Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, do you prefer a dominant or submissive woman in bed?
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+1 y
Most men say that submissive women just lay there and they find it boring BUT I've also heard men say that they are turned off by sexually aggressive women.
+1 y
Im a bit surprised because now- it seems like the roles have been shifted. Is it safe to say men collectively prefer dominant sexually aggressive women? I understand you guys said both but if you had to pick one answer, which would it be?
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What Guys Said
(60)I don't like bossy women in general. I don't mind if she's feisty, though.
I like sub but sometimes prefer dom who initiates action and enjoys sex in way she likes.
I like variety but not dominant enough to wanna butt rape me
100% submissive.
A little bit of both. I want you to get what’s yours as well as listen if I feel like taking control. Being dominant isn’t a trait of mine
I like either
I only like submissive women both in and out of the bedroom. Dominant women are a huge turn off.
Why?
Because im dominant and im not trying to butt heads and fight every other minute. Im strong, i like to grab a girl and pin her down and rip her clothes off and have MY way with her. Thats sex to me. Im not going to get hard some girl 'trying' to do something like that to me. It seems silly and weird and morally wrong.
I prefer an active woman whichever role she plays.
I'd love to be dominated at least once. Not sure I'd know how to submit though
Submissive with occasional switch.