Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I read a question recently asking what it was that turned men and women on.
Essentially all the guys said something regarding how sexy they find the girl, her legs, shape, breasts etc
Where all the straight female's answers were essentially based on how their partner desires them, orgasms due to them etc
So are girls even sexually attracted to men?
they dont get turnes on just by hot guys, male bodies etc
I believe girls can feel romantic attraction, love etc but they don't ACTUALLY have sexual attraction to men, their sexual attraction is based on narcissistic interest in them from men.
So what do u guys think?
Do women actually have sexual attraction to men?
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Love how all the females that said they donfeel sexual attraction when further analysed gave some dumb response like their attrscted to movie stars or hair.. This doesn't count as being sexually attracted to men. Ur attracted ti the character u see him play on tv/ videos. Why are females so blind to realise they aren't sexually attracted to men themselves.
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23 9Men can’t be sexy.
Yes they can, just not by their looks
No they can’t.
Are you lesbian?
No I’m not.
Are you sure? 😂 okay... ehm.. asexual Then?
No one can get turned on by the male body. Only women can be sexy and turn both gender on. Since women are important for when it comes to sex and more detailed.
If you get turned on by a woman then you aren't straight, sorry to tell you that. Straight women are turned on by a man's body 😊 (and a naked woman is as appealing to me as a tree lol)
Oh my god. Being sexually attracted/turned on DOES NOT mean you are attracted to that gender. Men who are turned on by dicks for example but just wants to date girls and fuck them. Many people find old people/milfs sexy and kinky and it’s like a sexual preference and it doesn’t mean they want to date them or live with them but just for sex. Being turned on by women is normal, since women are more appealing and it’s a kinky preference and a fetish.
Romantically attracted is when you want to date the person and have feelings but sexually attracted is when you’re horny and want sex with the gender or has a fetish on the same gender is very very normal and you’re still straight. Romantica attraction is what your sexuality is. Although I’m bisexual because I’m attracted romantically to both genders.
Nope, sexual attraction is sexuality, it's called homoSEXUAL, not homophil. The last one would mean love ^^ and asexuals can have romantic feelings too they just aren't sexually attracted.
Yeah but it doesn’t even make sense, because I know many girls and they are straight and they watch porn with women in it always. Women are usually more into the porn industry and the female body is a fetish/kink which many people get.
That's why a lot of guys say that these women aren't straight either, more bi. For me personally a woman's body isn't appealing at all. I couldn't watch lesbian porn because it would turn me off lol I
Ofcourse we do have a sexual atraction tomen:DD
Yeah buddy. It's like a literal heartbeat in your vag
Are u sure its sexual attraction to men? i believe girls answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.
Asker.. You're a smart man.. Congratulation
@Deydey12345 is that sarcasm?
No, it's true..
You are capable of understanding a man and woman's brain.. Very little people can..
i can get turned on by a male body, but it's just usually i'd have to be emotionally connected to that male body? i am sexually attracted to males for sure, it's just the pure sight of a guys abs and budge wouldn't turn me on.
Maybe the guy has a bit of a narrow view as to what it means to be sexually attracted, or he's limiting it to said things (bulges and abs). I recall there being a specific name as to what you feel.
@soul1112 yeah clearly
Thats missing my point though. Women say their attracted to MEN but its not men that attract and turn them on, its A man whom they have an emotional connection with.
so once i have an emotional connection with a man he's suddenly not identified as a man anymore?
Sorry I don't know if im explaining it right. Of course he's a man. But women are attracted to confidence, humour, intelligence, attitude etcand are turned on by the way their boyfriend is turned on and aroused by them. None of these things is specific to men, they are traits both genders can possess. So its not men their attracted to, its the traits a man has their attracted to. Not men in general.
You copy pasted that thing like 300 times already. Literally a broken record.
@soul1112 i didmt copy and paste that? Look at the others where i said that. Also when i have copy and pasted its because it addresses the same point as another woman made, it saves time and it was made detailed enough to get my point across. And as if im going to rewrite the same thing over and over 23 times?
It's just funny, lol. Guess they ought to just come out and answer to the actual topic.
yes, i am attracted to the traits, but it's not just the traits ONLY. say there's a sweet guy with not the greatest bod on earth but is funny, witty all the stuff you listed, i won't always be sexually attracted to him. for me i feel, im not that visual, so just seeing a random guys body doesn't turn me on, however, feeling a hot guys body on me, would turn me on even if i'm not emotionally connected to him.
I don't know if that really counts, cause its just not really men ur sexually attracted to, its the traits a man has
"im not that visual, so just seeing a random guys body doesn't turn me on, however, feeling a hot guys body on me, would turn me on even if i'm not emotionally connected to him." - i just said that. how does that not count?
and i don't think you really can speak on this matter as you haven't experienced sexual attraction as a female
Sexual attraction as a female is receptive of mens sexual attraction to women. You just don't understand how visual men are and the lust we feel, what you described just isn't visual.
exactly, we may not be visual, but that doesn't mean we aren't attracted to the male body through other things like touch
I guess
This is fascinating.
Girls have more sexual excitemen than men, they just dont wana show it to the world... The level of horniness is more in them than men
This is not true at all, sorry
I dated this really hot guy who gave me one of the most intense orgasms I've ever had, and I'd definitely put that down to how attracted I was to him both physically and mentally (he has to have a good personality too though otherwise I lose interest).
Are u sure its sexual attraction to men? i believe girls answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.
Nope it's definitely their bodies and things that make them men I'm attracted to!! If there was a woman with exactly the same personality I'd definitely not find her attractive! I'm not sure how you've reached that logic.
Because all the answers i see from girls on here are basically: "Girls aren't really visual like men", it takes more then that to turn women on", "its easier for women to view other women sexually than it is the male body". Literally just seems like women are attracted more to each other sexually. And i saw a post about what turns girls on and pretty much all the girls said something along the lines of how they turn and affect him or his sense of humour. None of which are specific to men.
Ignore him. Even if 99 of 100 woman would say that they are aroused by a man's body he would only let the one opinion count that he agrees with and will ignore or discuss with them without rethinking anything. He isn't worth your time.
@Belorum Pretty much all the things girls LOVE and sre attracted to in guys are confidence, humour, intelligence, attracted/ turned on by her etc. thats all fine but not one of those things is specific to men? So thats why I question, is it actually men women are sexually attracted to.
I never managed to fall for a girl, so yes it is specific to men lol I do not care for this things in a girl because I am not sexualy attracted to a girls body. Stop spreading bullshit buddy
@Belorum if ur attracted to all these traits thats fine and all, but its the traits ur attracted to. Not men.
You do not make any sense.. I am attracted to men, not women. And by the way, if you'd be fine to be with a hot girl with a completly shitty personality which does not give any fuck about you and only cares for her self thats fine, but I wouldn't like to be in that kind of a relationship. Thats why I do also care for presonal traits, like every girl... and yes, ALSO, not only.
And by your logic you would be attracted to boobs and asses, but not to women. See, it works in both ways.
@Belorum i would never date someone with a shitty personality no matter how hot she is? Im talking about experiencing lust and attraction, its literally a process for men that requires no thought and just happens. And the point you made about only being attracted to assets and not the woman is bullshit, men feel the same romantic/ emotional attachment to people that women do as well. The only difference is men also have visual sexual attraction where women have receptive sexual attraction that is based on the mans sexual attraction to her.
You just do not want to understand it do you? Women are visual as well, but most of them are ALSO (do you know what that word means? If not, look it up, please, I beg you) need an emotional connection with a person to be ready for sex. And you just said yourself that you do care for personality. WOW a guy has personality too, you aren't attracted to girls at all! GOTCHA! Idiot. And no, I am not attracted by a guy being attracted to me. If I dont find him sexually appealing this doesn't change anything. I do not know where you get this bullshit from.
@Belorum of course women experience lust and attraction, why do you think some women date men they they know aren't good for them? You have to be carful to critique everything you read and look at it in the right context, you should always question everything and never take it as solid proof... a small study has many variables and isn't necessarily relatable to a larger population, context is key!
Sorry @Belorum that was meant in response to the asker not you 🙂
Send a picture of your dick to a random girl.. Try them all, and you will see if they are actually attracted to your body..
Of course their reaction will be negative.. Now you might think "well they are Just girls that's why" but try to send a boobs photo to a lesbian, will she react the same? No she will proceed to masturbate..
Now we do feel an attraction to men, as all the women here on gag will tell you.. But it's not the same attraction that you're actually thinking of.. Yea we do see beauty in men, some are cute... But we won't masturbate unless in love
Its not as simple as that. But yes women who are into women are more visual than straight girls are to guys. Women just aren't sexually attracted to men.
Lesbians aren't "more visual " than the other girls!!! We all have the same girls brain!!! It's up to you to believe that a girl's brain is a girl's brain, no matter her sexual attraction. It's wired the same! In fact it's been proved that all girls are bi.. Now its true that we won't get sexually attracted to a man without an emotional connection , but so what? In the end your girlfriend is attracted to you.. What's the matter?
First paragraph, I meant *no matter her sexual orientation **
Don't think that lesbians are a third gender, with a different wired brain..
Ok u suggesting women are turned on by other womens boobs where they aren't men indirectly suggests gay girls are more visual. To elaborate though, most straight guys ik aren't even turned on by a random picture of a woman's vagina, just the same with girls toward dicks. And no not all girls are bi.
And yes lesbians 100% have a different wired brain. This is why their dating pool is completely different than the rest of the female population.
So the girl in your porn isn't a random girl? Okay change the word "photo" for video.. Same thing. I forgot to specified.. By bi I mean sexually bi. Not emotionally bi.. I thought it was obvious but I will explain everything from now on.. Meaning they masturbate to other girls, but can't have the tiniest feeling for them.. No emotional attraction, just sexual. Got it?
Why is there so many women into the male stripper club? (Sarcasm) (only gay males go there) do you 'need more elaboration'?
Boy what's the issue with this? Your girlfriend will mastirbate to you and be passionated by you.. Why are you worried
I dont watch porn for starters and when i use to it wasn't the girls vagina that turned me on. And i knew what you meant the first time. Yes a large portion of girls are bisexual but not all. And yes im aware u were saying straight girls have bi tendencies but thats not all of them and nor is that simplistic to explain
You don't watch porn, so your demesexual or asexual or what.. It doesn't even matters. We are drifting from the original topic but I'm done over here because you won't want to believe this.. I know you are hurt.. I'm sorry... I won't go on with this.. Let me try to make you feel better by saying that I personally masturbate to random guys, even photos.. But it's because I have a man's ass fetish.. I'm so incredibly excited by their bodies mostly from behind.. I often cum instantly (yeah, that intense) as for their dicks well not a random guy no.. If I feel a good connection than yes.. But even if she needs to feel pretty to be turned on at the end she's still turned on by you physically.. It isn't normally important to guys to be very sexy n stuff.. That's a girl thing, you shouldn't be worried about that..
Boy it's okay.. If you like to believe that were straight, and can't help but cum while fucking a guy because were too turned on then by all means.. Do it, I didn't really mean to hurt you, I just went with the mind set that you are a guy so can't be hurt by that
Yes im hurt by it. It's quite insulting to know how barely attracted the opposite gender feels to you, especially in comparison. That and the fact so many are more turned on by esch other than they are men. Its just like they only date men to fill their own narcissistic needs.
Actually even' with an emotional with 99.999 % of the time won't think of his dick, but his face or personality... Now there was one guy for me, special guy and only one with who I have masturbatef to his dixk.. Even sniffing it but he's a freaking special guy.. Never felt such a connection before in ly life... My point is depending on the connection she most likely won't masturbate to his dick... I never before done that even to the man I was in love it.. I would masturbate to his ass tho... I didn't have the same connection than with this new guy.. Even if I was in love.. Kinda complicated isn't it? I would also masturbate to other girls if course... But that new guy I just want to get a sniff of his dick and masturbate..
I just read your comment now, hun if she's in love with you it's not just narcissistic anymore..
Same goes for animals hun.. Is the female humping the male? Or is the male humping her? Hmm? He even has to rape her to get sex.. We females are all the same wired the same way. Stop saying "you" it's not me it's all of us!! The only difference between me and 99% of women is that I have a (strong) man's ass fetish!
even still, it kills me to think women just dont feel that way toward men as well. And i dont believe in love, not even a little. Its just circumstance and short term needs been met.
I never said it was just you? And no there are many species of animals (even closely related to humans) where the female approaches. But yes i get ur point, I don't know why u keep rubbing it in?
Babe no.. Love exist.. Can't you love? I will assume I'm not talking to a sociopath and assume you can love.. Look I'm only attracted to males asses (and hardcore) not even the females butt! That's huge!!! How is that not enough for you? When you're not even attracted to vaginas as you said before but you're asking us to be attracted to the whole entire man body :/ start with yourself
I just dont believe in love. Also i dont think any man or woman is attracted to some randoms genitals? Dicks and vaginas just aren't attractive, doesn't mean they gross me out but they dont turn me on. Female legs, butt, hips, breasts, face etc all turn me on though.
Oh sorry I didn't see your reply earlier, I just woke up.. All that I care to say now is I want you to bend over and send me a photo I am horny af
Have you seen the question posted yesterday : " Would you have SEX with a guy just because he is HOT? Why? Why Not?" Lmao there's your true answers!! Not those hypocrites on here.. See the difference, and it's the same girls than in your post!
"No.. I don't give a fuck about his physique, I care about how funny and charming he is" Is what those same girls are saying in the other post..
Just because they wouldn't have sex with a guy doesn't mean they dont feel attraction or lust.
THAT would make boys and girls no different sexually from each others.. If that's your conclusion then that's great. Now back to what I was previously saying.. You, naked ass up face down
Then women are FAR closer to being lesbian than straight
@Proz11 no, what matters is what's in the heart.. We only have heart for men.. And sex for girls
Then you don't know what SEXUAL orientation and being homoSEXUAL (lesbian) means, go read a dictionary, you are saying women are lesbian.
@Proz11 no.. Because emotionally we are repulsed by girls... We only like tits.. Who doesn't..
You are agreeing with me, you are just too ignorant and stupid to realize it.