Do women really care if their man is using boner enhancing drugs?

[coachTanthony]

[AmandaYVR]

Interesting results. It's almost an even 50/50 split on pinks caring. And the men are mostly here to see the poll.

I voted yes, I'd want to know (I'm phrasing it that way, rather than "care", but they're not far off.) Taking these enhancers is altering the situation, and whether it be physical health or mental, yes, I want to know how my partner is doing.

On a minor side note, I've never been with a man who took one (that I know of - it's probably similar to the idea of females faking orgasms - which I have never done, I don't believe in that), but unless there was legitimate dysfunction where he couldn't get it up at all, I would not be into the guy 'turbo charging.' (I hear one of the biggest consumers of them are college age students, looking to do this, just for fun, and thinking it will impress the ladies.) It's not necessary. It might be psychologically more of a turn on for him, but as I have said many times about many things, I like authenticity, and things that are faux, altered, manipulated, enhanced, really don't interest me. I like my **** regular and the old-fashioned way. Hard, semi-hard, soft, I can work with it. I'm not looking to be a jack of all trades, but a master of one is a very satisfying, and I think achievable, designation.

[coachTanthony]

Many different opinions out there... the bigger one is that the woman feels like she isn't attractive enough if he needs to "juice" up just to get hard. She wants to be the one that makes the man hard but in reality some men have performance issues. Should be interesting on how the poll turns out.

[AmandaYVR]

Yes, definitely lots of reasons, lots of scenarios.
I read through a bunch now, and I think @juxtapose and @Red_Arrow made some good points, such as all the physical health factors, and "You have no idea what a soul-destroying experience it is hun." There are so many reasons for taking them, and they could be temporary or permanent. I think if a guy is into hookups then it's none of their business what he's ingesting. But if he's in a committed relationship, she has a right to know and for them to discuss it. It's sad to think that some guys are taking them to try and keep the relationship going, but it's not enough to get turned on naturally. Complicated. Very complicated.

P. S. Anyone seen the film 'This Is 40'? Great film, for those who are married and/or have been together many years. It touches on this very subject, amongst many others that are meaningful.
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1758830/reference

[Juxtapose]

Thank you for keeping an open mind about this. I have never taken them but there are times in which I wish I did.

[coachTanthony]

Yes that was quite a funny movie! And most likely realistic in some spots lol

[AlienParasite]

Other: If my boyfriend right now in his late 20's needed those I would be worried about his health. If when older he needs those, I could understand is a part of aging that some body parts don't work as they used to, that I'm maybe not as attractive or exiciting as before and that he might need a little medical help.

However, the healthier, the more attractive any person is. So, in this case, is always more attractive if a guy don't need drugs, but still, is acceptable if he needs them.

However, on the non medical side, if he only needed those with me but had no problem in other situations because there's no actual dysfunction... I see how in that case it could hurt a woman's self-esteem or how attractive a woman feels, which could end impacting negatively in the woman's sex drive and her performance in bed.

[coachTanthony]

Many young men need it because they are addicted to porn!

[AlienParasite]

Well, I would consider any type of addiction a health problem too. Psychological, though. It might be sad for young men to have this problem. However I've never met a guy with this problem.

[Juxtapose]

If the guy is the least bit nervous he will enter the fight or flight response and that will drain all the blood from his non-vital areas to his more vital ones.

[Reaperbot666]

• regardless of a guys age if he uses boner pills to get hard. means there is an underline issue with him. that his doctor would rathe him use a pill vs finding out the real issue
• because a healthy male who is in decent shape can get a boner regardless of age. so it might be some chances to his diet and/or exercise routine could help. to boost his natural testosterone so he can preform better without pills.
• could be a lack of confidence or feeling insecure in his ability to preform well for his partner.
• could be anxiety, stress or other mental issue on his end.
• could even be while he finds his partner physically attractive. deep down he doesn't find them sexually attractive. because they let themselves go over the years also. so when he looks over at them it does almost nothing for him sexually.
• maybe their sex life together has become mundane or boring to him.
• possibly even more factors really.
• but without strong continues physically, mental, emotion and sexual attraction for each other. a couples sex life is bond to slow down or stop over the years.

[Seva4Beach]

I’ll admit that I’ve had to use them and not because my parts didn’t function but because they didn’t function well while taking other medications that affected my ability to get an erection. The number of different reasons a penis won’t work or work as well are infinite, but the main reason outside of erectile dysfunction are medication and injuries that can cause ED. Sorry guys and girls I don’t care who he is every man will eventually deal with this and any woman who’d get mad about a guy experiencing a medical issue is probably not worth being with in the first place.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

As long as he getting a boner, keeping a boner and using that boner well, that's all that gonna matter to me 😇😈🤭

[coachTanthony]

Ha Ha Ha Yes exactly. I think some women take it personal because they feel that it's artificial and not them giving the man a boner with their sexiness. At least that is what i have read.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That's stupid, some men go through Erectile Dysfunction... Why not just be glad your partner doing whatever he can to keep the sex, sex life going 🤷🏼‍♀️

[coachTanthony]

Ha stop making so much sense will you!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Sorry lol that was the strawberry in the strawberry blonde speaking, next question you ask I'll answer with just the blonde side 🤣🤣

[Daddycrow]

How old are they

[Massageman]

Yeah- you wouldn't want him to be a loner with his boner.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Massageman 😂😂😂 right!

[DizzyDesii]

Yea cause his dick will prob eventually fall off. I rather fck a small dick then a seemingly inflated one that will eventually pop

[DizzyDesii]

Oh you meant viagra? Thought u meant like a penis pump 😂

[pizzalovershouse]

Natures viagra watermelon

[katiesmuff]

I voted NO as I doubt most women care how you are getting that dick hard as long as you can get it done then fuck with it.

[bobalife]

Lmao I never consider this until recently when someone mentioned it... I think it’s funny but kinda hot if it makes the sex is even hotter 😜😂

[ririissleepy]

Depends.
If he medically needs it and in general has some issues, i wouldn't care.
If it is a curiosity thing... for fun, i wouldn't care.

But if he just can't get turned on by "me"... i think i would care a bit

[magiusX26]

that sounds reasonable

[purplepoppy]

Better than hiring a fluffer girl to get him ready

[coachTanthony]

Ha Ha Ha No doubt !!

[ColHathi]

lmao.

[Walt832]

🤣🤣🤣🤣. That remind me a Netflix series Spartacus (Laura Surrich S01E06) There is many countless scenes. My mother walked in she said omg you watching porn go find some girl in the bar or massage parlor and nail her for God sake. I am like 😳😆😂 hold up 🤨how she knows what goes in the parlors? Not asking and don't want to know and continue watching.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Walt832 😂😂😂

[PBandJ_Nerd]

They shouldn't really care about it. I think the only concern would be if they used those pills daily, since you wouldn't want their body to get too used to it to the point they can't get one naturally. But most of those pills are for people who have the one dysfunction issue.

[Petra150]

I'll love hubby just as much, and I'll do everything for him to make our sex life just as good, we all benefit for that

[Red_Arrow]

Lots of medical problems can cause this. And some medications can cause this. Viagra and others can be a real help, but using them carelessly or without medical supervision can cause worse problems. And there are the fake Viagras out there. Those can be dangerous. Use under a doctor’s supervision.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Yeah would make me think I'm ugly or something.

[Red_Arrow]

Some men have medical problems. It would not be anything wrong with you. You are attractive.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@Red_Arrow men at my age should be able to get erect naturally

[Red_Arrow]

Heart problems, vascular problems, diabetes, lots of other things affect erectile function, even on young guys.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@Red_Arrow I would try and fix the problem then the symptom

[Juxtapose]

If he's even the least bit nervous it can be incredibly difficult and if you shame him and put pressure on him, then it will lead into a vicious cycle where it will become even more difficult. When you enter the fight or flight response from being anxious, it diverts blood from your non-vital parts to your vital parts.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@Juxtapose it's better to not have then, then take drugs

[Juxtapose]

You have no idea what a soul-destroying experience it is hun.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@Juxtapose I rather my man be celibate than have drugs that give him headaches, vision problems and blah blah.

[Juxtapose]

It's often just a temporary prescription meant to get the man over the nervousness. The more he performs in a positive way the less he will be nervous.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@Juxtapose my husband had this problem with his ex's. But he didn't with me. You don't need it.

[nerdybutlazy]

Not really but I want him to tell me so I could know

[chackskiz]

Omg please normalize ‘beds’. If he needs them take themmm 😂😂

[spartan55]

I love how so many women believe getting a hard on is just like flipping a light switch.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Does he need them?
If yes, why?

[wondering_guy]

Some have anxiety issues, erectile disfunction or any that want to go into extra time

[EclecticEmapath1111]

YES, I'd be very concerned about his health and possible side effects of taking the D**k pills, but also I'd take him to the doctor and get his balls examined to make sure everything is ok and cancer free.

[wondering_guy]

But he might just be taking them because he's having trouble performing, some have erectile disfunction or anxiety.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@wondering_guy they aren't good for men

[wondering_guy]

Maybe not but you eithef have no sex life if they are disfunctional or have them take them to be full form

[gypsy_rose]

Yes, I care if he's using any kind of drugs. But as long as he's upfront about it, then i can decide if it's okay with me.
As far a boner enhancement... it just depends on the situation.
For instance, I had been with a man (exclusively) for many months Before he decided to order those enhancement pills. I was happy with his boner and our sex life, and couldn't imagine wanting a bigger or longer experience. We already had a lot of great sex, and its not right to go changing the game that significantly without consulting me first...
The "enhancement" was unnecessary, and ultimately undesirable to his woman.

[coachTanthony]

Alright fair enough. Not sure if anyone will top that answer !

[Jjpayne]

I'm not sure... Let's see that poll!

[Jjpayne]

Wow it's so right down the middle... That's crazy... So half of girls don't care and half of girls do Interesting... And I thought it's just want you do...

[Jjpayne]

*what

[magiusX26]

gotta do it. thats why the pills, can't see the "pole"

[cjgsu]

U mean lk 2 make it bigger?

Or cuz dey can't get 1?

[coachTanthony]

To get it up.. not sure if there are any drugs to make it bigger just yet lol

[cjgsu]

K. I guess it wldnt matter if it didn't cause him any health prblms or if we didn't have to plan sex round him takin the pill.

[coachTanthony]

Alright cool thanks!

[cjgsu]

Np..

[DizzyDesii]

Lol i initially thought he meant to make it bigger as well 🤣

[itsmeamy]

Modern medicine is wonderful why not take advantage of it when needed

[volleyballluver1]

I'm a little young maybe to respond to this as I don't know any guy that has this issue.

I have condom sex with guys so I don't care too much as long as he can get it up but if I were to marry and want kids with a guy I may want to know as that could affect me or the kid later in life.

[Red_Arrow]

Actually, a young guy can have the problem due to other conditions, and it is possible a guy you know might have this problem. But yes, you would want to be aware of all your husband’s medical issues.