Do you feel that all the women who hate porn, hate them mainly because it makes them feel insecure about themselves?

[Anonymous]

Granted, as a guy and speaking for myself, porn is often times unrealistic and over-the-top, but there are many guys who can still separate porn as fiction from real-world sex and see porn as nothing more than fantasy to be turned on by, not necessarily things you can actually act on. Women, for some odd reason, see porn as a massive threat to them and assume it will "ruin" all men and their outlook of sex and pushes for government banning them or punishing all men for it.

You have a few ex-porn stars who are now all of the sudden rallying against porn pretending to do so out of moralistic reasons when the real reason is that they finally hit the wall and are just salty that they can't make money off of it anymore so they kick the ladder down for younger and aspiring adult film actresses.

[Gummy_Cluster]

I heard that Hugh Hefner’s daughter was very much against her dad’s Playboy dynasty. She said that Playboy was exploiting women. What a load of horse shit. The girls didn’t have a gun pointed at their heads. But when Hugh’s daughter got a chance to work for the company and make millions, she magically changed her tune. So if these ex pornstars are dissing on the industry, does that mean they donated all of their dirty money to orphanages and cancer research? I'm guessing they kept their Ill-gotten gains for themselves.

And I’ve given up on trying to tell people to go the other direction on this stuff. You’re not going to change human nature. This is how a smart girlfriend handles this situation.

Now you're golden. I never said you have to do the threesome, but just don't punish him for being normal. Just tease him, but don't criticize him. And when this happens in reverse, he needs to do the same for you. Or you can pretend that cats like to swim out in the pond and retrieve ducks, and labs don't.

[Apple1996]

Nah its because it's a addiction and men put to much time and energy into it rather then actually seeking real women. Like let's put it this way it ain't attractive for men to lust after basically "fake" women when there are real ones around. It's not about being insecure, it's just a turn off to women.

[Twalli]

Some men can't separate porn and real life. They expect their girls to do what pornstars can. Some (on here) wonder why real life is not more like porn. A guy on here wondered why no girls he delivered pizza to tried to fuck him. Another guy wants to go back to college because he thinks he'll have more sex in college (he's pushing 30). So those are some reasons why women dislike porn. It also pushes the objectification of women to the absolute limit. Yet some dislike porn because it makes them feel insecure.

[gorydetails]

Maybe becasue they understand that porn is detrimental to society.

[Asker]

I'm not here to try to advocate or oppose porn but my biggest gripe with conservative "men"(especially the very religious types) is they see porn and violent video games as the root causes of all of certain society's problems when porn usage by men just happen to be symptoms of much bigger and actual problems in society that both political sides are so frustratingly tone deaf about.

[gorydetails]

That doesn't negate what I said. You can have foot circulation issues due to the bigger actual problem of having diabetes. That doesn't mean the foot issues are not detrimental because they're just a symptom.

[Twalli]

Yet treating the foot won't fix the problems long term. People keep trying to end things by stopping the supply. Supply will always exist because there is demand. There is a woman who sells jars of her farts. Why can she do that? People will buy it. If nobody wanted to buy it, then she couldn't sell it. The demand goes away the supply chain dries up.

[gorydetails]

@Twalli Is the foot diseased? Will it have to be taken off at some point?

[Twalli]

If it's diseased, yes, but treating it will be a stopgap until you can get the diabetes under control. If you only treat the manifestations of it, then they'll keep popping up.

[Anonymous]

I don't know I love it and very comfy with myself in the bedroom.
They may be insecure because said porn star looks nothing like said girlfriend... maybe even better than her. So I understand. I love watching with my husband tho.. it's hot af I would never include another girl with us... maybe if I can fuck her husband somewhere else and him too. Sure