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Do you get turned off when someone has had a lot of sexual partners?
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If a guy/girl told you they had a foursome with 3 girls/3 guys would you be turned off?
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72 123more a turn on for me
We are consenting adults. If you are feeling comfortable for a threesome or more... Go for it. I did that and it was nothing wrong with that. If one of them have disease or illness... I will draw the line. If anyone whom, I used to work with or former boss or neighbors. I will not involved with them.
Yes, I do.
Yes. I would be turned off.
yea totally
No. The past is the past.
Yes that's pretty much a deal breaker honestly. I mean her thought process would have been "yeah I'm just gonna let these 3 guys fuck me, no big deal."
That's pretty gross.
Look at this way. For someone to have a foursome, they have to have some game. Let's assume they're pretty good looking, good personality. They convinced 3 other people to have sex with them.
Why would someone that open and sexually comfortable be with someone who wasn't? I don't see anything happening between someone who is open sexually and someone who would be turned off by it. So I doubt anyone here saying yes they would have an issue, would ever be in that situation.
Assuming they didn't pay 3 people to have sex with them. I'm sure someone is going to comment about prostitution.
Yes, I would
No because I have too and it's not a big deal so long as they are clean
Honestly i wouldn't really trust someone who have a lot of sexual partner. I would always think he's not the one girl guy type but more about having the most sexual partner he can.
No... why would I? First off, the past is the past. Even if you don't like something they did, why hold it over their head when it was back in the day, or even recent past? Second, everyone has the desires to play, and feel out their sexuality, we just do it in different ways. Golden Rule even applies in sex, if you don't want judged for your thoughts, desires, wants, kinks, and history, then don't judge others for theirs.
Once I get that image in my mind, I could never look at her as my girlfriend.
Wait!! What if it was all girls thou?
I would not like it at all. So much so I'd consider breaking up. Especially if she had a multitude of guys at the same sexual encounter... Just thinking of that for any girl pisses me off.
- If I knew a woman has had sex with 2 or more men at the same time, or 2 different men in the same day, I wouldn't want anything more than friendship or casual sex from her.
- So long as her partner count isn't crazy high I wouldn't care about it, unless she is/was a "party girl"
- I also wouldn't have anything to do with someone who has been a sugar baby or a prostitute.
- If she makes me work for sex but has giving it away "for free" to other men in the past then I also would only consider her for casual sex of friendship.
- If she has ever cheated I might not even want to be her friend.. maybe.. but certainly no romantic relationship, would consider casual sex if she was hot but only if she was really hot.
So if she doesn't make u wait and gives it up the question is would u stay around... Most women with a high body count either have sex to quickly with someone she thought would stay and they end up doing the opposite
@Najie_TooSweet Yeah I get what your saying.. For me it would depend on the person and our connection, their number wouldn't be toooo important but not tons of people, preferably. I really really don't like judging people for their sexual desires or history. So I guess I'm saying I would absolutely give her as fair a chance as anyone else. Honestly I would probably even give a former pro a chance, if she wasn't fucked up somehow, but not a partygirl/cheater/sugar baby even if that is all in the past. Quick to bed I'd be wondering if she's just easy, sex addict or if she only wants sex that kind of stuff but I would with hold judgement until I knew her better. Slow to bed I'd be wondering if she's playing me, pretending to be sweet when in reality she fucks guys day 1 but is making me work for what she gives away free. I'd with hold judgement though until i knew her better. does that answer your question? lol
Lol yes it does like you said it all about getting to know a person... i know people that dont even wanna get to know the person they having sex with they say "keep it mutual i call him when i only want sex" and they fell to realize u dont know this dude from the back your hand and what he doing during the time u not talking... its good to know something about a person even if it not a lot it something
@Najie_TooSweet Yeah I agree, personally I like knowing the people I have sex with it makes everything more enjoyable in my opinion. It does increases the risk of developing unwanted feelings for someone but that doesn't bother me much when it happens. If it's a casual sex only situation and I get feelings that are not mutual I'm just open about it and do not expect anything to change and I'm 100% okay with that. If it's not mutual then it's just something positive I experience until it passes or I meet someone else, liking 1 person does not prevent me from also liking another person and moving on. I dunno.. maybe I'm a bit weird.
@Najie_TooSweet My big issue is about honesty and betrayal. If someone can be honest with me then I'm VERY forgiving and accepting of pretty much everything else.
And that i respect most people ask things and when they told the truth either can't handle it or dwell on it all the time... and in a way that make a person regret even being honest with them
Like... normal sex partners I don't care at all... but threesome, foursome , no I wouldn't even bother to date
not a turn off but I would get worried
There's no reason for that unless you're a pussy. It's merely a single woman you've found so far, not your wife.
You're not supposed to care whether she's a slut or not.
The women only care about stds. Typical new age sluts lmao
would immediately stop talking to the girl lol