Do you find insecurity or confidence to be more sexually arousing?

[mistixs]

To clarify, "confident" doesn't refer to arrogance.

[motownplayer2000]

Confidence by a long shot.

[pizzalovershouse]

Both just depends on which parts the girl is more assertive about what she likes like hobbies or cooking to what she is best st an so on

[CaptainSmartass]

Confidence. If she knows what she wants, and has the guts to do it (within reason), then I like it.

Simples...

[KrakenAttackin]

OMG insecurity that manifest as jealousy and paranoia is the absolute WORST.

[YHL6965]

Both are cool in my opinion, as long as it's not excessive.

[Agem123]

Confidence,100%. Being insecure, especially in bed is such a turn off.

[AlongCameCindy]

Confidence is more sexually arousing than insecurity, but i am not turned of by insecurities either, people have them.

[simplelikeme]

There is nothing sexually arousing about insecurity one bit. Insecurity should be taken seriously, and not exploited for someone's pleasure. That is sick and disgusting.

[JamesBlackDragon]

Confidence

[ivbnlknfru]

I believe its deeper than both

[CT_CD]

Only insecurity is sexually arousing

[Plitty-Tank]

Both of them have arousal powers.

[Silver158]

Confidence although I tend to attract more insecure women looking to get a confidence or ego boost.

[Razal]

Neither are sexually arousing

[Misterboombastic]

Sometimes

[KUWAR]

Yes in slum areas

[999Jason]

Confidence

[somedude93]

Confidence. I want her to be at least cool with the lights on.

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is confident in finding this sexually arousing. I don't know why though.

[Opinion Owner]

I find confidence sexually arousing.

[Anonymous]

Now that you mention it... confidence!