Do guys care about what the vagina looks like?

I’m just curious if guys really care what a vagina looks like. Like say if a girl was more darker around her private area. Or if certain shape or look of it bothered any guy? I’m a girl but if the guy didn’t like the way her vagina looked would he not have sex with her? (I hope this isn’t a weird question, I just wanted a guys perspective)
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  • I am from a traditional Indian Family, married for +4 years. My husband is really taking care of my body – including that sweet part. This is perhaps because – we both have studied life science at master level and we knows the importance of health of our sex organs for enjoying sex at its best and for producing babies. (We have one and not planning of second in near future)

    Most people probably just say something odd like he is just be so glad that he is in bed with his girl in the first place or he do not care what it looks like down there (because most people enjoy sex in the darkness of night or under the cover of blanket) etc but guys obviously have a preference when it comes to girls' private parts. They also think and help her girl for 'designer vagina' etc mainly because of easy availability of porn and pictures of girls who look perfect down there, i. e. no inner labia showing and perfectly waxed and smooth etc. Many of guys - especially inexperienced ones – carefully watch at these images and assume that all girls look like this and be disappointed when his girl is not so perfect. They also ask their girls for surgery to make it neater and trimmer.

    To be fair unless they are pretty close and in a relationship the chances of staring right at her pubic zone in full daylight are slim.

    That is the thing though, with some things that are pretty obvious like sticking out/big inner labia the guy will almost definitely see/feel it when giving oral (but guy will give a girl oral if they are really very very close).

    For me, when my husband look at me – down there in lights on or during the day is a turn on and I feel him very attractive. There is no reason why girls / women worry so much about how they are down there - guys really in general do not mind look, they knows that it is as shallow as they will be happy enough to be down there to love whatever they find. They feel wetness and smoothness and take everything for granted, they are very happy with penetration! They do care about pubic hair maintenance or something. For most guys, the actual look of genitalia is not that important. The only thing most guys really care about is some relative control over pubic hair. Trimmed is enough good because there is no fun in finding an amazing sweet point hidden in the bush – in the darkness of night.

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  • They don’t care what the labia looks like. By that time the blood has drained from their brain. Goal is in sight.

    • Good one.. but I actually do care about the way a girl’s labia looks (especially after the blood has drained from my brain. Every girl’s is unique, beautiful and fascinating. 😋😉

    • @StrongMale Awe. That’s sweet.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Personally I myself am darker around my pubic area than the rest of the skin on my body, except maybe the inside corners of my elbow on the inside where elbow and arm join.

    Anyway, I do prefer ironically a woman who's vagina skin matches the rest of their other skin tone, pale preference is mine and into hair removal (Hollywood bald look). I'd date women 20 to 28 (my age), so I'm no cougar male. Though if I'm 40, I'd only date no younger than 30.

    Long answer, I do care what a woman's I'm dating vagina's look like or if they were my girlfriend, etc. Maybe I'm just personal preference to say, oh I just like pale women with pale vagina's who are into bikini laser (modern version of bikini wax).

    Peace 😈😃

  • I only care that the area is natural and not modified with labia surgery, bleached, or pubic hair removed. A man who is appreciative of the variations between women understands that no woman is the same as the next. Every woman is beautiful down there in her own right. Men who understand this and who are not influenced by porn will appreciate the female body the way it is.

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  • It really depends on the guy, as I'm sure there are some men out there who are very particular. However, most men don't care.

    All vaginas have at least some variation to their appearance, and that's perfectly normal. As long as you're hygienic, then you're golden, and we're perfectly happy with whatever you've got going on down there.

    Hell, we're just excited that we get to see it, lol. 😂

  • The guys I know all find the variety fascinating and always love exploring and enjoying.

    • @ushagomez you read my mind. Great point.

    • @JPresidente Oh, you got your explorer badge then?

    • @ushagomez I’m very close 😉

  • I'd say we care enough to appreciate the uniqueness of every woman's beautiful petals. Especially my girlfriend as I spread them petals to probe her clit and make her squirm in pleasure!

    I've never refused to get intimate with a girl based on appearance and once us men get penis in vagina things start to look the same and focus shifts from appearance to feel.

  • Really care? Nope... your vulva/vagina are yours and unique. Not looking for porn or for it to look like anyone else's. Embrace your you and if any guy wants you to look any other way than you look, ditch them. Politely but ditch them.

  • They'll likely never see your vagina your vulva on the other hand any guys who ever had the opportunity to be with a woman does not give two flying fucks what your lips look like

    • bingo!

    • I’ve seen plenty of vaginas.. and I do actually give a flying fuck what a gir’s labia looks like. Every girl’s is different, and I love that!

    • Are you a gynecologist or do you just have a speculum kink?

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  • it is a weird question... since the vagina is INSIDE YOUR BODY

  • I am fascinated by every detail of them and what they do.

  • There are no two vaginas looking the same. When I like a girl, sure I'm curious about how she looks there, but I will always like it anyway. When having fun I'm not sure many guys or girls mind how the vagina they're playing with looks. The important elements for me are how it feels and smells. By the way, I also like it when some elements seem more special, like a big or huge clit for instance, and I like natural hairy ;0)

  • i was just happy to be close enough to smell and taste it, i never cared how they all looked.

  • I think they all look neat

  • Well I’ve only been with one - my wife - and I think it’s pretty cool 🙂👍. I’ve seen porn vids on xxx sites and I see the different vulvas - they are all cool looking. Other than a unhealthy vagina - I don’t think there is such a thing as a bad or ugly vagina 🙂👍

  • As long as it's shaved all vaginas are beautiful

  • No! Only how it smells.

  • He doesn't mind as long as you dont look like its been stretched out side body by real long

  • I have yet to see a vigana I didn't like.

  • I was educated by my wife. I understand little better.

    I still love it how the vagina grips around my cock when having sex

  • I believe Id like most of them. Few that I wouldn't.

  • They all look the same in the dark

  • I've NEVER hated a vagina EVER!

  • Personally not really. I know that changes and looks different for everyone.

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