Do you care about the opposite sex?

Yes, they drive you crazy sometimes. Some of them can go... you know where. But in general, do you care about their well-being? (As other humans, as a gender, even when you are not in relationships with them, sexually, romantically.)

[I'm asking this because of a comment by someone, and an exchange I just had with them.]
Do you care about the opposite sex?
Do you care about the opposite sex?
I don't care if you write comments and expand on this topic or not this time. Honestly, I'm looking mainly at the poll results here.
Yes, I do
Vote A
No, I don't
Vote B
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  • I think people care about the opposite gender more than their own honestly, like its subconscious

  • As a blanket rule, yes i do, but if a specific woman is undeserving of my care then I'll happily take it elsewhere

    • Fair enough.

  • Ofc i do

  • I care about women. But I must admit that I am getting exhausted

    • That's fair.

  • Politics, gender lines, labels, and all that jazz can kiss my ass. I have the women in my life that I do because they are good ‘people’, same goes for the men in my life... and not because of their political leaning or self ascribed identities. I care about ‘people’.

  • No, I don't care about half the world's population. Even the amount that I care about myself is limited.

  • I absolutely do. Its part of a real man's instincts to care about the opposite sex and protect. I feel that very strongly.

  • As a class, no. But individuals I know, yes. Of course, that's true of my own sex as well, so it's only fair.

  • I mean, not really. I love my dad and I've had some great male bosses, but I don't really care about men (or women) as a whole.

  • No. Me caring about someone has to be earned. Not by sporting a vagina. There are too many women out there who'd sooner tear you down and treat you like you don't matter, and it's difficult to care about those women.

  • There's your answer. 96% of people care about the opposite sex.
    I heard a great line on time. This man was speaking about how men should view women, and he said, "The responsibility of every man, is the dignity of every woman."

    • Grond, I am searching to find the words to comment back here. When I read this, I said out loud "Aww" and put my hand to my chest... something I rarely do, but I was acutely aware of this time. I don't feel that I know you well, but I think you are a person of substance. I just get this sense about you. The only way I can think to respond here is with some of your own words... Me: Philosophies of life? You: "I'm still figuring some of mine out. But I believe that everything you ever wanted in life, all your dreams, are on the other side of fear. And then I would rather act on what I hope to be true, rather than what I fear to be true." So thank you for your contributions to gag.

    • Wow! That means a lot to me Amanda. I see you as a woman with a deep pondering heart. So to hear this from you, to know that you went back and found my words from months ago, even remembered who I am, really touches me. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart

  • Of course I do. The most important people in my life are women.
    I get a lot of hate here for "defending" women all the time. I am simply giving my honest thoughts which colide many times with guys here that clearly have a problem with the opposite gender.
    I don't hate men, I think we are awesome! We really are! But so are women. Hell people are awesome!
    We are all awesome in different ways and just because I don't think a gender has it all sunshine and rainbows doesn't mean I hate the other.

  • Ofcourse. The women in my life have been a tremendous help to me like I try to be to them.

  • You bet I do Ms. Amanda! I LOVE WOMEN 😍😍😍

    Give me women! 👩👩👩 Give me these beauties!

    • Do you prefer blondes or brunettes? Here's one beauty for you...

      Do you care about the opposite sex?

    • I care little. Give me all these beauties 😍😍😍 I'll make them miss me ♥

  • Yup, I do care I try to connect on emotional level, but I have failed. I tried the ways I know but they are quite guarded all though i had no mallice but won't stop trying just give them space if they come back then care from a far

    tbh irl I avoided them in the beginning nothing did I do bad or harm just avoided and was more to myself.

  • Having a teen daughter ( as well as an adult daughter in Nederland ) yes , I value my female friends , but will never date or form a relationship again , not from bitterness , I have simply lost interest in doing so , my Male Curse has faded greatly & prefer to keep my independence ( & what's left of my sanity !! ) and not a " people person " prefer own company or that of a select few.

  • I really don't care anymore Fuck both sides

  • I find solace in caring for other people. Lady, guy, anything. Gives me just as much joy! :)

  • Nope. They don't seem to give two shits about me so it is what it is.

  • Well... OBVIOUSLY. What kinda question is this. Most of my really good friends are guys and whenever they're bothered by something i also feel their pain and want to do all i can to be there for them. I care about people in general.

    • I had to ask this. I had an exchange with a guy that prompted this. Many do not believe women care. I hear this often. I needed to show him, and I will reference this in the future the next time a guy brings this up.

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