Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Do most women find virgin men undateable and unattractive?
Anonymous
Ok, so I am nearly 30 years old, and a virgin. I have done everything sexual with my exes, except for intercourse. I was born and raised in an ultra-conservative country, where sex before marriage is viewed as a sin. I struggled with all the restriction, but I now live in a developed country since a few months. I wanted to get back into the dating scene here, but it seem like women want sexually experienced men, and me being a virgin at 30, means I'm almost written off as a potential partner. Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute, just to become eligible to date (prostitution is legal here)? I'd really not prefer to do that. And I'm not even looking only for virgin women. I'm fine with anyone.
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Except for me being a virgin, there is nothing 'conservative' about me, in spite of my upbringing. I'm quite open-minded.
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I don't go around proclaiming that I'm a virgin. I even tend to avoid this topic. I only reveal this if the matter comes up as part of a general conversation.
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What Girls & Guys Said
54 38In my experience, yes.
you can tell them you are not a virgin, u dont have any hymen to break so they wouldn't know XD
But they will come to know about my inexperience when we do try to have sex.
Most young women (ay 18-25 yo ) might indeed think 30 yo virgin men undateable and unattractive. Single women nearing 30 will probably react differently.
Well you've come to the right place. Gag is full of virgin support. As far as attractive or not, that's impossible to determine with no information about you. But I will say in the US, do be in your 20s and virgin you are either veryyy religious or very shy/awkward.
Yes. Just pay for it and get it over with already. You're already a decade past your sexual prime, leave it for any longer and you'll never get to know what good sex feels like.
Honestly? Yes, they do. Girls have higher regard to men who have been in other relationships, and had sex prior. It gives them a positive image of the guy: "He had sex, he is experienced, there are more chances he will know how to please me."
Don't pay for sex if that's not what you really want. If you chose to not disclose any of this to a girl, it's completely fine. If you find yourself with your back against the wall and you feel you are able to lie, then that is completely fine as well. Don't give details and just say yes you've been with other girls, simple.
Hmmm... alright! I may not lie outright, but I'll try to handle this in a diplomatic way, if the situation arises.
At your age, yes.
Even if I lived in a conservative, sexually repressed county until a few months ago?
OP not gunna make it
Tbh i prefer a virgin man so we can lose our virginity to each other i don't care if he's not experienced 😩 (As they say first time is always akward) and i don't think that most women find virgin men unattractive, conversely
Thanks a lot! :)
If a girl really loves you then it would not matter to her if you are a virgin or not..!
And to most girls it doesn't matter anyways..
If a girl rejects you for that then she ain't worth it anyways..
But can I ask you why are you virgin at 30 I mean confidence issue? Busy, scared of approaching? Or what?
Thanks! Did you read my question description? I have done everything sexual with ny exes, except for intercourse. I was born and raised in an ultra-conservative country, where we are made to believe since childhood that sex before marriage was 'wrong'.
Yes I read that but if even if you had not done anything sexual with anyone still that does not mean you are undatable
easy. don't tell anyone ur a virgin. right before it's time to fuck, get yourself high or buzzed a little and blame any issues on that.
What the hell am i reading, i mean like this does not make sense at all, and by the way how the hell will she even know you are even virgin, i think you are just putting your self down, you are righting off your self, just be confident
I would date a virgin
Well has a male who has been in similar situations what you say ain't foreign women are picky and Virgins are not the pick probably these girls are extremely nice or something. Even the first girl have ever love gave her virginity to some more experienced guy before she offered to have coitus with me.
The prostitue idea ain't the best way to go either. Just hold out you find someone, oh and you got to know how to use your tool if you gonna go with a virgin girl for the first time, experience females are more open to inexperienced males though. But as you are now wear that virginity as a shield of honor once lost can never be regained. Hope this helps
virgin guy is repulsive to women. If you don't have at least few sexual partners behind your belt at that age, you dun goofed. Just lie about sexual partner count, it's something women do by default.
yes they do, thank god i hunk
Luckily it didn't matter to my wife. She told me it was refreshing to her that I wasn't another hoe who banged every woman with a pulse.
You and your wife are both lucky! :)
She is way more sexually experienced than me. I am so lucky to have her.
I'm 22 and still virgin and i'm saving my virginity till marriage to my future wife <3 as i'm a muslim guy , I want a virgin girlfriend too
What country are you from? I just want to know about a country which is developed yet ultra conservative.
Sri Lanka
Okay.
everything fine and dandy right right? hahaha