Do you ever base your self worth on how successful you’re with the opposite sex?

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.. or what they think of you?

AN1995 · Accepted Answer

Weak men think like this. Beta males. Women like alpha males. Actual (MEN).
Big difference between boys and men

I have never had a problem picking up women.
Even girls older than me by 5+ years.

I've dated, slept around, had long term relationships. You name it... i did it in my lifetime.

Ladies love me, But i never thought about why... maybe its my personality
or the way i carry my self or even looks?

It doesn't have anything to do with self worth most of the time. Theirs 100 other factors at work

i can sleep with, date or pick up/seduce almost any girl i like, If i find a girl attractive give It a couple months she will wind up in my bed.
(ALMOST) every girl i realy wanted to fuck i got the opertunity to.
(with the exception of a couple)

And i have friends that can't get. A kiss on the cheek.

Totaly depends on the guy.
.
self worth is what you make it

Sonorous · Accepted Answer

I used to! But that was only because I didn't realize how & why stuff like that wasn't the key to steady & sustainable happiness.

YouTuber's dedicated to red-pill & black-pill concepts helped me the most. Though I don't agree with everything they say, they spoke some truth into my ears! And made me question what I thought I knew about myself.

Now I'm so different! I recently listened to a recorded audio clip from last year of me explaining some of my dating frustrations, and I couldn't help but laugh. I meant well, but I just didn't really know what would benefit me the most.

I just wanted that temporary dopaminergic response that everyone is told to go after. And the ego & status boost that comes with it.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

No, because if I did I would be in a constant state of severe depression.

I'll admit, when I was younger, I did because I thought if guys liked or were attracted to you, that was a reflection of your looks, how popular you were, and affected your self esteem. I saw all my "pretty" friends have guys flocking to them or eyeing them from across the room and it made me feel like crap because no one gave me that kind of attention.

But as you get older, you realize there's WAY more to life than basing your worth on what others, especially the opposite gender, thinks about you. And you just stop caring, well I did at least.

just_a_potato · Accepted Answer

Not on the opposite sex as a whole, just the person I'm dating of the opposite sex, but even that isn't very healthy..

standingUP · Answer

I said YES, because even tho I have been with many women and have made all of them cum hard and multiple times I am always curious with the new one how she will like the experience. The woman I am with now is the best person on Earth and when we make love she just boosts my confidence through higher extremes with her true amazement looking at me like i'm some super human machine.(her words). My self worth is very successful and explodes my confidence with knowing that my eyes don't lie when you gaze into them and melt with knowing I'm full of passion that can bring it.

I know this is not the depth of the question. But it is the most relevant circumstance to my answer.

InternetGuy · Answer

No, that sounds really unhealthy.

Apple1996 · Answer

No not at all. I could care less about what others think of me

Drowningkingfish · Answer

I mean if your successful at becoming only friends with all the girls you liked throughout your life, you kind if feel as though women generally don't take you seriously enough or manly enough for a relationship.

FreyaRed · Answer

Nope. I have other priorities, because I have much more opportunities than only that.

TremorJay · Answer

In high school, 100% Right now, it's about 50/50 between my dating life and my career Later, I expect it to include my relationship with my kids

Jjpayne · Answer

Thankfully not completely but I am significantly lacking confidence because of this fact

Lynx122 · Answer

Those thoughts do come but I fight them off :P

Finchie40 · Answer

No , I value my own self worth for myself , If I am in a relationship with a beautiful girl , I am with her cuz we have an amazing connection she is her own person , I can only guide her to be with me but can’t force her. If she chooses to walk away that’s her decision , My self worth knows that love can’t be forced. I would be happy knowing she chooses to stand by my side but it wouldn’t change who I am

Dargil · Answer

That's what many young guys do. Trophies.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes I do sometimes

cth96190 · Answer

No, I do not base my sense of self worth upon my success with women.
There are men who have been less successful with women than I have been, but not many.
The women who I encountered wanted sociopathic shitbags. I was not such a person.
The bad boys can have the women who get wet over them. They deserve each other.

Browneye57 · Answer

Sure. Highly successful people are highly sought after. And vice versa.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

No. It has never crossed my mind to do this.

ravagesavage · Answer

No that's really silly as hell 😂

AdithyaR · Answer

If I'd measure myself with how women thought I was, I'd consider myself my a clueless nerd. But no, I know I'm a highly knowledgeable intellectual.

letssee89 · Answer

That's a terrible idea for me. I'm just about the exact opposite of successful with women.

R3DthatDude · Answer

There will always be someone that don’t like you no matter what you do, and the opposite of that as well. I just don’t give af personally, just be easy and relax. Don’t need to be Casanova

MasRus · Answer

nah.

Unit1 · Answer

This may work for girls but modern boys already suffer from depression and low self esteem as it is. Them being penniless students broke them before they could rise up.

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