Do you feel like you’re missing out on someone because you didn’t have sex with them right away?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

You know I love this question because I look at it a different couple ways it's not that I'm missing out because I didn't have sex with them right away I mean it doesn't matter when you start to have sex or when you do start have sex with matters is each time that you do it you do it because you want to and do it the best you possibly can and make it all about that person so for me it doesn't matter I would not feel that way because it starts in the Here and Now and it's going to be fantastic every time
now what I do feel is when you're talking to somebody on the internet and you do role play are you talk to them on the phone and things get so hot and sexy and is the major turn on and you don't want to push yourself if you want to be a gentleman you want to show who you really are as you're talking with Evan and having these beautiful conversations but I hate when all the sudden it is and you didn't get to take them where you really wanted to take them or vice versa I know a girl that I would just love to feel exactly what you would feel when we would have went all the way and I I hate that we did not do that we are still friends we are good friends but I just miss that so much I wanted her to feel that part of me and we never will I guess it sucks really big time I regret not going that distance when we had that time we were chatting

Jamie05rhs · Accepted Answer

No. Why would I feel like that? That's her vagina, not mine. Vaginas are Level 10 Security Clearance. We simply haven't gotten that far yet. There are many simpler yet still wonderful things to explore in the meantime. :)

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

No, because if they were supposedly right for me, they wouldn't have stopped seeing me or lost interest because I wasn't ready to sleep with them at the time.

Xitomyth · Answer

Nope

Savage_Wisdom · Answer

No. I hate it when a relationship is reduced to merely sex, which is really easy to do if you do it from the get go. I prefer to get to know her as a person first. Besides, I've always had to be attracted to her personally before I can be attracted to her physically. At least for romantic relationships.

IAMNathanael · Answer

Nope. As I said before, I'm still a virgin. So whatever I'm missing out on I don't really care.

MalesGOD1 · Answer

Men just get pissed at all the time wasted by not having sex. With women its like their first time every time they have first sex with each man. They let their minds go wild of all the things that can happen to them emotionally and then when after it happens they realized they got all worked up for nothing and wasted time.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

No. Never.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Every day

exitseven · Answer

No, I thought they were all worth waiting for.

Browneye57 · Answer

Tell us why you don't want to have sex. Right away or otherwise.  Tell us what you think you're missing out on.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nope.

Andres77 · Answer

Nope... but it depends on the person too.

DaveToo · Answer

Only once. When I was about 19 or 20 and was double dating with my best friend and his girl. The gal I was with I tried to be a gentleman. Didn't push for sex and she ended up with a black guy and pregnant.