Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I've heard my friends, sisters and cousins when they speak about how embarrassed and insecure they've felt during sex. Most of those insecurities come from the thought that they might not look desirable enough for their man. For example, a week ago my sister mentioned she hoped her husband never noticed her weight gain, her cellulite or the pregnancy scars in her belly during sex because she was embarrased for him to see them. I saw her so worried about this, that led me to ask this question. Do men even pay attention to those "imperfections" that the majority of women worry so much to cover?
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Do men pay attention to women's "imperfections" during sex?
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17 67No, I didn't have sex before
If she Has extreme imperfections like bad excess skin and stretch marks from formerly being fat it would turn be off, otherwise i will notice it but won't be turned off. Either way women are more attracted to themselves and care far more about how they look during sex than what their partner looks like.
Yes we notice, but is not a turn off in some circumstances.
IF we did... Roger wouldn't deploy! That's how you know we don't care about your"imperfections"... at least while fucking your brains out.
What's annoying is when you women act like there's nothing there and then get mad when we do notice and mention it. You knew that (whatever it is) was a problem so don't get all hurt when we mention it..., especially when you brought it up in the first place.
My woman is chunky. I never mention her gut. But, when she complains about not fitting stuff and that she hates how she can't get in her clothes then it's annoying. Either do something about it or stop complaining about it and get rid of the clothes that DON'T fit. Either be happy with and accept your size, or lose the weight and be happy. Just pick one and be happy.
more often than not we will eventually notice, but we rarely care. women tend to care more about that stuff and guys never think about it
It's women that are blessed with multi-core processing. If we have sex, that's what it is. We don't put together a shopping list, notice dirty curtains and complain that the music isn't right while in the middle of the action.
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I notice them, but they're not a big deal. I would hope girls would think the same way about my stretch marks.
Let me tell you something. We know ALL AND EVERYTHING about your imperfections. Whether your butt goes a bit puffy, whether you gain a few pounds or your face gets 2 more wrinkles. If we have sex you then it means we just dont give a shit about them. If you do and become worried, insecure, whinny etc, then THIS IS the turn off. Stop worrying and feel sexy.
im not turned off by her imperfections i love my lady. i feel to love her is to love her body including her imperfections. they are what make her who she is and unlike anyone else she is all the woman i love imperfections and all.
Imperfections are what you truly appreciate what you have in yourself and the other person, sooner or later you will be thanking the beholder, for anyone too perfect will
be shallow, vain and dangerous.
We usually notice stuff before we even get to the fuckin. You'll only know that we know if we show that we're uninterested or tell the woman in question that something about her bothers us (which is rude AF but some dudes actually do that). Nobody's perfect and, at least when it comes to me and dudes I know, we don't expect perfection. It's OK to not live up to society's superficial standards. Just don't ever let how you feel about yourself affect how you treat those around you.
No one's perfect ; I am far from being perfect, and anyone who expects perfection is bound to be disappointed.
Meaning : it shouldn't really matter.
We aren't perfect either but we love each other enough to overlook each others flaws
We're more focused on our own insecurities.
I think its more when I was young cause when i was a teen girls where perfect in my eyes they where amazing and special all that good stuff
so when I saw an imperfection it became noticeable until eventually I realized women are not perfect they have flaws now it doesn't even matter I expect imperfection
No they don't because they all want to ejaculate, so they will ignore the imperfections
well every want the perfection for sure.. but in your sister case his husband knows she is my wife now which she can't leave and knows he has to stick with her what ever comes so he wouldn't mind it.. may be he can't speak off but surely he love to be scar less but being a mom and so much stuff going on i know its a lot of effort to do. but for singles it matters a lot those who say's it wouldn't matter only want holes not love
Not at all if I love her
Not really, I'm more than happy to see the women I'm having sex with naked. If I would have thought about her "imperfections" I would not have wanted to see her naked so bad. "Imperfections" are usually beautiful