Do you like it rough? ... or not so much (adult)?

[laurieluvsit]

Here's an internet article from "Men's Health"...

"If you're into rough sex, you're definitely not alone.

When I surveyed more than 4,000 Americans about their sexual fantasies for my book Tell Me What You Want, rough sex turned out to be one of the two most common things people had fantasized about. Most people—regardless of gender and sexual orientation—appear to have been turned on by the idea at some point.

The widespread appeal of rough sex can also be seen in people’s porn viewing habits. For example, when you look at the most-viewed genres on Pornhub, “rough sex” and “hardcore” pretty consistently appear in the top third of categories year in and year out. Interestingly, women are even more likely to view this kind of porn than are men."

I like it because it gives me the best clit and/or G-Spot orgasms.

Do you like it a little rough too? ... or not so much?

[Jamie1865]

I hit the 'A' for rough sex, because I do really enjoy it, but sometimes it can be gentle and intimate - it's not like I'm an dedicated skull fucker!
There are times when I've been at work and the sexting has kicked off and I've had to put a stack of books on my cock to stop it busting through the zip, and I'd have given Usain Bolt a run for his money getting home - shedding clothes like superman and dived in the door to a laughing lingerie clad girlfriend, and within the space of a gnats chuffer, I'm banging away like a woodpecker on a tight deadline, and slamming it in. Hair is being pulled, nails are going through my shirt/back/skin and she's squirting like a busted fire hydrant and I'm turning my nutsack inside out, pumping paste the other way.
Two days later, she's still walking like she's lost her horse and I'm picking bra hooks out of my teeth and finding hair from her head in the strap for my watch, and wondering if I've snapped my banjo.
Then a couple of days later we might just have a reverse cowgirl sesh on the bed with maybe me slipping a finger up her arse. As risque as that. Depends on the mood, but both are just as much fun. The latter is easier on the wallet for damaged furniture etc.

[Makeushiver]

I like it when there is so much sexual tension that it never makes it to the bedroom -button popping, teeth tearing panties bent over the closest thing that doesn't actually cause pain, hood of the car e. g. and clothing is destroyed to the point that it's like 2 animals w/ fierce need to rut. . Then I like it long, slow, drawn out when it's not really over until her legs are trembling too much to walk for awhile

[laurieluvsit]

I know, I need the next day off to recover... lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Sometimes rough, sometimes more slow and sensual, or start off slow and sensual then finish with rough or vice versa... Depends on the moment and how worked up you both get...

[laurieluvsit]

Yes! ... same :)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Great minds 🙂🙂

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Thanks 🙂🙂🤗🤗

[DizzyDesii]

No. I only get rough if im riding and wanna choke him a bit

[laurieluvsit]

Well, that covers it then... lol

[Nawawee]

Just don't choke him out

[purplepoppy]

Personally I don't like the term rough sex because it implies the addition of violence. However I do enjoy a good hard pounding by a dominant man.

[Nerdvana]

lol. hahahahhahaha. Women. hahahahaha

[purplepoppy]

One day when you grow up you might get one.

[Nerdvana]

:) Have a good night.

[EriFrancis1994]

A mix of rough and more gentle sex. There should be an ebb and flow

[ZackBan]

It is fascinating how the vast majority of people prefer rough sex.
Even those who don't sometimes are either truamatized or too shy to go there but would probably enjoy it if done right.
It's safe to say humans naturally need sex to be rough. And yet so very few get to have that experience. I don't know what it is that somehow makes it no ok to be rough in bed right away. Sure some agree to be from day one but others spend time having vanilla sex while they both wish it was more rough.

[Elliegirl]

I typically prefer gentle, but rough can be fun sometimes. It depends on what kind of mood I’m in.

[jsincal]

My answer can be summed up by a quote from a brilliant scholar, Christopher Brian Bridges,

"Whips and chains, handcuffs
Smack a little booty up with my belt
Scream "help!" Play my game!
Dracula, man, I'll get my fangs
Horseback and I'll get my reins
School teacher, let me get my brains."

"What's your fantasy"

[jsincal]

Ludacris (rapper) = Christopher Brian Bridges 😎

[Jjpayne]

I'm not sure yet... I'd need some more experience first. ☺

[MrTuxedo]

I like both. I like it rough, but I also like it soft and passionate. It all depends on the situation, our mood and place.

[msss98]

Love it but it has its place depending on the mood

[likelyOK]

I don't like rough sex but I don't like porn either maybe there is a correlation. Scientifically speaking

[Jaximus-Lion]

E. Yes, I like it rough but my partner doesn't :(
BUT!!! We are doing a training for it and we have come a long way, we have more toys, we found few other things we can bring in the bedroom. It's better but it happens maybe once a month or every 6 weeks.
Where do you stand? Just curious if you have any tips.

[laurieluvsit]

For me, rough is...

1) A playful spanking, sometimes while handcuffed

2) A really hard pounding during both vaginal & anal sex

3) Him holding my head down hard until it can go no further during deep throat oral sometimes while handcuffed

[Jaximus-Lion]

1. That have we tried and it's fine, she is liking it more and more. 2. No problems there, but none of us is into anal. 3. That is not gonna happen , her reflexes are not that well but we replaced it with other things. We have some bed strap BDSM kit and vibrator sleeve (her hands get tired quick). We switch role a lot , but for the last few times am getting dominated and ruined instead because she can't last long and we keep playing while she is in control. Thanks

[Kaneki05]

I mean rough is the whole point? by the way i don't like rough porn videos because seening a guy go rough on a girl don't turn me on. It's harder to ignore the guy in rougher videos i think.

[Finchie40]

I like playful rough to the point she is sticking her nails in my back , but not full blown out rough to where your left with welts and bruises , that shit is a little psychotic I think , never understand how someone could get turned on with being brutalized but playful
Rough sex I like , just enough to let her know I am in charge , I also like reverse as well letting her take charge from time to time

[NarutoUzumaki007]

It depends on how long I have been in a relationship with her. I wouldn't do rough right from the very beginning. It would be vanilla for the first few dates. Maybe I will go rough in between those dates to spice things up and show her I have that side as well. Although I always ask the person before trying rough. I ask them whether they are into it.

When we have been in the relationship for months and we have gone vanilla and rough occasionally , it gets pretty boring so I would like to try BDSM as well. Not too hardcore though , no gagging or electrocuting and shit like that. Just normal decent bdsm with eye covers and minimal restraining. A little bit of spanking as well

[smart_sexy_redhead]

I love being tied up and taken adavantage of

[Purplemonkey24]

Rough and gentle lol. Like pin me down and drive me up the wall. Grab me hard but change speeds

[Debbie29]

Being tued up and taken advantage of is the best for me

[laurieluvsit]

YES! ... I like you already! :)

[humanearth]

I'm D and E

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Depends on what sorta mood I'm in. Sometimes rough, sometimes more gentle, sometimes kinky, sometimes tying up/ tied up. Spice of life right...

[TCredo]

I went with G - with A being closest but rough sex is not required for me to have best orgasms - even recently had an amazing one while keeping it more slow and rhythmic. But I definitely like it rough as in primal like doggy that makes the bed shake (or desk if doing it standing) and requires me to hold her hips so she doesn't fly too far forward... or pile driving missionary that tests the bed frame etc... getting mad wild like that is just so so so good... :)

[elizamichale1]

Yup i love it rough but i like it to start slow and gentle but eventually get rough