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Do we place too much importance on sex these days?
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like in relationships /marriage
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Yes you do. Sex is not important in a relationship
Everything is about sex and all i hear from people nowaday is "how big was his dick?" "How many times did he cum?" "She had some huge titties" and the most common is "i fucked your bitch". Ugh its annoying
You hate sex?
@multitudea why should she hate it? I agree with her.. There is nothing wrong with sex, but it became very superficial and that is the problem.
@Yanika I don't know I guess most women hate men and sex
@multitudea Where did you get that idea? Lol Are you sure it is not just something you personally face? :P
@Yanika you feel so? That women do have equal sexual feelings as men do and even women like sex and male body?
@multitudea women do have equal sexual feelings, they might like male bodies as well but they don't give that much importance to looks as men do.
@Yanika but why do women never say they like men and they never intiate sex with a man? :/
@multitudea Because you are men. It depends on where you are from, but even in the West there is something as society pressure and society expectations. Traditionally your role is to chase women and our job is to not give in too quick. Women were raised in this mentality, and many don't want to appear slutty. Things are changing nowadays but many women still have this unconsciously.
@Yanika but deep down women do have sexual feelings and are sexually attracted to men?
@multitudea hell no, I just dont like how people only care about the sex in the relationship. Like if the girl or guy decided to stop fucking for awhile, the other one would cheat or leavw
It's strange how sex is such a big deal in a relationship yet we are constantly told as women that if we have sex we are not relationship material. Which one is it?
Sex on first or second date is not relationship material
@Brah63926 I do not do that
Past vs Current
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Look at Media. Heavy amount of sex. PORN and sexual content has become more and more mainstream.
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Children, teens, and adults turn to sex for relationships. People are just using each other to get off on. The traditional model is dating, relationship and sex in marriage as God plan it to be. Parents need to put a stop to those around their children stop the sex talk to them. Like my son who is 11, he has a female friend who is 11. They have been to school together from 1st grade. They are just friends. Brother and sister. You would not believe people who have in apply the sex junk about them. My wife and the girl mother has told a few women to take a hike and stay away from our children. At school, my son and the girls hold a low profile about their relationship with others so they will not have any sex remarks made. Other kids apply things about them which is nasty. Parents need to start teaching their children respect for others. That includes other people bodies and their genitals.
Yes we do. Unfortunately.
But I guess women don't really like and want sex In relationship anyway. It's just men who want and desire sex.
As a woman, personally you hate sex and men?
no, I don't hate men or sex. it's just a simple question, for me. as I see more people putting unrealistic expectation on their sex lives and when the person fails to fulfill it, they break up with that person. Why can't people spend so much energy and effort on getting to know someone well or have fun or travel with the person. that's just my opinion.
These days majority of relationship are solely for getting sex! Unfortunately even women want sex In a relationship once they get comfortable and easy as well as emotional for the guy. Even oral sex is becoming more common and is seen as normal these days even by Indian girls. That's odd
You are complete wrong. Female desire sex just as much as males. It the females who push children and teens into sex.
@Robin48 females push children and teens into sex. ? How?
it looks so.
No the opposite.
We have increasingly separated sex from relationships. I'm the one hand there's freedom to have sex outside them but then people inside them feel no obligation to having a good sex life inside their relationships. They treat them like a buddy who if they both feel like hooking up great if not take care
Of themselves. Then wonder why they fall apart.
In relationships /marriage? Absolutely not. If anything we do not place enough importance on it. Your attitude is one of the biggest reasons marriages fail.
yeah right, like sex is the only factor that's saving other marraiges from divorce. read a book
Like this?: www.amazon.com/.../ref=pd_sbs_14_t_1
As I said, your attitude is one of the biggest reasons marriages fail. Women like you are destined for failed marriages.
lol troll! couldn't handle my perspective, so tried getting under my skin. would love to see your marriage succeed with such a fine attitude of yours. cheers!
There is a reason it is called "making love". Open your eyes.
that doesn't mean, that should be given too much importance to the point of making it the only thing holding the relationship together. read my question again. maybe try opening your eyes.
I'm in a very successful marriage with a wonderful woman who thankfully recognizes the importance of sex. Our marriage is far more likely to be successful long term than one with a woman who thinks sex is unimportant like you.
A man would be wise to avoid marrying a woman like you because he is only asking for unhappiness.
I'm not saying it's unimportant, I'm just saying that it shouldn't be the only thing that a relationship has to feed on. well, good luck with your wife, I'm rooting for you. (for it to succeed, of course) . best wishes.
a man who wants just sex and nothing from me? good, I'm better off single. 😁
I never said anything about sex being the only thing. I said we do not place enough importance on the role sex plays in a healthy, happy relationship, and that is a fact. It is better understood today than, say, 2 years ago, but many people, especially women, downplay the importance of sex in keeping a long term relationship healthy and happy. Your question here is doing harm, not good.
You are the one who needs to read a book.
you just agreed with me. chill. I was trying to explain the exact same thing except in a different way. nevermind.
"Do we place too much importance on sex these days? like in relationships /marriage" These ^^ were your words. Care restate that?
in my opinions, not the question.
like the convo we just had
I don't understand what you just wrote.
okay... I was trying to make a point on how sex shouldn't be the only thing holding a marriage together and you made the exact same same point but from a different perspective. my question is about "too much" not about healthy amount of sex. healthy amount of sex is wanted. that is what I'm trying to tell you.
we both agreed on that same point. get it?
I have not agreed with you. Please stop saying that. You are backpedaling from your original question, which does not equate to me agreeing with you. Your question suggested we place too much importance on sex in marriage. The opposite is true. When you acknowledge that, then we will be in agreement.
"I never said anything about sex being the only thing. I said we do not place enough importance on the role sex plays in a healthy, happy relationship," is what you said. "I'm just saying sex shouldn't be the only thing to keep the marriage together" is what I said.
I'm not backpedaling from anything. it's you who changed your opinion. it's fine. it was just a question. don't take it too personally. I'm allowed to have a different opinion just like you are. relax. peace.
Of course you are backpedaling. You are the one who changed your opinion, not me. But if believing otherwise makes you feel better about your mistake, so be it. Regardless, you have acknowledged that you were wrong to say that we place too much importance on sex in marriage, which of course is false, and that is the important thing. Peace.
Why would a guy only do oral on me and not intercourse? But he did oral and intercourse with another girl? Am i the problem? He said he wasn't ready, he said he needed to be comfortable, he said it was him and not me, and all that. We've had a thing for a little over two years? Its so hard for me to think that its NOT me. It makes he think he lied all this time about him calling me sexy, hot, beautiful, etc. Help?
@Hawaiikai It's really hard for me to say what that means without knowing him and his situation. It's possible it may actually be a good sign as he may respect you more and care more about you than the other girl so he may be more thoughtful about making sure things are right first. But I would not necessarily take it as a bad sign. I'm sorry I can't be more help. Best of luck to you.
A little... But people talk about sex often for good reason. It feels good