Do men like it more when the girl/woman initiates their sex, or does he want to be the initiator?

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How do the guys feel when she takes charge of how it's going to go - ?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Honestly it needs to go both ways or the relationship won’t last , basically if someone is constantly giving without receiving , they will lose interest in that person cuz they feel like they are the only one giving , when a girl or guy constantly denies their partner intimacy and affection they are more than likely going to be dumped or cheated on , why it’s important to make it go both ways , even if you aren't in the mood , please your partner in other ways , don’t just make it about yourself , that’s where most relationships tend to fail because most people in general are selfish people, that only really care about themselves , they do know how to wear their partner’s shoes like they expect their partner to do for them , For a relationship to last, especially nowadays both partner’s have to make each other their top priority over everyone , If you can’t make your partner your top priority then be prepared to be dumped or cheated on because you are choosing selfishness over choosing your partner.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I like it when she submits to my desires or eagerly agrees to my proposals. But it's also super fun when she entices me or acts like a ravenous beast.
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It's not a matter of whether she or I initiates. I like both. She can initiate all she wants. But I also love it when she submits to my cravings.

Apple1996 · Answer

I like to be the one to initiate sex. Feels kind of awkward when a man does it tbh

SnowedIn · Answer

Both are awesome! Totally fine if she wants to initiate.

NathanDavis · Answer

I like best when both are happening... depending on the moods and all that, variety can bring a lot of spice much better than "routine" for sure

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

When she initiates. I don't want to have to be the only one to do anything. I don't want to cook all the time I don't want to clean all the time I don't want to get dirty all the time. There's two people involved both should be participatory.

strateguy632 · Answer

i prefer when she wants she started kissing my neck etc. if not i start kissing her neck.

slatyb · Answer

It's great. We all want to feel desired.

Sixgunsound · Answer

Both are good

AviatorTom · Answer

I love it when she initiates sex... but not all the time. Let's take turns.

Molly1997 · Answer

I think they like 50/50. I’m not good when I try to initiate sex I just stare at him lol

Fireguy17 · Answer

Nothing better than to feel wanted and desired by another person.  So if she makes the first move, ties herself to the bed, or climbs on top and helps herself that is fine with me.