Do you care how many guys a girl has slept with before meeting you?

Question

Always wanted to know about this.  For a relationship of course. If your answer is yes, then how many would be *too many* for you? :)

bowenw · Answer

It's her body and her business alone. If she wants to share that information, fine, but it's not appropriate to ask a lady - in my opinion.

HawkPerception · Answer

To an extent. I believe that sexual experience difference almost always ends up with negative feelings due to one person feeling inferior to the other. Girls are more okay with this. They want the guy to be more experienced because it's a dominant trait to have more experience. But when a girl has more experience than the guy, he feels put off as well as probably thinks he can't compare to all the guys she's had. For me, since I've only had 1 sexual partner, I'd be put off if someone had more than 5 even. For each person it's different.

Angelo75 · Answer

5 or more

Josh4206 · Answer

Id prefer under 5 but wouldn't count someone out who had more if I really enjoyed them

chukio · Answer

I just see it as experience but she better work it tho.

Floppy2112 · Answer

I think 20 is a good cut off. Anymore than that cannot be excused by minor indiscretions. I feel the same way about men too, so you cannot accuse me of a double standard. I think too many partners reveals a lot about them and you can bet, you won't be the final on that body count.

chriscdi · Answer

yes for a girl my age id say 2 or 3 at most, cause if its more than that then these are just most likely hookups, that already disqualifies her, now if its from relationships, i can let it slip cause she thought she had something and its her intentions i care about more

Browneye57 · Answer

It depends on if you're a doer or a keeper. Some girls are good for a roll in the sack, some you take home to meet your mom. They're not the same.
If you're the town bicycle - everyone has already rode you - then you're not marriage material. You would just keep doing that.

OTOH, some sexual prowess is of benefit. Most women are pretty clueless.

magiusX26 · Answer

i dont but historically many and most guys do.

Makeushiver · Answer

Certainly not for any physical reason. Everything I've learned about pleasuring a woman comes fro women with some degree of sexual experience. I'd prefer less than 20-25

The_Sal · Answer

of she's clean and doesn't size me up with her other partners then I'm good.  I'm sure girls wonder if they are as good as his previous partners.

RenegadeSailor · Answer

What I find ia that the more men a woman has been with the less likely she is to be faithful.

All of the longer relationships I have had have been with women who were virgins or had few partners when I met them.

I fimd the number of men she has been with to be inversely proportionate to how long the relationship will last.

Massageman · Answer

How would one know be aware of this information before meeting the other?

Flirt254 · Answer

Refrain from asking or telling might strain your relationship

JSmuve · Answer

I care because if she's been with too many and how she's been with them will determine whether we're compatible or not.

I care about emotional connection and if she's slept with a bunch of guys, especially if they're hook ups, then that does not inspire any emotional connection from me. I'd be turned off if it's any more than [age-15]/3 up to a max of 5

hellacray · Answer

Yes I do care.

RHK36 · Answer

Not really unless it's an extreme. So if she's had none or her number is very very high I think that's probably a conversation as to why.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

No. Why would I? Her value as a women does not decrease just because she had sex.  In fact I prefer them experienced. Virgin ones don't really know how to do it.