Guys, do you ever feel self-conscious about your high number of sexual partners? Have you ever lied about it or lower it to a potential partner?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Only when I'm talking to religious women.
Some of them are still virgins or only had one boyfriend and they wouldn't understand that I went to parties and did a lot of stupid stuff before my marriage that I hardly remember.
My bodycount isn't high compared to my friends, but it doesn't sound very good to some Filipinos and religious, white farm girls that I meet.

[Asker]

Do you lie about it then?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't exactly lie, I just avoid the subject. I tell them that I was married and with the same woman for a very long time (Which is true). I don't feel the need to bring up old drunken hookups at parties that I'm not even proud of.

[Asker]

Are you really self-conscious about it or what?

[Opinion Owner]

Sometimes. If I'm talking to average women around where I live I worry that maybe my bodycount isn't high enough considering I was married for so long. Like I said, if I'm talking to religious women I worry that they will see me as trouble when I say that I have had one night stands.

[shortster]

No, because my number is as low as it goes, 0. I would never lie about that; as sex is about as intimate an experience as you can get. So you should be willing to share everything about yourself before you get into bed with someone. Though from time to time I do get self conscious about being a virgin; especially at my age.

[AustinMan]

When it comes to sexual history, don't ask, don't tell.

[Samoht_Sirrom1]

Mine is 0 since I hit 11.. So, No need to.

[DavidFox]

Not worried. I’m in the 30s and no regrets

[Asker]

That's a lot at your age...

[DavidFox]

Lol, that’s college parties!

[Asker]

Still... A lot lol

[DavidFox]

I know, I’ve settled down a bit recently ;)

[Thatsamazing]

Males have no reason to be self-conscious about our number, and as such, have no reason to lie. So we shouldn't.

[Asker]

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha! An other sexist guy 😆

[Thatsamazing]

Hahaha another female who knows and understands literally nothing about human sexuality or evolutionary biology.

[Asker]

You're just a little know-it-all 😉.

[KrakenAttackin]

A man should not be self conscious about his number of sexual partners.

[Asker]

Why?

[KrakenAttackin]

The more sexual partners a man has the more high-quality women chase him. Prove me wrong.

[Asker]

Quality women as women with a higher number of sexual partners 😉.

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker A woman with a high number of sexual partners is, by definition, NOT a high quality woman.

[Asker]

Double standard...

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker, yes it is a double standard that reflects realities of biology and society. It will never be seen as a good thing for a woman to be a whore.

[Asker]

It's a sexist view... That's it. Stop saying it's biology. It's stupid.

[KrakenAttackin]

It is reality.

[Asker]

It's all in your head...

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker. If a high value man has a choice between a woman who has had a lot of sexual partners or a woman who has had zero or very few sexual partners, he will always choose the latter for a long term relationship. This should make women think twice about riding the cock carousel.

[Asker]

And many women who respect themselves will believe the same.

[KrakenAttackin]

Men will be the judge of if you are high quality or not.

[Asker]

Whatever lol