Do you do things during a date to try to get your partner sexually aroused?

[OlderAndWiser]

When you are ready to get physical with a new partner, do you do things on a date to try to get them aroused and perhaps send a signal that you are receptive to getting it on? What things do you do to get your partner's sexual attention?

[Anonymous]

I sometimes say or imply something sexual to get them thinking about it. For example if a guy makes a comment about something that I can turn into a dirty joke I will say it and see how he responds. Also lots of flirting and touching (not in a sexual way) but like touching his thigh or “accidentally” grazing across his pants with my ass etc.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Uhm. That is sexual touching wtf

[OlderAndWiser]

@WhiteBoyChill Get over it. Not everyody cares about woke/PC/SJW issues.

[BigD214]

Once a woman touches me below the waist, that seems like a pretty clear indication. As for you who commented anonymous, you're one of those who is very innocent, makes dirty jokes sometimes. But when a guy catches you in the right mood, you are the freakiest woman alive. LOL

[WhiteBoyChill]

@olderandwiser Bud if a man we’re to do that to a woman everybody here would be screaming that it’s sexual assault. I’m so tired of your double standards. And the fact that you even have the gall to call me an SJW when I’m the guy that’s steadfast in my support for Trump is appalling. Piss off. And stop elevating women to a standard where they can act differently than men and have it be ok. @krakenattackin has he always been like this?

[OlderAndWiser]

@WhiteBoyChill The ENTIRE QUESTION is about gettting your partner aroused sexually and you point out that what somebody suggests could be considered "sexual' touching. Isn't that obvious? Why point it out to people who already know that unless you are sending us a signal that this is not okay? Maybe I overreacted and, if I did, I apologize, but your response was rather ambiguous, too.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah sorry its just I’m pointing out that a lot of women would not be ok if a guy did to them what she does to other guys

[OlderAndWiser]

@WhiteBoyChill Yeah, when you get to this point in a relationship, you need to know her and have a sense of whether she is receptive to more. If n doubt, I would whisper in her ear, "I want you. . . . All of you!"

[Opinion Owner]

Omg you need to chill it’s not like I put my hand down someone’s pants and grab their dick. It’s a 2 second ass graze like relax. It’s the same thing when a guy is making out with a girl and grabs our assess or our boobs. Clearly not going to go around and put my ass on a random guy. If it’s a guy who is into me or taking me out on a date I don’t think it’s an issue and that is only if I am sensing he is also sexually attracted to me. I would never do it to someone who isn’t comfortable. So go Fkn chill and calm down before getting all worked up over a little comment

[Makeushiver]

Let's play

[BigD214]

@WhiteBoyChill I've been running businesses since high school, so I know that Trump didn't assault any woman. I've worked with models for years, and yes, women have changed in front of me when they had private rooms to change in. I've met hundreds of men and women that support Trump and have always supported Trump. If you didn't vote for him because of a comment he made decades ago while running several businesses, you deserve the worst consequences of electing democrats. I've been contacted by probably over 60 people who voted for Biden and have regret it. People are more desperate for income when democrats are in power, so my business has a whole lot more appeal. But I prefer when the country is represented by someone who can speak in complete sentences and walk on their own.

[BigD214]

I like that you use pretty direct signs to tell a man your panties are moist. I might end up putting you up against a wall, wrapping your legs around my waist, and grinding up against you while I make out with you. I'm guessing that even reading about what I'd do is making you a bit moist, but I could be wrong. Send me a message if you want to respond in any way.

[BigD214]

From what you wrote in this comment, I think I can safely assume that taking you on a date, I won't need to rent a motel room because between your teasing, and the subtle hints and touches from me, there will be a wet spot between your legs by the time we get back to the car. That typically means that the back seat of that car will be steamed with passionate heat and the clapping of your large or tiny cheeks. LOL. I am a gentleman overall, so you can safely assume that your nipples will be sucked, and I would never even dream of stopping before your vagina is sore. Some women may be offended by such a comment, but the fact that your post is anonymous and that you said all that, it is safe to assume that you would be offended by anything less.

[Anonymous]

I give him cues….. touching, kissing, flirting, more eye contact, leaning into him and creating physical contact or even pulling him toward me. If he doesn’t pick up on those and amazingly, some guys don’t, I can take it up a notch but I prefer if he can read me and take charge.

[Lliam]

No. Jeeez.
I go on dates to see if we like each other. If we do, and we start dating exclusively (which can happen immediately), I still don't do things to "try" to get her sexually aroused other than being desirable. If she has a libido and is attracted to me, she'll let me know with body language.

One of my favorite things is for a girl to step close before we part, look up into my eyes, put her hands on top of my shoulders, lift up on her tip toes, give me a tender kiss, and let me put my arms around her waist and pull her against me at the end of a first date.

That tells me she's interested. It also tells me that she isn't averse to physical touch or sexuality. But I don't get over excited like a tactless fuck boy and ask her to suck my dick or ask her if she wants to fuck.

I'll hug her as a friendly greeting, touch her arm, or put my hand on her back as we walk, but I don't start fondling her. That would be treating her like a hook up ho.

I'll treat her with respect and let the desire and anticipation build. I want her to feel admired, respected and special. But it's up to her to set the pace. Let her make moves to get ME sexually aroused so that she thinks she is in control. Let her think she won me.

I want her to want me badly. I don't want someone who hand out sexual favors to any guy who asks.

After another few dates, and after we have held hands, walked with our arms around each other, and kissed passionately quite a bit, when I walk her to her door, she'll invite me inside. And she's hoping that I want to.

Oh, I'm totally ready and eager to be sexual, but I'm not a creep about it. And I've never had to wait longer than a few dates, sometimes less, to move to passionate sex with a new girlfriend.

[RobT312]

Touching her leg and getting some kissing in at the end of date. I remember having a great dinner date, we both got in the car and we mutually started wildly making out. It’s so much fun when mutual. I don’t date anymore so this thrill is gone

[OlderAndWiser]

https://youtu.be/oica5jG7FpU

[RobT312]

Hahaha Love it

[coachTanthony]

If we both plan on doing the deed later that night then it's always on us to set the mood and the tone.

[melanieeeB]

Nope I'm not on a date to get laid, more to get to know him and figure out his intention

[virgincountryboy]

Well that's great to hear that then what do you think about what if that I am a virgin and I am New to everything about that stuff

[Leopard23]

When in doubt whip it out.

[Leopard23]

60% of the time it works everytime

[AviatorTom]

A passionate kiss once in a while during the date, sure.

[MikeTheBartender]

Fuck yeah. That's the whole purpose of a date isn't it?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Never happened to me

[Heterosketero]

No. I just date, if that is going to happen, it will happen. Hiwever, I am famously oblivious hahaha... Smiles

[Phoenix98]

Just this

Lol in all seriousness yeah if we were both ready for it she was at least giving off signals for it, as for what hmm guess it'd depend on the girl, different things get different girls ready. Aside from the usual stuff, soft touches, saying the right things in the right ways, the eyes how you look at them, innuendoes etc.

[singlemombizz]

Cleavage, revealing clothing etc

[Massageman]

Not any more.

Once in a work situation, a female worker at the office was actually dandling on my leg. (She was like that). I didn't mind though, since I was only about 17.

[poneglyphs]

Nope, not really. I hardly go on dates, but I rarely try to do anything sexual.

[LemiaOfThunder]

date nights are fun

[NostalgiaSenpi]

No. I never got that far to want that.

[WowwGirl]

No I just wait till the moment

[AimeeKyle]

Sure, I flirt in many different ways with them

[Twalli]

Besides my hard minimum for sex, I let her decide.

[Nigjt]

Yes I do things like grab the inside of her legs an see just how far she will let my hand go in between her legs as I kiss her lips an the back of her neck as I do other things to see how it goes.
God Bless

[Guardian45]

If it's a girlfriend or SO yes! If it's a new person, then perhaps not right away.