Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Do women honestly expect men to look past their expansive sexual history?
MikhaelKiznov Xper 3
I'm a male, 20, from the East Coast, RI to be exacty. I realize that as I'm starting to get more and more into adulthood, that a lot of women (more than I had assumed) are sexually repulsive. Let me give you a couple of honest reasons as to why men don't want women to sleep around. 1. No man wants his potential son or daughter coming out of a hole that 50 other men have stuck their penis in. 2. Compare the concept to keys. Men are like keys, women are like locks. A key that unlocks all locks is called a "Masterkey" because most keys can't do what it does. So that key is respected; but a lock that can be unlocked by any key, isn't a good lock, is it? Men and women are held to different standards because we're just different. 3. No man trusts a woman that is promiscuous, even if she claims to be loyal. Why? Because as previously stated, it's easier for women to sleep around than it is for men, and now that the woman has that she has strong sexual desires and has a tendency to fulfill them with multiple sex partners, you now have the no choice but to be cautious or completely turned off to the idea of dating that person. It's like having a dog (not saying women are like dogs, but the situation is similar) that likes to jump the fence and has the ability to do so. Is it not natural then to worry that the dog will eventually jump the fence? And so, would you be wrong for not getting that dog or being cautious when you do get it? This has nothing to do with social progressiveness. This has everything to do with nature and a people looking for compatible partners. Obviously, if you don't agree with her lifestlye, then she's not for you, maybe someone else is, and vice versa; but in a society where we're promoting this sexually-"whatever happens let it happen" lifestyle, I can imagine how soon there will be an enourmous shortage of (I hate to use this word but) "qualified" partners for men that desire that.
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I just think that women use a man's sexual promiscuity as a reason for their own sexual promiscuity. But in doing this, they're comparing themselves to men, but we see biologically that men and women are different in very fundamental ways. So to make a comparison when the subjects being compared don't align, is ludicrous. If you're a man with a sexually promiscuous female, call it "being secure with yourself" all you want, but really it's that you've just gotten used to humiliation.
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21 18there's nothing wrong with your opinion, its conpletely understandable and respected. However, who the heck cares about the sexual past of a woman? The past is the past and people go through ups and downs constantly throughout life. Some people fall in love with many different people and some stay with one forever. She doesn't have to be a virgin or have less sexual partners in my opinion, to be less respected from other people. Im not saying im one of them since i've only been with one man ever, but people are different and not everyone has the same ideals as the next.
Me personally, I would want to marry a virgin, and a lot of men agree with me (pretty much all them men I've asked). A man's daughter is his gift to the world, and a man's son is his imprint on the world. No man wants his two precious belongings coming for a "soiled" place. A man loves his kids. So what man would want his kids to come from the same hole that 100 other men have had the same opportunity to conceive their children from? It's degrading. Plus, not to mention the conversation that could arise when you're out and public and you see another man looking at your wife, only to find out he's been inside of her more times than you have and can give you a detailed road-map of her sexual desires. Could you imagine how embarrassing that could potentially be. But we're meant with "if you're comfortable in your skin that's all that matters". That answer is ridiculous. It's just a burden promiscuous females charge at a man's insecurities, to cover up their sexual past.
I don't care, honestly, about a girl's sexual past.
You know what else has come out of that vagina?
Pee. A lot of pee. The equivalent of a small sea.
Do men honestly expect women to look past their expansive sexual history?
If you can't accept her past, you clearly don't deserve her for who she is. Not everything is about sex.
if you can't accept her past you don't deserve her future
If you can't accept her past would you *want* to be part of her future?
You're right, but sex plays a huge part of things. It's like saying, "I'm a felon, but I haven't committed any crimes since". I understand that, but at the same time the "felon mark" is forever attached to you, and my kids will be associated with that mark and have to deal with the ridicule that comes from your poor decisions. Yes the past is the past, but the past is responsible for a lot of the present, and dictates a lot of the future.
I understand completely what your saying.
I don't want to kiss a man who has licked 50 pussies.
Fair enough !
It's hard to trust people in general. It doesn't matter who she had sex with in the past.
That's fine. I'm a virgin and I wouldn't be interested in a promiscuous guy.
Is it wrong to like women who've had plenty of experience? =/
I honestly couldn't care less what you or anyone else like you thinks about me.
I don't know you. It's amazing you read this and took it personally. That says a lot.
? I didn't even take it personally, just don't agree with judging someone based on their sexual history. I'm not even sexually active so doesn't really apply to me. I could've worded it better, my bad.
Just because a woman has a past, it doesn't mean she can't have a future.
I do not want to get an STD, so I do not sleep around. When ever I do have sex, I'd rather it be with someone that has had no sexual partners or just one; not many. Because of this, that is why I am ok if a guy also doesn't want to be with someone that has had a lot of partners. That is their choice, and if people want to sleep around that is their choice as well. But I'd rather not get involved with that type of person, honestly.
P. S. I'm from the west coast.
I don't care. I find the more men a woman has had experience of the more highly she values me. Maybe the same is not true for you.
You have read what he has written... How can ANY woman value that guy...