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Do you engage in anal sex, and if so, why?
mistixs Influencer
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People who say it's painful and unpleasant and only engage in it to please their partner: If the ass was meant to take a dick, it'd get naturally lubricated like the vagina does. You deserve better than to be pressured into unnatural, dangerous, and painful activities that you don't even enjoy. & If your partner was worth your time, they would understand that too.
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26 50I've been doing it a while but im big into kink and exploration so i see it as pretty beginners taboo.
Its just like whatever after a while. Not great, not terrible. Its just a change in scenery🤷♀️
I have never been that crazy about it. I have done it, but only because my partner really was turned on by it and really wanted me to do it. And when everything in her face, eyes and body is THAT hot after something, well, that makes it sexy giving it to her then, so in situations like that, sure, but mainly I never understood the concept entirely. Right next to the ass is the pussy, and that is one of my favourite places in the world to be, so I dont have any desire to leave if first arrived :)
I like giving and receiving. I like the feeling of super tightness on my penis. On the receiving end. I'm in total amazment how it can make me orgasm without my penis being touched or used.
I enjoy it a lot. It feels great for both parties and I like to do things that people normally wouldn't, I guess. Kind of explains my personality, just unusual.
I like how your breply has six likes and they're all guys 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
*reply DOH (damn phone, why must the b key be so close to the space bar) 🤣🤣🤣
I really like it a lot too!!
Tries it felt good. Also fingered my guy on the ass.
I do fuck my girlfriend in the ass. Sometimes use my fingers on her. Sometimes I eat her ass too. We do it because she enjoys it. I enjoy it too. Just something to do now and again for a change of pace. I am never the receiver of anal sex, always the giver. I have no desire to be the receiver.
My girlfriend likes it, but we're into some pervert stuff...
Not my favorite but I have done it
I do it because my partner likes it.
I've like, half done it. She said it hurt so we stopped. Then I was supposed to do it with my ex next time I saw her but we broke up before then
It looks weird and painful.
Update: Yes, you and your partner must only do something you both want to do. Pleasure must be mutual.
you're not supposed to enjoy it. It is domination through pain. I have banged my previous girlfriends in the ass by forcing them. Especially when it was make up sex. In the end they always liked it.
"By forcing them" you realize that's rape right?
It's not rape. It's masculine behaviour. Unless you're coming from the MeToo front. Then yes, everything is rape. You say "yes" now and after your orgasm it's rape.
Did they consent?
One of them didn't say anything. The other said two times "no" while moaning which means "please give it to me rough. Im playing hard to get"
Anus is not designed for sex.
The mouth isn't either. Many people still do both
@AdorableLilo I think with the mouth It's a lot more safe than anal.. so It doesn't really go hand In hand.
@Kaytiee I know oral is safer, but i was responding to what Dragan said. I don't understand if he ment that just because it's not designed for sex he wouldn't do it. Which would mean he wouldn't engage in oral sex, something many men love receiving
@AdorableLilo The mouth was designed to suck on things. Who's to say that doesn't include vulvas/penises? Meanwhile, the anus DEFINITELY isn't designed for sex, because if it was, then it would get naturally lubricated to make penetration easier, just like the vagina does. But it doesn't.
@AdorableLilo Anal is nowhere near as safe for sex as oral is. It's not about whether we do it or not, it's about why we can, the pros and cons. there's no cons to oral unless you're somehow going to bite down on his penis? Anal there are so many cons!
@Kaytiee You can still get STD's by giving oral without protection
@AdorableLilo well you can get STDs from regular sex, too
I can't prove that the mouth isn't ment for giving oral sex, but i can say why i think it's not ment for it. The genitals are made for reproducing. You can't reproduce through the anus or the mouth. At some point humans just realize there are two other wholes on the body that can get penetrated. Also, the mouth and anus are not ment for penetration. Hence why the anus doesn't lubricate and the gag reflex of someone that doesn't do oral frequently. (saliva doesn't coun't as lubrication because you produce about 0.75 to 1.5 litres of saliva per day nonetheless)
@AdorableLilo "The genitals are made for reproducing" the clitoris isn't made for reproducing, it's made for pleasure.
My comment was ment as a reply to what @Kaytiee said, which was ' there's no cons to oral unless you're somehow going to bite down on his penis?'
@mistixs I know the purpose of the clitoris is to pleasure, that's why i said genitals. The female genitals doesn't only consist of the clitoris. There's still the labia majora, labia minora, vagina, and so on. Those parts together are called the female genitals.
@AdorableLilo well if a man does oral correctly, he'll focus primarily on the clit, which is made for pleasure
@mistixs What's your point?
@AdorableLilo My point is that your statement "I can't prove that the mouth isn't ment for giving oral sex, but i can say why i think it's not ment for it. The genitals are made for reproducing." is incorrect. I mean, it could be presumed for oral sex performed on a man, but not oral sex performed on a woman.
@mistixs First you say that my statement is incorrect. As if it's a fact that what i said was false, but what you backed it up with was a 'probably' argument. I 'd accept what you said if it was something along the lines of 'the mouth isn't only ment for oral sex' then back that up with some facts.
Hell no, that's nasty.
Bums are for pooping.
End of story.
Sorry. But anal is a lot too far , to near gay sex , for me...
i understand your point but the only thing that makes you gay is liking penis
@americhum true but putting mine in there is s bit to much. The has a perfect place for mine and that is the only place it will go...
ahhh, gotcha!
@americhum Been with women who wanted me to do it but refused. Got a bit of a mixed feeling about it...
no woman should ever make you feel bad about something like that. kick them to the curb and keep it pushing
Anal sex can be pleasurable... from a lot of women's testimony, they have experienced stronger orgasms from anal. More intense. I don't do it because it's not really my thing.. but I'm not going to knock people that do
I do it a sometime with my boyfriend, not often mostlyvdo it for him, I'm not a hige fan but can be enjoyable sometimes with him.
Its very pleasurable for my girlfriend
I do, but not frequently