Yeah for a lot it’s a way of life.
a lot of people are naturally submissive, Dominant (Dom’s and Dommes) or switch.
The scene in the UK is pretty decent, with regional munches and plenty clubs to visit. Some of which are full on fetish clubs such as Torture Garden.
it’s very much a social thing to be in to and I personally believe BDSM relationships are often stronger than vanilla ones, mainly as Trust is really huge part of the lifestyle.
Having been in a ‘few’ long term D/s relationships, it’s not exactly 24/7 365 but it is there in the background, more so if you decide on a more CNC lifestyle.
There is a lot of stuff that porn, movies such as 50 shades, gets wrong and it’s a fairly big umbrella of kinks that are covered in a lifestyle D/s relationship.
There has been a rise of interest in the lifestyle and kinks since January 2020 and no doubt it will increase.
The main point about a Dominant, is that they are really there for their submissive and not the other way around (ish lol).
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I'd guesstimate for guys about half of us lean either way. If you want strictly dom that's probably one in five or so. Perhaps one in ten who identifies as dom more in a scene sense. For the sake of numbers I'd guess roughly half of those are into a more lifestyle dom setup. I'd randomly guess that 5% is probably about 1% if you're into girls. Numbers are of course not accurate.
So well, if all you want is someone who prefers the dominant side in the bedroom that's easy enough to find. Someone who enjoys it to some degree is very easy to find as it would be the majority of people. Aaaand if you want someone who wants to live that role and not just play at it, that could be done but nearly requires you find look for it specifically.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I like being dominant and I’d hate being a sub or switching. It’s what works for me. It makes me feel better, and it makes me feel me. So, yeah, pure doms exist.
I guess it really depends on what you mean. I am who I am because I like who I am. Whether that is dominant or not is pretty irrelevant. If you mean more as a kink, then dom/sub stuff is absolutely not a way of life for me. I am not a slave to my fetishes.
Interesting perspective.
yeah I tend to agree, I do like to protect my girlfriend out of the bedroom.
in bed we take turns flipping roles of don/sub as we are both on the more aggressive side
No I love to role play and there's a lot of girls that like to be dominated in real life or just in role-play it's pretty hot sexy plus I'm a very detailed person and when it comes to role play I've been very detailed it's as if I'm in the moment
How far do you want to take the "sub' lifestyle?
I'm like 80/20 dominant. The 20% comes from me enjoying eating a girl out and getting her off before my dick ever comes out. I don't know if taking pride in that is a sub or dom trait but it's there
yeah otherwise they wouldn't be doms lol
Yeah we exist
For most people it’s just RP
Sure In bed I am usually Dominant guy
I would be fine with you being my sub in bed ;)
I couldn't agree with you more I enjoy being Dominant with the girl I am with but not to the point of causing harm or pain.
Most women do
It depends on the people
It has been a lifestyle for me since the start luv, a roleplay is just part we are acting but I am not acting i am living.
Depends on what you mean by that.
In reality I would say a man being PURELY dominant is very rare compared to a woman being purely submissive. And it is complicated because many men might be very dominant in the bedroom but not very dominant day to day. Or very dominant day to day but not very dominant in the bedroom.
I think a lack of flexibility will make it hard to find a partner you like in all ways and give you a very very small pool of men to choose from. So you have to decide how important different qualities are to you and prioritize! EVERYONE settles because no one is perfect :)
Do you like to be dominated or u dominat guys,
It depends the factor is personality
Most people (men and women) prefer the submissive role. That's a fact. But dominant people do exist. It is not easy to find a dominant person because there are WAY more submissive people than dominant people.
Also for a lot of submissive’s it’s finding a Dominant that meets their needs, that is often the harder part. That and trust.
Dominant ladies are almost non-existent , very rare.
I could not be dominant 😂
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