Difference between good and bad sex?

OP is self-explanatory

For me personally
Good sex = He has good foreplay and is able to display himself in a way that makes me want him on an emotional level. He's confidant and comfortable leading and is able to reads my body and can tell what i like and don't like. After he ask what i liked and didn't like which is always cool with a guy actually wants to learn.

Bad sex = Doesn't eat me out, either wants to try everything and puts your body in a dozen positions or vice versa just wants to do 1 position. Is quiet during foreplay and sex, its really boring, has to be asked to help me finish after he cums. Missionary is my favorite position but if that's all you do then you need to google shit asap. Also its frustrating when 1 person is doing all the work, from being sexy to thrusting to reading each others bodies.
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  • Good sex= willing to do anything and try anything. Enthusiasm in what she wants and what she likes... flirty month in bed, able to make me want to do her as soon as I finish. Great communicator in bed and knows that he can guide me when it doesn’t feel the way it wants.


    Bad sex= unenthusiastic, a dead fish in bed, doesn’t know how to be sexy and turn me on especially after the first session, like to do things (oral, anal, etc) only because “I like to do it and it makes me happy.” I love it when a woman gets turned on by the idea of giving oral and sex and can actually give good oral and sex. Quite in bed, and scared to do something spontaneous or in “public.”

  • For me, good sex has a lot to do with attitude.

    I always find it sexy when a person is confident. Such confidence is not arrogance, but the ability demonstrate acceptance of one's limitations and flaunt one's strength instead.

    And of course, becoming vulnerable for each other in the bedroom is sensual, exciting and hot.

    These bedroom attitudes will translate into some form of communication and acts to satisfy each other.

    Ya, oral sex will come naturally and foreplay will be creative and fun.

    The couple will then climax when both are ready, and satisfied even when the position is "vanilla".

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  • you have a well balanced of the difference between good and bad sex... i agree with it.
    the only thing I can say is that BOTH partners need to be involved in whats going on... if all the decisions are left to one person, it may not always go well, but when both people are fully engaged in the action and putting forth the effort, its almost always good...
    I had girls tell me about lame guys they've been with, and I know i been with a few lame girls, and its sometimes hard not to hurt someone feelings by helping them learn a better technique, but in the end its worth trying... when both are into it, there is no end to the excitement until their energy fades away... and orgasms aren't the determining factor... they're always good in themselves, but it doesn't make the difference between a good or bad sex experience..

  • Good sex starts out so very slow every touch kiss is in slow motion for me I make it all about her and no matter what I'm doing I listen to the way she's breaths the sound of her moan the way she moves with my touch her eyes will tell me everything with out a word and 9 out of ten time if she wants some thing I start until I feel her starting to say yes and then I go the opposite way and that's because I want her to feel that there are many many ways its all in how it's done if you ask a girl how they like to have sex be fucked make love they will tell you and and it's all the same rough hard deep fast ,, they like that because that's the only way they know , ,, don't get me wrong I like it to many times when I change directions I've had girls get pissy nooooooooo what are you doing ,,, I say shhhhhh and at first 2 min they act as if they hate it and the more they do the slower I go ,, and then they are hanging on for dear life if ur start to speed up they grasp your ass and say. Noooooooo go slow lmao so good sex to me is when I never do it the same way I did it last time. When I make it about her when I make her try and then love it another way and when I can make her scream with at least orgasms

  • It's like the difference between a Ford and a Chevy. Yeah, the Chevy will get you there. But you won't feel good about it and your friends will make fun of you if they find out.

  • If you're both satisfied at the end of it, that's good, the counterpart's pretty obvious.

  • virgin learning. thanks