Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health So I'm 19, and looking for a boyfriend. The thing is, I have a really fast matabalosim, and that kinda results in me being very petite. I mean I'm 5'5" and about 110 pounds, I have barely anything there. It's something I'm very self conscience of, but I want to know... Do guys really care about that stuff? And if they do what do guys think of my Taylor swift body type? I just want to put that question to bed, do guys care about the size of my boobs?
Do guys really care about breast/butt size?
Ambz101 Xper 4
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Thank you so much to everyone who responded! It wasn't so much that i am unconfident in myself, I am, just not OVERLY confident... I don't know if that makes sense? i never really felt bad in the skin I was in until this whole thing blew up about girls who are "thick" are mega beautiful (which I think they are gorgeous) it just made me doubt myself my own body type? Especially since I am now in a new setting (collage) and have no idea what to expect.
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19 83Some people care and some don't but I like petite girls like a lot of guys do.
I believe guys do care about busy size... It's just that you should not let any negative thoughts come on to your mind. Be strong and feel confident about your ownself
when it comes down to a real boyfriend then looks don't matter the person inside matters once guys grow up then they will know that too
I definitely like the size
This is a question that change by person. I am a guy who like skinny women. I like breast of all sizes. I prefer buts that are larger but dont really care if its not. Taylor swift body type is fine with me.
some do some dont just like women some care how big a guy is some dont all depends on the person i think some women are like guys and worry about how big something is all that matters is what you and the person your with thinks about each other and yourself
Unless they're unreasonably large, I don't actually care about the size of these things
I don't particularly, I have a preference but I've never taken their size into account when I've found someone attractive or not.
Sort of I guess.. I would rather small perky boobs over big saggy ones. And I prefer small butts over big ones
you should have confidence. also i personally don't care about boobs, i'm a butt person. eat healthy, do exercise to keep your body in a good shape and be natural!
Well, first of it, you had forgot to add your body measures. I don't know about Taylor Swift's measures, so...
There are those who do care about that and those who only want you but do know there those dudes just have someone who respect you and willing to except you for who you are.
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I actually like petite girls, medium or small breasts and not a big butt, nor very big hips. I don't know it's intimidating. And too much for me lol. Men's preferences are random then I guess. Or maybe I'm unique? Nah I'm not
I personally prefer petite/skinny women with small breast. My girlfriend is about your size 5'.5" and 110lbs.
My best friend prefer really voluptuous women. Every guy is different
Your genuinely beautiful 19 your lifes just beginning 😘
I will be genuinely honest. I am 6'0, Indian, not white and pack a below average, normal guy and every man in this World is attracted to Boobs, big or small, surgery or real. I mean, they are Sex organs in our body, they are meant to be looked at and boys will get intimidated. So, you don't have to worry about boob size, as every man is attracted to them. If they are not and they say I only care about G cup or bigger, they are being a Jackass infront of you.
Get a boyfriend who don't judge your boob sizes and instead who genuinely Loves you with who you are in real. Give him back your love, your affection, your care and I guarantee, he will pay it back in the bed. And yes don't yap about your weight infront of a guy, he can get annoyed. And if you have a Taylor Swift body, get a guy who loves Taylor Swift songs and you will be 95% sure he won't judge your body. Just don't get those guys who compare themselves to pornstars, you will have a bad time.
You want the truth…you CAN handle the truth!
There are always exceptions/different tastes/different opinions, but this will answer your question:
LOOKS ALONE
If it were ‘looks’ alone, the MAJORITY (but read below) of guys I know automatically gravitate to the stereotypical ‘hot thin-but-curvy blonde with big-tits’ mentality. It’s partly societal but partly evolutionary - the same reason the MAJORITY of girls gravitate to tall guys - but…BIG BUT…
***While not the majority, there is a minority of guys (but they are everywhere) who PREFER small chests and tiny butts. They are certainly not the majority but I know many guys who are societally ‘hot’ by girls standards who PREFER your ‘type’.
And, on the superficial front, if you want to feel ‘wanted’ and ‘sexually attractive’, we are EXACTLY like our friends who can be ‘pigs’ when it comes to big tits - when we see a petite girl with a small/flat chest and a tiny butt we get turned on and we talk about EXACTLY the same way too…“holyyy fuck…did you see the body on her…she is SMOKING” and even (“that’s going in the bank”!)
When we look at porn, we get off on ogling over hot petite girls. Search “porn and small tits” or any variation that suits you - ‘no tits’ or ‘flat chest’ or ‘tiny ass’ whatever - you will have no doubt there is NO SHORTAGE of guys who want and prefer your type.
And, honestly, the guys who like your type don’t think there are enough of you to go around.
BEYOND LOOKS
The same MAJORITY of guys perceive the stereotypically ‘hot’ girls are not as fun or in the bedroom. They have lots of guys in their orbit and again this is generalizing - but we don’t think they put the same effort in perhaps because they don’t think they need to
Like EVERYONE, we all want a partner who is loyal, honest, loves us etc etc.. and all guys like open-minded, fun to be with partners.
That’s it
but if you want to know ‘who am I to say’ read on:
Although I am as far as you can get from what is ‘societally hot’ for girls, I haven’t met a single guy - even the ‘hot guys’, who comes close to having dated as many ‘societally hot’ girls than I have. I am 5’5” and nerdy - not too hard on the eyes, but overly confident (to compensate for lifelong insecurities), and fun and funny as fuck…HERE IS WHY:
I am not intimidated by the so-called ‘hot girls’. I like them. They are not unattractive, but they just aren’t my type. It’s easy to be myself, tease and flirt, and most of all - joke around with them…I date them because I am not just dating them for their looks and their is a good connection. Truthfully, if I met someone like you I would be less comfortable, worried I might come on too strong etc etc, and would probably fuck it up.
Ambz101, I don’t you to tell you that sex appeal is a package - looks is only one part of the equation - which must include confidence and some level of fun/funny.
”Funny guys are dangerous, they’ll make you laugh and laugh and laugh then BOOM, you’re naked” - that sort-of describes me and give me some confidence. Find something that you can gravitate back to that highlights your unique qualities.
Be yourself. Be kind. There are PLENTY of great guys who will like you for you
…not the least of which is that hot little body, you smoke-show ;)
Accept yourself. You, and your body are beautiful. Men do not care (unless they're a numskull!). I think women have been poisoned by depictions of sex & attraction within rich people culture (aka the mainstream media). Most men are more complicated than the sleazy men that make up Hollywood or your instagram feed full of phony influencers. Be proud of yourself, dude! It's not worth dwelling on, Get in ur skin! :)
Everyone has a preference with things, some really like a thicker body type and that appears to be a bit biological but the common beauty standards seems to change throughout time.
For me I'm really attracted to petite/slim/athletic builds. So small breasts and bums are super attractive to me. This isn't a be all and end all rule. I think a key part is a degree of social media and media in general that make people feel insecure along with just human nature.
I would have to say from your description it's very attractive to build/figure. I hope you don't mind my saying that.