Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Do incels deserve to be loved?
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I have some incel friends and to be honest i didn't know there are people like that, out there... Do they still deserve being loved?
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No, it's not only this... not anyone who can't get into a relationship is an incel. They also HATE women because they "owe" them sex and don't give it to then. Many times people describe an incel as an ugly one, but personally i think anyone can be an incel if he has this misogynistic mindset (and not only)
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23 43Yes, they do.
I think that term gets thrown around too much. A guy frustrated from not being able to get into a relationship is not the same thing as a "incel" based on what I read about them.
Yeah
An incel is a person who can't establish any kind of romantic relationship in his or her present form. So yeah, "A guy frustrated from not being able to get into a relationship" IS an incel.
Not only that... incel is mostly a man who get hate women because they don't want to date him or have sex with him (even though they "owe" him) and is also said that an ugly one is an incel... i believe that anyone can be an incel if he has this misogynistic mindset (and not only...)
@Benedek38 no incels are usually violent
@JellyDonutguy96 Literally two violent crimes were commited by incels who proclaimed their inceldom. More murders were commited in the name of any religion or politicla ideology. Hell, even feminism is responsible for more murders. So how are incels violent?
Some people would prefer they take a rifle, go to the bell tower and start picking off everyone in town 😂😂😂
Lol.
They don't deserve shit, thats the point. They think people owe them something for existing, wrong.
I don't know what incel means
It's a self-inflicted condition. The common definition of the term makes it clear that these are males who want to blame others for their own shortcomings. Until they solve THAT problem, the'y're not going to solve the celibacy thing.
That's such a weird way to put it.
They're basically defined by being unloved, not by any action they take or things they believe. So it looks like 'do unloved people deserve love?'
Well no, in the sense that no one deserves anything because the universe doesn't work like that. But also yes in the sense that they don't deserve not to be loved either and if we want peaceful, happy societies then we should nurture our culture to facilitate abundant and evenly distributed love.
Being misogynist is not part of being incel by definition, that's something assholes come up with because they think it means they are allowed to hate on incels. Less calling people names and show some compassion.
I love you don't you love me.
See, look at the woman. Woman are allowed to be selfish and picky. Women are considered to have more value than a freaking man. All woman have to do is sit on their ass and get pregnant. What if the poll said fat woman don't deserve love because they don't take care of themselves
When i first met these guys I was confused and a little mad. But then i realized that they seem to have an unhealthy addiction to attention. They must have been raised to have a low confidence or only value themselves on the opinions of others. People like these usuallly grow up in overly sheltered or overly rough enviorments. They do not need love , they need support from close friends , family and therapists. I am fine with them hating the group off people that caused their pain. But some tend to fall into the category of wanting to commit violent acts. If they keep chasing and obesssing over love they only hurt themselves.
they are mentally fucked love will only ruin them
Do I deserve to be loved? I don't think so, I'm not as compassionate or caring as others, I can't empathize with people. I feel the need to have a partner but being desperate only makes it worse. I can only speak for myself but then someone who isn't like me can probably do better.
They also HATE women - No they don't deserve it.
It's natural selection, man, what can I say?
It's mindset and a little of genes...
They were either born into a situation they couldn't succeed in or were later in one. Either way it's too much for them and this means they're weak in a way. So they don't get to spread their shitty seed.
Yep... although mankind has break this "rule" and now almost everybody can "spread his seed"... ugly/fat/weak, unless the girl is too picky or the man has no qualities at all In the animal kingdom still works😂
The one I see most is dumb people spreading like fire
Not until they change their thinking. Until then they and all their relationship is a mess to me.
Yes, all people deserve love
Compassion, dignity, and love, yes if everyone had these the world would be a great place.
Love isn't a right. If you really really can't get a girl then you're just of inferior genetic material and unfit to breed. You should be mad at yourself not others. Anyone who doesn't think that deserves no love
Fuck no
No one deserves love but they don't deserve the hate.
Depends on how they view women and if they go on a guilt trip too much.