Dirty talk during sex?

Guys, what things do you like to hear a woman say, or what has a woman said that really got you going? Girls, what things do you like to say during sex that gets him going? just trying to find new things to say to spice things up! :)
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  • Well, I think "what" a girl says is not as important as "why" she's saying it.

    For me, sex is like a game. It's like that short-story - the Most Dangerous Game. The dynamic is that the female is the evil manipulator - looking to gain at the expense of the man. In turn, the man is the helpless prey - trying his best to avoid being exploited, but his efforts are helplessly futile.

    Now, that doesn't mean that it has to translate into some physical S&M or BDSM stuff where the girl is wearing some leather outfits and being overtly and directly dominant.

    I think of femininity as "soft" martial arts (e. g., aikido, jujitsu), and masculinity as "hard" martial arts (e. g., karate, boxing). Just because female sexuality is not directly, or overtly, or physically dominating male sexuality does not mean that it is not "dominant."

    So, I enjoy dirty talk where the girl is basically communicating that she has be in her sexual grasp, and she knows it, and that I can't escape, and that she knows how badly I want to give in to her, and sort of teasingly mocks how she can tell I can't hold it in anymore, and has a triumphant smirk when she gets me off.

    Here are some examples:

    https://www.literotica.com/s/succubus-keep

    https://www.literotica.com/s/guard-duty-1

    https://www.literotica.com/s/bubble-bath-5

    https://www.literotica.com/s/happy-ending-3

  • The sky is the limit , she has carte blanche, but The mood is not always for dirty talk. both have to want it. I enjoy it but more often than not , I'm not in the mood for it , but if I do , she can tell that I'm the lousiest lover and if I don't give to her, she'll go find a man with a real dick, and a lot more and worse, I tell her , enjoy and say anything you want. The lovers I've done this with were tame , in my opinion, so it was never bad,

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't know, I have a way with using descriptive vocabulary all in the while of keeping it short and seductive. It's weird saying a mouthful or a sentence. Tones, body language, and attitude is also very important in talking dirty. You gotta show how much you're loving it all, you gotta act it and sincerely feel it. If you're not into it, then it will come out weird. Talk about his performance, and how good he is. Talk about his penis, and tell him how hard it is. Express to him how much of a slut you are, and that you want him to give it to you like you deserve it. Moan a few "oh yeahs" or "oh god". Talk about what you wanna do to him. Things like that.

  • I like it when my boyfriend tells me what he's going to do to me, but I never do that to him. If I can talk, I just tell him how incredibly good he's making me feel, and that totally gets under his skin. Seems crazy to me: for many men, a woman can please him just by telling him he's pleasing her. How easy is that?

    • Yeah, how sweet is that!

  • If I want to turn him on, anything that flatters his prowess in bed, such as how he is making me feel (even if he's not), how much I want him or things id like him to do to me. This normally has the desired effect and end result. :)

    Just remember everyone is different

  • I can't talk during sex.. moans moans moans.. there's no way I could talk. I also don't necessarily need dirty talk, it actually takes me out of the moment. It's laugh inducing to me. I'd rather prefer to hear a guy moan like crazy than to have him do some dirty talking.

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  • One of the most beautiful words is 'pussy' and any time a woman says it to me gets me going. Especially during foreplay.
    A really great way to mess with your guys head is to call him on the phone and tell him,
    "My pussy wants you"

  • I enjoy dirty talk before, during, and after. Especially the more animated and into it she is. As for specifics, well that's not for everyone :)

  • Fuck me in my ass. That's always nice to hear.

  • Look at him in the eyes
    say "grab the lube and fuck me in the ass right now"
    alternately
    "grab the lube and put that huge cock in my ass right now"
    i would almost cum from that. But then my ex wife loved anal.

  • Having sex at all would be pretty great lol

  • Cum in my mouth

  • So many here to share but not in a public forum lol.

  • I just usually say whatever comes to my mind.

    • And how does it turn out for you? 😏

  • Apparently my boyffy likes when I call him daddy in bed lol😶

  • I am dont have girlfriend :/

  • Dirty talk just makes me laugh

  • Just tell the guy how u want to be fucked ( fuck me hard, deeper faster). Usally just the sounds she makes turns me on. Tell him that u own his cock or he owns your pussy something that sounds dominant or submissive.

  • When a girl tells me to do this to her or that or tell me to go harder or faster.

  • when i sleep with girls i don't like dirty talking.

    • i want her to shut up and ride the space ship

  • I like it when she asks me to f*ck her hard!
    Not too much into prudent girls, who're blushing and shy in the bed.
    Girls who pray during sex, and cast out demons, are a total turnoff...

    • People do that during sex? Pray and cast out demons?

  • Whatever comes to my mind

  • I like when she tells me how good I feel inside her. Then tells me where she wants me to cum. When I'm fucking her hard and she tells me deeper and or harder. What else?

  • at her friends house who was having pregnant lady party, and she whispered
    "when we get home i want you to start choking me without warning"
    While I am dominant, I'm not normally into this. Something about the way she said it though, it just worked. She kept whispering things into my ear, when i was trying to have a conversation with someone. I made us leave early because I couldn't get a... problem to go away, and didn't want to walk around the party like that.

  • I hope you don't mind me sharing, but I love my girlfriend to tease me by talking about her sexy shoes... every guy loves a girl in heels, so even if you are not going to wear them, then you can tease him with talk of putting them on, letting him touch them, etc.

  • Why are there so many sexual questions at the moment and why do I keep answering them?

    • Really? What a strange thing to say during sex. To each their own I guess. . . . weird.

    • sex is something almost everyone can relate to, like food. But food isn't as fun.. To answer your question your either quite new to having sex, or your just interested in it.

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