Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I see this question a lot on here. Yes I understand men have questions and some of you worry that you are not big enough.
But I just think it's a flawed question to ask, and here's why.
1. Men seem to forget their genitals are not the only one that comes in different sizes. Women are the same. We have larger vaginas, and smaller ones and avg size ones.
Not every woman wants big.
Not every woman hates small.
And yes most women will prefer avg penis.
Why because we are all built differently.
I have a friend who once told me she is so tight that it hurts (when wet) to put her finger inside. So obviously she will prefer a tiny penis to small sized penis.
Stop grouping us into one mind, one vagina and one preference.
2nd reason it is flawed a lot of men who think, or actually do have a small penis go it's small why try.
I'm sorry but that is a get out of trying victim card.
No matter your size, if you don't attempt to 1 up your stroke game, and take the time to learn what your partner wants, you ain't pleasing your partner.(same goes for us women) stop pretending size alone determines
if you can please a woman, and realize skill is like 80% of pleasuring your partner, and size is like 20% important.
3rd and most importantly sex is like 5% of a relationship. I would rather have a good man with a tiny penis who loves and respects me, than a guy who is boring, but he got this big ass dick. Be a good man.
4th a lot of guys really only look at it as i don't like being smaller than other men, but if you really are concerned about our pleasure you would realize too big is far worst than too small. Too small, you can change your technique, penis sleeves and foreplay can help you finish us.
If ya too damn big what can we do? Not like we can shave the sides down, or chop a couple inches off of it. There's no magic penis shrinking cream we can rub on it. Ya too big, ya too big.
So stop asking if ya big enough and ask what can I do to please you with what I got.
Do you agree, the question "is my penis size big enough, is a flawed question?
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17 53Finally someone said it and I love it! Agree with what you just said 100% this question is focused on too much.
Preach it sister…. Her pleasure should always be first and dick size doesn’t mean pleasurable
Thank You, Thank YOU ! I LOVE IT
Finally someone says something that actually makes sense.
Well said
Thank you
Good points, for me... I like what the good Lord gave me... and no one has ever complained... lol (is that all there is?)
Lmao
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There is more to making love than sticking your dick in a hole
Yes, just as "is by boobs or butt big enough"
If you’re a virgin just say that😂 cus that was a bunch of bull
Well said!
As long as a man is able to get an nice firm erection, size does not matter. Its the performance of the penis which counts!
Nice helpful post and thanks for sharing, so let them all wake up and stop being insecure.
@msputiton
do u have a large or small vagina?
The you say if the guys dick is small he needs to up his stroke game but say you got two guys, both attractive and the same personality you like but one is packing 8” and the other is packing 4”.
If both of their stroke games are the same, wouldn’t you want the bigger one? It’s like doing an accounting job that has the exact same work but choosing to get paid 40k instead of 80k, no one would do that haha.
Nope you just made an impossible scenario to make your my penis is too small theory work. Nobody can be 100% the same. I have never once ever made a decision about who I date based off well his penis is better. Truth is 90% of women are not concerned with that. Men are obsessed with the bigger is better bs. Not women. A few will, but most don't care
Maybe it depends on the type of women? As someone who is small all the women I’ve interacted with have cared. My now wife’s friends all care too. I’m not saying it’s a bad thing either, they have their right to a preference so I think it’s good if they are honest about what they like.
There is a preference and there is deciding to be with someone over it. You have a small penis and you are married🤷🏾♀️ so that's exactly what i said. We don't choose who we want to marry based off penis
Believe me even though she married me for the other aspects, she’s made it very clear she isn’t happy about the size of my penis and would want large 😂
And is she with you?
Maybe for now, but not guaranteed for the future’
I wouldn't stay with you and it has nothing to do with your penis
Aww thanks 🙂
That wasn't a compliment. You need to fix your mind. The insecurity will drive us away quicker than anything. Nobody wants a man that is insecure and thinks his penis couldn't keep us. That's just not attractive. If my man had a small penis i want him to go well let me use toys up my stroke game, and learn how our bodies work learn no matter my preference there is ways around it.
Haha was just joking and there’s nothing I need to fix, I never once said I was sad or insecure about it. My size is what it is and I wouldn’t change it even if I could. My point was simply if you have two guys that can do the same performance but one is bigger and one is smaller, majority of women would go for the bigger guy and I would too if I was them.
As long you’re not in the extremes of size like a micro penis or hung like a horse i don’t think women care that much, it’s interesting knowing women’s different preferences though. I think these type of questions from women about boob and butt size are just as annoying as well tbh.
Did my question inspire this?
I don't think so. 🤔
This is just my opinion on the situation, and with notation of relevant content that I believe one must take into consideration.
Penis size matters for different people, some will enjoy small and some will enjoy big, size in general or the cultural perception has changed widely, in history before some preferred smaller- I believe the romans for instance.
So if this perception fluctuates depending on the culture then in fact the size long term is completely subjective. If it wasn’t subjective then we wouldn’t have instances of this, and although I am sure big members was probably still appreciated culture, this definitely cements this assumption.
currently is our culture, pornographic content has distorted our minds, it has and will continue to do so if you believe that porn is like in real life, many of these “actors” have stated it’s all a front and I know we all understand this subconsciously, but the chemical pathways during these activities are the same even if done alone.
Men these days, myself included feel we can’t pleasure a girl, and when we read posts like these our sense of self becomes distorted, now although this for media shouldn’t be generalised the brain has a unique way of generalising subconscious, the subconscious is a area we still don’t quite understand, it can and does effect the body in many ways some good and some bad, for example if you have a period where you feel depressed many depressed people become run down it’s almost like our emotion towards ourselves is being reflected.
Now, I am going to go off this as I was using it to say that the brain has a neat way of making you believe things regardless of the truth, and that environment is important to take into account.
We have a crisis currently amongst the men community, on average more men take their life’s. Now I am saying this not saying that these discussions cause someone to take their own life, many people have different reasons; I myself have thought about it ever since I could have fully developed thoughts, but as I have stated just because it doesn’t necessarily cause someone’s opinion of myself to change it does gradually effect.
Men believe on average that they are not enough to please a women, their member isn’t big enough, so we look up the stupid question almost in a masochistic act to enforce our own self hatred.
I am saying this from pure experience, I have probably nothing special with any form of body part, and although you can’t change anything so “why worry” it doesn’t really help, porn isn’t the problem, these chatrooms really aren’t the problem; it’s culture that’s the issue.
You see that in films and other forms of media that penis size is definitely used too often, we see these men that women love and then the reason being is probably just penis size. If you have a big member you probably feel less of a desire to feel your inadequate, however it’s still there.
If everyone, mainly males push this idea that just because of penis size it generates one worth that effect does this have? The effect is obvious and although again I am generalising, but these men will feel sad, sad that maybe their girl is with them for that reason and that reason only. These are very challenging times, culture needs to change to a point that body isn’t a factor, yes you will have girls talk about it, but we really need to enforce the idea that sexual features shouldn’t be a big factor, now biologically our minds don’t give a fuck, it’s culture that influences this, a penis is a penis and a vagina is a vagina, as long as both work for breeding purposes then our biological doesn’t really control our decision, instead environment does.
Women need to also help this issue, it’s a group effort on all genders, men need to stop worrying about body and physical traits, and women need to also. Now I am all about accepting, however as long as a partner is generally fit or strides to do so this is good, if your partner is grossly over weight then not only will your subconscious and situation make you less likely to continue the relationship, but your also if you plan to be with one another shorting that experience, we just should try and do better, even if we end up fat still trying to make a difference is what counts.
I have no idea what responses will be to my opinion, maybe the majority will just be bad, and others will say “spoken like a person with a small member” and to what I say is look at yourself, humans don’t live long, life is over in a flash, we live and we die, however it seems that everyone who is living would rather leave this world.
Women influence other women and men influence other men, but if we all try and breed acceptance for biology to should lighten the mental load for everyone.
Thank you for reading, and I hope in anyway this changes someone’s perspective, if your partner is with you because of certain body features get rid, these are not partners, partners accept and try their best to not reject. Maybe doing this you’ll end up alone, but people who are like this usually make insults that lower your self-esteem and make you feel worthless.
No. I disagree
If you have to ask, the answer is "yes, it is lacking" but not in size, but in confidence. Sure, I absolutely LOVE the loosey goosey jello leg feeling that causes me to walk funny days after playing with a monster, but I think the primary difference at the time is the confidence well hung men have because I've played with men who have a.22 and know they can hit their target who are more fun than a man with a bazooka who fumbles around.
Why are men not allowed to have any insecurities but women always are?
This is a great point lol. There's so many questions on here from women worrying about their breast size being insecure about it. Not to mention every woman I've encountered in my life have some kind of insecurities about their bodies.
The thing is many guys actually think like this initially. The only reason size becomes important is because they hear it from women. Nobody's ever heard a woman being excited how small a guy is but they hear them make fun of small sizes all the time. Women are literally the only reason why small penis can only be used as an insult and nothing else
The reason why they think size matters is because they learn it from women. If it didn't matter more men would want small penises for convenience
I've a tiny vagina but I prefer a big penis...