Uhm no. I'm sure there are women out there who like agressive behavior in bed. But if you are more of a classy type, as I like to call it lol, and more into romance, you know that sex should be more on the sensitive side where it's love making not bruise making. Humiliating your partner should be a major turn off for anyone in my opinion, who the hell is even okay with that anyway?
He's not literally humiliating you, seeing as how there's nobody watching. Bruises are left only if you're into hardcore BDSM. Most rough-sex is still romantic just with a bit of role-play mixed in, which I find actually makes me feel closer to my boyfriend. That I can feel comfortable with fully trusting him to play rough to just the right amount that both of us enjoy it, but still respecting to not cross the lines where he know I'd feel uncomfortable.
haha the right term for it is "vanilla" instead of classy. I have always been vanilla guy, but I think almost all women want to be dominated in bed. Also many women won't admit to liking it or have never tried it to know for sure. I on the other hand avoid it because I would be thinking that someone could get really hurt if I get carried away or use too much of force.
I love anal but I also like to play anally with the guy also as far as the other stuff I like being thrown around (shows me how bad he wants me), I can take the hair pulling thing and slapping if he's really into it but it's not really my cup of tea and I really wouldn't want to have to do it all the time.
I am always afraid of using too much force or getting carried away with it or even worse consensual sex being considered rape by her
Use more force over time not the first tiem you do it... each time you can get a little more aggressive... she should let you know when she hit her max. But like I said that doesn't really do anything for me. I can take a beating (super high pain tolerance) but I don't find it sexy by any means.
I love it when my boyfriend does things like you listed above, as well as holding me down, face-fucking, etc..
Anal too? Is anal actually pleasurable for women?
oops sorry, all of the above aside from anal. I've tried that once or twice with him and didn't enjoy it but that's separate from the whole rough-sex thing as he was going really slow and all.
most do, if they know that you love them and don´t mean those humiliating things. rough can be good but probably not all the time.
Yeah I think doing it all the time would take out the fun from it. Do most women like anal too? I wouldn't know because I have always been a vanilla guy
50:50. it´s a love it or hate it thing for most of them xD
Most women do like it rough, and those who SAY they don't like it rough, will change their minds once they have it rough. ;-)
yeah that is what I think... many women don't know what they want. I was reading this book where a woman has extra martial affair. She imagined sex with this guy to me romantic but instead he handles her very roughly and has anal sex with her. She gets very turned on by him and starts seeing him again for more of such sex. I think many women don't know how good it is or they just don't want to admit it.
I'm still shocked that so many women, still feel shame for liking rough submissive sex.
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you're into humilation like spitting in mouth and slapping on face too?
I don't do spit that's disgusting. But depending on who it was being slapped isn't a big deal. Random not a chance in hell good way to get yourself hurt
Well technically even spitting shouldn't be a big deal considering that we pass on a lot of saliva while kissing
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Like spitting in mouth and slapping on face too?
The ones into bdsm, yes. The submissives, that is.
I like some rough sex but not for the first couple of times and I don't like to be humiliated. Spanking actually feels great though and so does careful anal.
I personally LOVE getting abused and domina
*dominated during sex and being punished and stuff but I know that this type of sex isn't for everyone
How do you know all this already and you're only 15 wake where do the ideas come from was a porn? Or was it older partners I just seems a little odd that's all
Most of it sounds fun as fuck. 🙋
I like being held down and my hair being pulled and my ass slapped only, but that's the extent of it.
Maybe you have not tried other things
Why? Because I don't like it? That's a weird assumption.
I mean people can not know if they like or don't like some thing unless they have tried it. I am reading this book where this woman is very bored with her life until she meets a guy with whom she has an extra martial affair and regularly indulges in rough and unconvential sex with him. She didn't even knew that she could get so much pleasure from it. So I was wondering is this book just some male fantasy or do women actually don't know how much fun some rough unconventional sex can be for them.
yep by a guy i trust
ofcourse
I like a little hair pulling. Only slapping on my butt, nowhere else. I enjoy anal.
I do not like being humiliated at all.
But doesn't humiliation mean that the guy is dominating you? and also is anal pleasurable for women?
I don't necessarily wanna be dominated, at least not all the time. And he can do that without humiliating me. And every girl is different. It is for me.
I do but only with likeminded people :)
Likeminded people?
Yes, there are a lot of men I date that don't like being rough with me. Its just not in their nature.
And it makes sex less exciting with them?
... Nah
have you even tried it?
My girlfriend loves it so it depends
No, I'll kick his ass
I love it. I engage in it for my own pleasure
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Humiliated? Depends how. I don't think so tho.
Rough? Hell yah.
Humiliated like spitting in your mouth and cumming on your face etc... some slapping on face also.
No way then.
but that's pretty normal I suppose, it isn't anything hardcore or something
i dont know about the humiliation part. but who doenst love a rough time once in a while?
I can't speak for all women but I'm not into it.
Not even a little bit? I mean I am not talking about hardcore stuff or anything...
Sorry no.
Whether women will actually admit this or not is a completely different story, but most, if not all women want a big, strong guy with a big dick to dominate them in bed and give it to them rough. No girl admits that size matters, but it does.
Yes that is the thing, many women don't admit it or have never tried it as such to know how good it is. Though I am a vanilla guy and think twice before doing any of such rough moves cause you know, at any moment consensual sex can turn into you know rape.
Of course. Especially with the feminists out in full force today.
Lmfao have fun in jail OP, someone can't get laid
A lot do, in my experience.
Yeah guys who've had experience with it can tell better
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