Do you get bothered if someone is staring at you on the beach?

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  • Going anywhere, one never knows who is going to look at them. Sometimes it feels like they are staring at me, but then I realize they are thinking in a daze and simply looking my direction as I move they still look the same way.

    A beach or somewhere in a bikini, someone is going to look. Everyone is always checking out bodies and what types of suits people are wearing.

    Usually it doesn't bother me, but it can make me a little worried that my bottom has slipped or is coming lose or something.

    Even so, it isn't the end of the world.

    If it is a nude beach, then I don't have to worry about that I guess.

    The one time I do get bothered is someone stares at me then tells me I'm dressed too revealing, as if they are helpless to look away.

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  • Yeah, I would feel super uncomfortable and feel like they're judging me negatively

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  • I think it's a bit different for guys, but generally it doesn't bother me. However, I'm currently single, but if I were at the beach with a girlfriend and another woman kept staring at me that might be a little rude and inconsiderate. But in general terms I think it's relatively normal to glance at people while at the beach. As long as they're not repeatedly gawking, there's nothing horrible about it.

  • I usually go to the beach in the summer to let out stress so going and seeing a bunch of beautiful bodies in tiny bikinis always messes with me but I try to make sure I don’t stair. I’ve never been stared at to know what that feels like though! 😂😂

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  • Yes I would. It's extremely rude and inappropriate to stare at people. It can be deemed threatening behaviour

  • no, if there stare at me they aren't staring at someone else

  • A bit bothered, yes.

  • Naw I don’t care. I sometimes Stare at others and expect the same…. it just happens at beaches

  • It has happened... but it does not bother me. I think staring could creep out girls more easily however.

  • nope

  • All the opposite, I'm a bit of an exhibitionist. I love when I'm looked at by a girl or group. of girls, when I notice it, I always try to get changed in a way they can see me. Sometimes I get some reactions and that turns me on A LOT 🙈

    I even filmed one once cause there were a group of girls that were giggling looking at me, so I wanted to see how they would react but didn't want to be so obvious to stare at them while doing it 😅

    So yeah, not a bother 🤣

  • As for me I love my solar therapy days especially on those warmer days. As for people I could care less if they stare at me & if they do I take it as a compliment.

  • No, I can't pick who stares at me, when I am wearing almost nothing.

  • If I make eye contact and they keep staring it can be a little creepy. It's flattering to be noticed, but not stared at.

  • I can’t stress this one enough, this happens literally all the time. I’m used to it by now so I can safely say it doesn’t bother me as much

  • I don't care. That's pretty typical. When you are out in public, people look at you.

  • Not really. I usually dont notice and I enjoy attention. Maybe of the way they were looking at me came off as disturbing.

  • No. I won't pay attention to them unless they actually walk up to me or bother me. I get stared at so often.

  • I get it all the time, but it's usually the Police or Lifeguards?

  • It depends on the reason why they are staring at me.

  • Girls, no. Guys, yes.
    Some of us (both) dress to draw attention.

  • It bothers me a little bit, if I can distract myself enough so I don't feel them staring, I am okay.
    Towels, music, friends, a book, videos. Whatever I can use, I will.

  • Only if it's a guy, especially if he's playing with himself!

  • Nope. Although I would wonder why they were staring.

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