Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health This is getting really fucking frustrating, I'm a 19 year old guy keeping my virginity for that special someone (not necessarily marriage), I'm fit and well-built, I've also been told that I'm handsome by many, I want my first time to be with a virgin girl who's attractive and just a normal nice person, I'm not asking for too much here at all
But the problem is, every girl I meet who's not super ugly, overweight, or weird in a bad way seems to be a non-virgin, I have lots of female friends and they all lost their virginities at around 15-18, they try helping me get close with any girls I like but they find out that they're all non-virgins too, I'm starting to avoid contact with girls I have crushes on because sometimes I end up upsetting such girls when they see me back away because of their past
I've been putting effort into protecting my virginity and not giving in to my raging instincts for 7 years now, but does anyone else do that anymore? I have no fucking clue right now honestly, I didn't know virginity was such a dead idea
I've been told to wait and let time eventually get me what I want, but if now, at the age of 19, every girl seems to have had her first time, how would waiting solve the issue? It would eliminate any actual chances I have, this is stressful lol
Do good virgin girls still exist?
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+1 y
I've dated some of my friends before, they were amazing but any sexual feelings I'd have for them would vanish once I remember that they've had a cock shoved into them before meI've had sexual feelings towards a girl who was raped, I don't count that I guessI'm 19, not much younger I can go, don't be a sicko
+1 y
I'm looking for a girl I can probably spend the rest of my life with, I don't want a shallow brainless hookup just to lose my V card. Churches don't make a difference. I guess I'll just keep waiting, I worked too hard to keep my virginity and I won't give it up easily like that. Thanks for the answers!
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What Girls & Guys Said
8 19female virginity matters
it's only in the very recent past that people are trying to pretend it does not, ye hedonist fucks
Yh these days being a virgin at an older age is pretty rare. Why’re you so bothered about your crushes past? Did you not have strong feelings for any of them? Maybe that’s why you are kinda judgy. If you find someone you really really have strong feelings for go for it. Shouldn’t really matter if they’re virgin or not. As long as you both like each other.
Rare for girls not for guys
''Shouldn’t really matter if they’re virgin or not'' any girl can luiterally go outside with no panties, pull up her skirt, and she will have sex with someone, this is why guys value if a girl is not promiscuous, she's diff from the rest, is like ''the key that opens a lot of locks is a master key, a lock that opens to any key, is abroken lock'' joke
Okay so how come boys who aren’t virgins are not considered promiscuous and girls who aren’t are. I mean so... if y’all find the virgin girl you so want and dis virgin her are you going to stay with her forever. Marry her and promise never to divorce? What’s the chances that you’re even going to fall in love with the virgin if you find her? What happens if you can’t keep your promise and leave her? She’s no longer a virgin now. Does that make her promiscuous? You used the word promiscuous wrongly. Not everyone is a hoe. You really have the wrong perception of women.
80% of divorce is filed by women
www.youtube.com/watch
And 75% of the cause of divorce is Infidelity from the mans side. See? When you get the virgin make sure not to cheat on her and make sure to treat her right so she doesn’t divorce you.
Women that can't keep her legs shut, is not wifey material, women can get laid easier than men, and see it this way: why would i want to spend my time, money, and effort trying to get a girl that gave her body to a dozen of dudes that only paid her a couple drinks?
It’s actually Money is the number one cause of divorce
It’s not money. Get your facts straight. It’s lack of commitment and infidelity.
A women who thinks all men are cheaters is definitely a red flag, good luck with that
That means you’re going for a prostitute. A girl who sells her body for a couple of drinks lol. There are many of non prostitutes out there. And that’s a lie hon. Guys are the most promiscuous actually. But if you choose to be ignorant sure. Okay!
And a guy who thinks all women are promiscuous is definitely a big big red flag. Good luck with that too.
I’m just no guy should be with a girl that thinks like you, who want to prove there not promiscuous, that’s a waste of time
And no girl should be with someone who thinks like you too. You’re so adamant on the fact that all girls are promiscuous. That’s such a shame and a waste.
Your confusing me with someone else I never said no such thing
YES, BECAUSE OF PROMISCUITY, women NEVER, and i repeat, NEVER, forget their good fucks in the past, this is why if we are going to be with a girl, especially those girls that want a provider ( 80% of women, and the other 20% still work less hours than their husbands on average and dont forget the stupid law of '' my money is mine, my husbands money is ours'' ) have nothing to offer, back in the day one fucking medieval era, virginities were what women provided to men that they married, in return of stability and financial support, the problem is, feminism kinda messed this up, in a way, it was good, cause now women dont need to depend on anyone, the problem is, women allways want the better end of the stick, women want equality, but how many are the women that slap their boyfriends and their female friends support them, but if their boyfriends respond to them with a slap too, they get butthurted and play the victim card? Not only that, women like to date players, because they are good in bed, are not boring but they are unfaithful in return, so women stay with this guys when they are younger and still have the looks, then, once they get older and their looks start fading away, they start looking for a more boring, not so good in bed, not so attractive but loyal and provider man. This is the sad reality, no matter how much you want to twist it.
Such a shame that guys who think like y’all are still out here. There are plenty of girls who don’t beat up their guys. They even help support the house financially and are not promiscuous. What’s wrong if women want equality? Aren’t we humans too? U bash the women who abuse their men but you think it’s okay for the men to accept virginity in exchange of financial support? That’s just disgusting to hear. That doesn’t sound right at all. And in those era you mentioned do you know how much domestic violence was present then (done by the men). But the women can’t get out and are stuck there to suffer forever or until they’re finally beaten up to death. Bottom line is there are abusive partners of different genders. All you have to do is avoid such toxic relationship. There are good non promiscuous boys and girls out there. You don’t have to label one particular gender specifically.
are u that stupid? fkng read first moron, than type
https://youtu.be/T_l1nS-RlZw
THIS, this is the real ''equality'' we live in
I don't judge anyone, I dated some of my female friends before, they were amazing and I had an awesome time with them, but whenever I remembered their past I'd just be immediately turned off to the thought of some guy shoving his cock into them before me, no hard feelings towards them, I love them as friends and we're still super close to this day I did date a non-virgin once, she was raped at a young age and that wasn't a turn off so rape or sexual assault doesn't count for me because it's not fair for the girl
@AFellowWeeb I understand your frustration dude and I do agree with many of your points, but don't look at it in such a dark way, I know it might be kinda true but I used to be a generally very sad person when I had that mindset I've learned to be my own lover so I don't feel like I need a woman to make me whole haha, which is why I don't worry about this stuff anymore too much and I'm more care-free Have a great day man 💙
They exist but take this into factor a lot of women get raped or tooken advantage of heck some lie just to fit in or use sex toys even cucumbers. Virgintity is a concept created by religion, even virgins were sacrificed because of it.
If you think about it its unfair that you judge somebody because of their sexual past which some don't even have control over. I grew up and women took advantage of me. My own family members I'm not a virgin because of that.
What did jesus do? he eliminated that belief. Jesus is love; if you can't accept someone for who they are then you're no different from those who sacrificed the virgins. They exist just go to church and make sure that girl got good intentions and has religious parents who are together.
I'm not judging anyone for anything, I wish I could accept offers for sex, I've had some before with some of my female friends, but I couldn't get myself to do it you know? I'd always think that it's unfair for my first time to be with a girl who's had a guy enter her before me, I just have this preference
Some women got raped at young age they didn't choose it.