If he ask, i may do it, but it is not a given... it is all about what feels right at the moment
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JayParrisGuru
+1 y
For me, dating is reserved for relationships. I'm not taking some random chick out to a nice dinner to get to know her. Mainly because you're not really getting to know her at all. She's gonna be on her best behavior and trying to give all the right answers and impressions. Second to that, I'm not paying for anyone's time, and if a woman doesn't value my time enough to get top know me without me paying for it, she's not worth my effort.
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GoodGuyBreakingBadMaster
+1 y
No, when I date a girl I don't expect oral sex after a meal
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WowwGirl
+1 y
Smart
GoodGuyBreakingBad
+1 y
@wowwgirl Thanks
WowwGirl
+1 y
Sure
Drumlin2001Guru
+1 y
No. I never expect anything
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Broken_dollXper 5
+1 y
Are you fucking kiddingme? He's lucky I even went on a date with him to begin with. Value yourselves. You are giving him your time. That's enough
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djmzes
+1 y
He is lucky!!!
WowwGirl
+1 y
Amen
jspl90
+1 y
Hmm so your time is worth more than his🤔what makes it so?
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Broken_doll
+1 y
@jspl90 did I say that? No. But I'm used to guys turning everything on here into a gender issue. obv if a guy expects a bj on a first date, he thinks he is more valuable than her
jspl90
+1 y
@Broken_doll well you did say that he is lucky that you even went on a date with him to me that sounds like you feel that you are worth more than him and it was a woman that said at least she can blow him I dont and never will expect a blowjob just because I paid for the dinner🤔 but usually i got dutch unless they are a student or something then i offer to pay
Broken_doll
+1 y
@jspl90 if a guy expects a bj on a first date, then yes my time is more valuable than his, because he's a douchebag piece of shit
jspl90
+1 y
@Broken_doll there we totally agree👍 if you want a blowjob simply because you paid money just get a prostitute
Broken_doll
+1 y
@jspl90 exactly
humanearthMaster
+1 y
Me as a guy and if girl would do that, I would less respect for them.
I like ladies not whores
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Ripper_EMaster
+1 y
No. that's a ridiculous expectation. If I take a woman out it's because I want to, not because I expect something in return. Something will either come of it or it won't, for both of us.
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WowwGirl
+1 y
Good for you sir
Anpu23Master
+1 y
Um, no...
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Phoenix98Master
+1 y
Nope.
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Branden315Xper 4
+1 y
This question can best be answered by a question, is he an idiot?
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jamesgoldmanMaster
+1 y
No but I wouldn't refuse if it was offered
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cth96190Guru
+1 y
No and certainly not until we have exchanged STD test results.
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AndrewMGGuru
+1 y
I'd expect them to turn up, anything else is a bonus! lol
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jessicasissyXper 5
+1 y
I don't think that way when taking a girl out but when I go out with guys I can definitely be talked into giving them one and would be happy to get one
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bodukemXper 5
+1 y
No i don't expect anything but I will happily receive anything she will give.
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chriscdiMaster
+1 y
i dont do dates atm but no all id expect is to make a good first impression on the first date
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WowwGirl
+1 y
Cool👍
Browneye57Master
+1 y
No, this is actually why women don't want their date paying for anything. They feel obligated. Fools. WTF ever happened to simply saying THANK YOU?
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WowwGirl
+1 y
Very well said
MannMitAntwortenGuru
+1 y
I think, if the present lady doesn’t work out... where can a gal like her be found next? :p
No. Not something I would remotely expect, but a man could dream.
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WowwGirl
+1 y
True.
MannMitAntworten
+1 y
Ooooh yeah ;)
WowwGirl
+1 y
Be equal of a chance as me getting a diamond necklace after a meal on a date Little to none😂
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MannMitAntworten
+1 y
Well... in fairness, it has happened a few times. Just not every time. So, perhaps the odds are in my favor. :D
WowwGirl
+1 y
👍👍😂
MannMitAntworten
+1 y
There may be a diamond neckless in your future at some point.
magiusX26Guru
+1 y
no i do not. but i also do not care to get a blow job ever. they do so little for me.
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MakeushiverYoda
+1 y
I don't expect.. Great sex is more than a series of actions & needs spontaneity. Intuition & signals from lover will guide me. When you are dialed in you can encourage her to tell you what she really likes. After she answers- since I assume she has darker fantasies that she doesn't want to mention, I ask again, "what really turns you on all of it. When you establish a rythm all kinds of things can happen. I can sense where she is in her orgasm & edge her until she's dying for it & encourage her to allow me to see how many more I can coax from her while she is super-sensitive
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29 132If he ask, i may do it, but it is not a given... it is all about what feels right at the moment
For me, dating is reserved for relationships. I'm not taking some random chick out to a nice dinner to get to know her. Mainly because you're not really getting to know her at all. She's gonna be on her best behavior and trying to give all the right answers and impressions. Second to that, I'm not paying for anyone's time, and if a woman doesn't value my time enough to get top know me without me paying for it, she's not worth my effort.
No, when I date a girl I don't expect oral sex after a meal
Smart
@wowwgirl Thanks
Sure
No. I never expect anything
Are you fucking kiddingme? He's lucky I even went on a date with him to begin with. Value yourselves. You are giving him your time. That's enough
He is lucky!!!
Amen
Hmm so your time is worth more than his🤔what makes it so?
@jspl90 did I say that? No. But I'm used to guys turning everything on here into a gender issue. obv if a guy expects a bj on a first date, he thinks he is more valuable than her
@Broken_doll well you did say that he is lucky that you even went on a date with him to me that sounds like you feel that you are worth more than him and it was a woman that said at least she can blow him I dont and never will expect a blowjob just because I paid for the dinner🤔 but usually i got dutch unless they are a student or something then i offer to pay
@jspl90 if a guy expects a bj on a first date, then yes my time is more valuable than his, because he's a douchebag piece of shit
@Broken_doll there we totally agree👍 if you want a blowjob simply because you paid money just get a prostitute
@jspl90 exactly
Me as a guy and if girl would do that, I would less respect for them.
I like ladies not whores
No. that's a ridiculous expectation. If I take a woman out it's because I want to, not because I expect something in return. Something will either come of it or it won't, for both of us.
Good for you sir
Um, no...
Nope.
This question can best be answered by a question, is he an idiot?
No but I wouldn't refuse if it was offered
No and certainly not until we have exchanged STD test results.
I'd expect them to turn up, anything else is a bonus! lol
I don't think that way when taking a girl out but when I go out with guys I can definitely be talked into giving them one and would be happy to get one
No i don't expect anything but I will happily receive anything she will give.
i dont do dates atm but no all id expect is to make a good first impression on the first date
Cool👍
No, this is actually why women don't want their date paying for anything. They feel obligated. Fools.
WTF ever happened to simply saying THANK YOU?
Very well said
I think, if the present lady doesn’t work out... where can a gal like her be found next? :p
No. Not something I would remotely expect, but a man could dream.
True.
Ooooh yeah ;)
Be equal of a chance as me getting a diamond necklace after a meal on a date Little to none😂
Well... in fairness, it has happened a few times. Just not every time. So, perhaps the odds are in my favor. :D
👍👍😂
There may be a diamond neckless in your future at some point.
no i do not. but i also do not care to get a blow job ever. they do so little for me.
I don't expect.. Great sex is more than a series of actions & needs spontaneity. Intuition & signals from lover will guide me. When you are dialed in you can encourage her to tell you what she really likes. After she answers- since I assume she has darker fantasies that she doesn't want to mention, I ask again, "what really turns you on all of it. When you establish a rythm all kinds of things can happen. I can sense where she is in her orgasm & edge her until she's dying for it & encourage her to allow me to see how many more I can coax from her while she is super-sensitive