Do men fail with women because they chase lesbians?

The map in the photo shows the most common porn search terms across America. It is logical to assume that this is what guys look for when trying to find a partner. After all if your into big breasted MILFS your not going to chase teens with fried egg tits are you.

Now according to the map, lesbian porn is the most popular. Now guys, there's a reason that lesbians reject you. They're lesbians. As for the step-sister/mom states well I'll let them explain their rejection to you

Now we also see a lot of gender bashing on here from Americans. But here's the thing, you all want to sleep with lesbians or better still your lesbian sister so is it any wonder so many girls are becoming lesbian, it's the only way they can get some dick.
Do men fail with women because they chase lesbians?
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  • Pffft, no. Men fail with women because the dating economy is so messed up.
    People can't be honest with each other and rather ghost someone over every slight inconvenience, momentarily awkward moment; because they don't want to get to know someone & only want hookups, would rather hookup with them first then date them, only want to play mind games, only giving 1 word replies, don't want to ask questions leaving the other to be the only one asking & showing interests, having unrealistic expectations, having an unrealistic view of how romance should be, having an unrealistic view of what is "a good man", unrealistic unserstanding of beauty, people having major insecurities they don't want to acknowledge and work on...
    simply put, people don't know how to be honest and just have fun on dates getting to know their interests, they just make everything complicated for themselves.

    On another note, is it really that hard to let the guy know what he did wrong to let him understand what to improve about himself?

    • Ikr !!!

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  • I say let them. I don’t wait around on a woman to want me. I got so much other stuff going on in my life, that pussy is just pussy. If I get it, great, if not, shit I’m making money, going different places and hanging out with my friends. Usually there is no issues because most women want money, and they want a man they can usually manipulate to give them money or gifts or anything for free.. and most dumb ass weak men would do anything to get the pussy. When it should be the other way around.. if that women wants the money she needs to do everything she can to be worth my time, effort and money. She make her own great, ain't trippin, I’m not wasting my time chasing her. I just have higher standards and expect more from women than that. So if they want to go lesbian, good for them and who cares. Doesn’t stop me from doing what I do on a regular basis.

    • Apart from the mysogny. Yeah I agree, as men we should just live our lives and be happy work hard help society learn to live without sex being constant reminder of our existence. Friendship and emotional connection is very much underrated.

Most Helpful Girls

  • chasing lesibans is definitely one way for a man to fail at finding a girlfriend but i guess maybe the porn people look at isn't exactly the same as what they go for irl so it doesn't really make a difference

  • in my personal experience as a lesbian, that is why men fail with me, lol, even when they know I'm a lesbian they keep trying...

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  • So far, from west to east, I have visited the states of Lesbian, Lesbian, Lesbian, Lesbian, Step Sister, Step Mom, Lesbian, Lesbian and Lesbian. lol For bonus points, try and guess which states they are. 😂

  • I'm not sure. It's possible that some men are so inept at pleasing women that the women resort to lesbian sex because women know what it takes to satisfy a woman.

    After all, most women orgasm more easily from oral stimulation and everyone knows that women are adept with their lips and tongues.

    (Don't get mad, guys. This was tongue in cheek.)

  • Nah. I think many men look for lesbian porn because seeing other guys having sex turns them off. (similarly some women enjoy gay male porn).

    In addition porn is fantasy. Many people have fantasies about things they don't want in real life.

    That said, there may be some hope that if a lesbian girl falls for them, they will invite their girlfriend as well...

  • Men fail with women because:
    a. Men do not know what they really want.
    b. Women do not know what they really need.

    My state (WTF!) prefers cartoons!
    My menu choice is not even on the map.
    Wondering what the UK prefers. "Poofters"?

    • We know exactly what we want, but there is a 13th amendment -- not my fault.

  • Failure is a learning experience... to do better next time.

  • Although I do not really understand your question, let me state that women with a taste for women have something more than purely hetero women. I know for sure most men would learn a lot from lesbians because they know how to please other women. In any case, as a hetero man, I like my partner to have also a little wee spot for female charms. It's not that odd as one may imagine.

  • I would be ashamed to call myself American if I didn't try to sleep with lesbians. The word "America" means that it is my duty and privilege as a white male from the most superiorest country in the world to force second-class citizens to bend to my will. If you disagree, then I suggest you watch my Youtube channel call "Orgasmosphere" with a good set of headphones on.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/Dn7-Sek5HJs
    • what are you talking about lol

    • @lucymw you know exactly what I'm talking about, kissy face

    • no i dont?

  • I don’t understand trying to sleep with a lesbian.

    As a straight man, could a gay me convince me to try penis? No. Prob how lesbians feel.

  • That's actually happened to me before, but in my defense, how the fuck was I supposed to know she was lesbian? She lead me on

  • Most of the other dudes are chasing lesbians? Cool! With a face like mine any decrease in competition for female attention helps.

  • I wouldn't sleep with a lesbian, friends? Sure. Nothing more.

  • Since a Supreme Court Justice can not give a definition of a woman. How can a man know what sexual orientation a person applies to themselves or what organs are between their thighs?
    After all. There are only 50 or more sexual classifications for humans!
    But then some “ manly men “ that think they can screw a lesbian straight! 🏋️🪛

  • I’m big into lesbians …

  • men dont "fail" with women, the alarmingly high percentage of singles among teens is mostly due to hypergamy and girls thinking they are deserve much better than they offer, if they are slightly better looking than average, they think they deserve a 185cm tall guy who drives a Ferrari, they dont actually look for a relationship, they only look for material, and sex.

    just like how porn destroyed the male population with instant gratification of sexual content, the exact same has happened to women with social media and instant attention and validation, give them 15 years or so and they realize being a slut doesn't really give them a personality, and they'll end up a lonely damaged goods with a worn out body.

    its really tragic seeing society get destroyed like that and yet there is no public movement about it at all

  • Sure is a lot of lesbian porn being watched but I never watch that so I don’t know how they came up with that even if they say it’s people search engine but not what that has to do with anything, maybe they are hoping for a threesome in their fantasy

  • Nope. The vast majority of porn viewers who watch lesbian porn are women, not men.

  • The Brits do.

  • You do realize it is women, not men, who are searching for lesbian porn, right?

    Do men fail with women because they chase lesbians?
  • I guess that women in the UK fail in their relationships because most UK men are latent homosexuals. Is that right? Or is there a strong difference between fantasy and reality?

    If you hate the US as much as it appears, why do you frequent a site which is predominantly vsited by American users? Why don't you confine your disguised venom to the UK?