Do the majority of men want to be dominated in bed?

Is this a real turn on, or is it more of a treat because guys are doing less of the work? I’m curious because I like taking on this role I enjoy taking control! I tend to have better sex this way only I’m afraid I might freak out the new guy I’m seeing.

Do the majority of men want to be dominated in bed?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Depends on what you consider control or your extent of control.

    I love a woman that would start to take my clothes off and tease me and shove me down and use my cock. But not all the time. And also, I'm no one's pet. As well, if you degraded me during, then you'd be pushed off in no time. But I don't mind the girl saying things like, "I'm going to fuck YOUR brains out", while my hands are tied. But not with a strap on, just their pussy. Or if they wanted to take out my cock when they felt like it. That's hot to me since it feels like they crave me all the time and can't help themselves.

  • The the majority of men in GAG? the majority of men in real life prefer to be dominant, in everything, after all men are tough. Also many men don't trust a woman enough to let her take control. That said letting the woman do all the work have some appeal, and there is no better way for a woman to show that she is interested, then to be more active.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Nothing can't be generalized, men love to dominate me, fuck me rough, wild & hard. I like that & to switch as well.

  • I dont think it’s the majority but people can be so different behind closed doors. There’s someone for everyone.

  • Not all men. Some guys get freaked out by a fearless and dominant woman.

    • Especially if she want to emasculate them with a strep on, which is understandable.

  • A lot of men do. It's tons of fun, my friends with benefits loves it.

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  • I'm into it, has nothing to do with being lazy, I love when a girl Dominates me, the whole dynamic of her being in control and me being helpless or under her control is crazy hot to me

  • No men as a majority are biologically inclined to dominate in bed... personally I like both ways I like a woman that will be forward and try to take it from me aggressively sometimes and one that'll let me be the aggressor too

  • Take control, you'll be surprised by how many men are going to go along with it. If it's your first time with him it should be mutual dominating. You have your control and he has his if thats what he wants. It feels good and I enjoy it when my partner does it

  • I prefer taking control if i'm being honest. I am usually the one who initiates and determines the situation, what position we are doing, how fast/slow we go etc.

    I don't really get turned on by this. I just prefer it because i'll be able to last longer if I control what we are doing.

  • i love when women want to be in control. It just makes for a dope experience. I want to be in control sometimes, and I like for her to be in control also.

  • I FUCKING LOVE BEING DOMINATED. Maybe to satisfy my bisexual curiosity but I would love it if a woman had her way with me in any sexual encounter.

  • I love being dominated. There is no feeling like it. Although I can't explain why. But i can promise you its not so i can just lay there. And honestly every person is different, so when trying out someone new, i wouldn't assign roles of sub and dom the first time, i would just see what happens and then see if he is more dom or sub based on how much he takes control that time.

  • I love a dominent women who likes it a bit rough as well etc, and maybe like hand-cuffed or something like that, but not too extreme. But it depends on what she'd want to do the me and if I'm ok with it, then I wouldn't mind.

    Also is she was submissive and let me do what I'd like to her etc.

    So I'd say I'd like it to be 50/50 when it comes to what goes on in the bedroom.

  • Most do not, but I am fine with it.

    • Are you having a difficult time finding a compatible guy who appreciates being dominated?

  • depends on the guy and mood.

    as a guy, i have a little worry in the back of my head that i might be pressuring a girl into sex. if she pulls out my cock and shoves it down her throat that fear is gone, and i will happily facefuck her brains out.

    that said, some guys are just lazy and want the girl to do the heavy lifting, and some guys hate being dominated and will swiftly try and flip you onto your face with your ass in the air.

  • I'll take that. But I also want my fair share of taking control too.

  • I have dreams if being dominated. I always wanted it to happen. But It happens.

  • Not sure about others, but the answer is NO in my case. I love to dominate. So I'm into submissive girls. That doesn't mean I disrespect my partner. I simply love it when she gives me her complete control.

  • Majority? i have no clue. But i sure do not mind. I love sex with a strong woman. No games, she communicates what she wants and you always know where you stand.

  • Not all guys want too be dominated per say. Guys vary from wanting to be dominate all the time to being submissive. A dominate guy might like it once in a while or some mix it up fun, but won't be down with not having control often. You probably need to find yourself a good little submissive slut to train.

  • No, and it's a good thing!

  • I really enjoy it and I think it's something a lot of men haven't experienced. Some guys might be sensitive about it. You should go for it. Either he is into it, or he is not the kind of guy you are looking for. Win win

  • Many guys do, but certainly not all.

  • I dont think most men enjoy it. Maybe it's the macho culture that men are raised in. But there are a lot of submissve men aswell, myself included. Nothing better than being dominated in bed :) And you should do what you enjoy. You'll only feel bad if you surpress your desires.

  • I like to be dominated by a woman but not every time. What I like about it is that it's more exciting and less predictable if she takes the lead and makes the decisions about what we are going to do. Also, it shows me she wants sex as much as I do.

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