Do you care if a girl is a virgin or not?

Question

I’m 22 years old and I’m still a virgin, but I feel like I’m saving it for someone who probably won’t even care in the end

TheUniqueOne96 · Accepted Answer

I don't think I would, as I'm a virgin myself.

On one hand, in terms of sex alone, I'd rather have a partner to initiate and show me the ropes, but on the other hand, which will probably be easier, if she'd experienced, but if she'd also a virgin, then I guess I could grow together with her in that aspect.

That being said, in a relationship, I think sex will happen in it's own time and isn't something that I'd feel like I'd rush into, especially as I'd rather have a partner initiate and show me what's up, lol.

godfatherfan · Accepted Answer

You are right. I don't get why women think it is something special that needs to be "saved" or why a guy should look at that as some gift. I am sure there are guys out there that might feel that way, but the far far majority will either not care, or really don't want to have sex with a virgin. Virgins put way to much meaning into it and who wants to deal with all that.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I know a lady who waited until marriage like a good girl. Her reward was 20 years of missionary position twice a week, and never once experiencing oral sex.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Not really. Someone who's not a virgin knows more about what they like, and how to please another person, but someone who is can learn.

Drakkith · Answer

I'd care in the sense that I'd want to make her first time as pleasurable and fulfilling as possible.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Nope, It's not a big deal that your a virgin

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

yes I care, i don't want virgins

Redstang88 · Answer

Yeah, I’d generally prefer she isn’t

Hydrogen · Answer

Yeah I care. Different things to do with a virgin, not an issue though :)

DWornock · Answer

I would never prefer a homely virgin to a pretty non-virgin. However, if all other factors are equal 11 times out of 10, I would choose the virgin if she is your age or younger but not older. For example, there is nothing attractive about a 28-year-old virgin.

Solstice777 · Answer

It does matter you are the kind of girl who is marriage material.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Just makd shure its with a guy who cares an will wait for sex

Twalli · Answer

I don't mind virgins, but I make virgins wait longer for sex.

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Well, I care I'm not a virgin myself, but it is something special to people, if a girl is a virgin and is okay with the fact that i'm not then to me that means an awful lot.

iFarted · Answer

I don't care at all.

Valnac · Answer

Virgins deserve to be taken slow and with someone who genuinely cares about her well-being.

Jonnywayne · Answer

Because I'm no virgin, I don't want any girl refrain from having sex before their marriage.

B2281 · Answer

Perfectly fine with me.

Knightoffire · Answer

Well I respect her more and want to make it really special for her , it is a honor for me so yeah I do care a lot.

Joe1956 · Answer

makes no difference to me unless we met and you wanted to wait...

inquisitive173 · Answer

I've deflowered 10 women and 2 men. I just like the feeling of giving them their first sexual experience. And also that look when I push my cock into them.