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Do you get turned off when someone has had a lot of sexual partners?
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If a guy/girl told you they had a foursome with 3 girls/3 guys would you be turned off?
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What Girls & Guys Said
72 123a huge turn off.
No I wouldn't but I've never been with someone who has had more sexual partners than me
Yes... I don't want a promiscuous man.
Yupp no ty
I'm less interested.
I don't neccesarily get turned off by their past activities but I do get turned off by his need to tell me
Agreed. Whenever I date someone, I don't wonder about how many men a girls been with. But just like you I do get turned off when women go off about their sexual pasts. I once had a Tinder date nearly volunteer her whole sexual history on the first date. I was like um why are you telling me this? It was like 95% of the date's conversation. None of which I asked to hear.
@bloodmountain1990 ugh. Some people (?) smh.
Yep. There's a fine line between being a sexual being and acting like a sex object
Doesn't bother me as its their past. If they are highlying sexual people they just find someone whos the same. I wouldn't worry if my guy had multiple experiences by thinking he would cheat on me. I trust I'm fulfilling his needs and I make him happy.
To be honest, yes I do get turned off, but it's not the fact alone that they have had multiple sexual partners, it's the reasoning behind it that's what turns me off. If things just didn't workout because they dated and stuff like that, totally understandable, but if they've had sex with multiple partners like it was nothing or they've cheated multiple times, HELL NO!
Yeah, pretty much.
Yes.
Wouldn't trust him.
Yes definitely. THe less the better.
Don't you want him to be experience so he knows what he is doing in bed?
@BubbleBoy69 well, we can learn together !
Turn off
I don't ask. Personally, I couldn't care less how many partners my partner or anyone in general has had.
Absolutely. People who say the past doesn't matter? Bullshit. Employers, creditors, apartment managers... they all want employment, credit, or renting history for a reason.
And that's dealing with stuff that is infinitely less important than an activity which could bring new life for which you are responsible into the world.
"The past is the past" is slut code for "I've done some shit I know I shouldn't have, but I don't want to pay for my mistakes by being rightly judged unsuitable as a mate."
Past performance is indicative of likely future outcome.
Yes, I don't wanna date someone who has a big sexual past history. For your safe, you shouldn't date those type of people, they may have been keeping some diseases.
I would just have my partner tested. lol 😂 no big deal
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For me, it is a turn off if someone is wildly sexual like that. More power to you and your sexual conquest though. Just not for me.
Opinion owner. Good for you !!
No it doesn't turn me off if they're still a great person. As long as they're clean and have proof I don't care about their sexual past.
Agreed. How they act in the present matters more than anything.
@bloodmountain1990 Exactly. I'm not interested in someone's past as long as they're a good person now with me.
Yeah if anything, I find it a turnoff if a girl starts ranting about her sexual history to me, especially when I didn't ask. I once had a tinder date start going into her sexual history, discussing number of partners, how she had sex with her ex 2 days prior, how good he is in bed, how they're both sex addicts, how she's had sex with 2 guys of the same name as the busboy who walked by, and showed me nudes she's taken on her phone over the years. I have not felt so uncomfortable on a date.
Like it isn't her past itself, but the fact that she felt the need to talk about it when I didn't ask, and it took up 95% of the conversation. Even if you're just wanting a hookup, that info is unnecessary.
Ironically, she also showed me messages from other guys on tinder and complained about how they treat her like a sex object.
@bloodmountain1990 she sounds crazy. I just don't know why anyone would want to know how many partners someone has had. What do you gain from that info?
Oh she was crazy as fuck. She had other red flags that were non sex related too. She showed up to the date high and drunk, told me how i had to buy her drinks because she bought an 8th of weed despite that I asked her out. She also crashed her car after we left. Yeah, I don't see any benefit to knowing that info either. It's not like those conversations end positively regardless of what one's answer is.
@bloodmountain1990 I turned up to a date drunk once but it was with my LT Boyfriend and I was mad as fuck with him. I wouldn't ever do it again haha and certainly not on a first date.
Haha yeah that's a little different. This was us meeting for the first time. She also added me on facebook and took a pic with me and put it on facebook while on the first date, weird.
@bloodmountain1990 eurgh. At least you didn't sleep with her, she sounds crazy af.
Another reason I don't discuss sexual history is because everyone's different. There's no universal way of pleasing everyone in bed. Nor is there any reason to compare people to each other.
@bloodmountain1990 exactly! All that matters is if you're both right for each other and can make it work. Nothing else is relevant.
@Blonde401 yeah I could have but didn't, just made out with her. She definitely had issues. There was another girl I dated shortly after her who was also crazy but in different ways.
@bloodmountain1990 crazy isn't always bad. I think girls with a pinch of crazy are fun 😂
It depends on the kind of crazy really.
I'll PM you.
@bloodmountain1990 this is true
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I would not be turned off but I would not date someone who had a foursome.
yeah :\ unfortunately it's a turn off for me