectations.

you need to talk about things you're willing to do, not just what you expect them to do (whatever that means)

Point is, you wouldn't want him doing something to you, you didn't agree on, before hand, right?

[mfate76]

It's essential to eat the pussy out when i was married that's what i did before sliding my dick in. She would climax before i went in. Woman love it and i love seeing them enjoy it

[JamesBlackDragon]

I agree with everything you said except I don't care about getting foreplay done to me don't like getting my duck sucked but I'll eat for hours

[msc545]

Good / Bad sex descriptions are excellent!

[michael1469]

Making her cum once or making her cum a dozen times...

[Jack-mayhoff]

I agree 110% with you. I like a girl that’s not shy. Been with a few girls that were pretty boring. Would have been happier jerking it my self.

[keddesh]

In my experience generally it comes down to the enthusiasm of the partner. It can be otherwise great sex, but if I feel like they're not sharing the experience with me it's very off-putting.

[JasonLee27th]

90% of women just want to be man handled properly, and trust the perverted guy with her dark secrets; she's a sexually twisted fuck too. We all got kinks. Difference is whether or not you getting to bathe in your sin and feeling real pleasure. Emo.. Love it.

[Anonymous]

In a word, communication. It's all about getting to know each others likes and dislikes. Sadly there's a lack of communication most of the time.