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Sexual Health Do other married women flirt? Is this Cheating or Flirting? Men and women answer, please?
Anonymous
I dont know why but I like the approval of men. Most of the time I get that through them making passes at me. I am a married woman of 25. Do any of the other women here like when men flirt back? How far do you take it? I have had an affair with a man I loved. It is over. I do know that was wrong. He wouldn't leave his wife because of the kids. I flirt a lot, nothing major but I love to see that I can get a man hard. I fantasize about it all the time. I especially like men with power or position. I have a hard time not coming onto my boss. I also seem to get a real thrill from men who are married. I think a lot of it is that I dont want to cheat on my husband. He thinks the world of me and works like a dog to build a better life for us. I dont let it get too far. Usually once they kiss me or (sometimes) touch my breasts i know I have to back off. It is funny but they seem to be much more interested in me than single men. Of the married men at work and with my friend's husbands, there is only one out of about 10 or 12 that I haven't had a response from. Most are quite taken with me and more than happy to advance upon me. Of the 6 married friends of miine. 5 of their husbands have kissed my breasts. Does anyone else do this? Am I that different? Is this just flirting or is it cheating?
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I don't understand all the anger. Im not doing anything everyone else isn't doing...
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What Girls & Guys Said
8 18You are putting yourself into position to ruin your marriage. You are holding off on going to far (as you put) it for now, but how about when you have an argument with your husband down the road?
Another thing--men and women cheat differently. Men may cheat purely for physical reasons and have no emotional involvement with the affair at all. For women, it often is emotional cheating first, then physical cheating (and emotional cheating is in some ways worse, because it means you've given up on your established relationship).
You are playing with fire. You are like an alcoholic with stashes everywhere, but claim you aren't an alcoholic because you only took a sip--from each bottle.
Emotional cheating? I am still human. But I don't cheat. (Except that once and I called it off)
Alcoholics usually don't call themselves alcoholics.
Explain?
There's a saying: "the first step toward solving a problem is admitting that there is a problem to begin with"