I’m one of the few that body count bothers lol. So i would just prefer not to know how many a person has been with. Once i know, i just don’t even want to be there anymore lol. If its more than a handful, i’ll be disgusted. I can’t help it. I dont worry about the former competition and what they could do for the person.
But i look more deeply into it like, okay did they have a relationship with each person? Do they love themselves? Are they “easy”? Was everyone gapped pretty far apart? Just a bunch of questions honestly. So when it comes to sexual stuff, I rather be a “don’t ask, don’t tell kinda gal.”
As long as you are not keeping anything major from me like having a disease or having kids running around out there, just dont tell me. If he tells me that he’s done anal, i won't even be able to bring myself to suck his dick. Lmao.
I for sure didn’t want to know about how many people the guy I’m currently into has been with. But shit i was snooping a while back and intentionally crossed something that was said, so now i know. Maybe i should become the “don’t go looking for trouble and you won’t find it” type of gal. But shit I’m just relieved that he hasn't been with more than a handful 💪😂💪 So woohoo!! 🤣
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22 53In real life no. On gag very often.
Yea we’re all pretty open here
If someone asks I'll tell
I see
Tell , what's your body count?
@Swordnen two ✌🏻
I have had 4 or 5 if I count myself.
Count yourself how?
does my dominant hand count?
Im so confused lmao
@dizzydesii I get myself off. get it?
I thought so but didn't want to assume wrong lmao
okay- you are good.
If asked. That's all.
I understand
Tell , what's your body count?
@Swordnen do not spam my post or i will block you
If I am aaked I tell but I've kind of lost track. Somewhere around 25 but I really don't know
Lmao
I prefer not to know personally.
those people are the past they should stay there where they belong.
I hear ya
Mhmm.
I don’t ask and I don’t tell.
Lol i dont ask but i have no problem telling
Are we talking about bodies or partners? I'll never tell you how many or where they are buried.
Lmao i can easily tell how many bodies. As for partners, shit i run out of fingers 🤣
Only if asked!
Yepp
I don't see how that's anybody's business but my own. 🤨
I just feel like if you're giving yourself to someone then its okay for them to ask
If it's that important to them, then I guess I'd tell them, but I really don't care to know, so I'd probably never ask them that.
Only if asked, but since it's basically zero there isn't much to tell.
I feel like men with high body counts are the reason it's hard to find a woman my age without kids, and I really hate those kinds of guys for that reason.
Is there any place left where people don't have casual sex?
Hopefully. Cause I've never been into casual anything
I honestly don't care how many people had hook up the same way I won't tell others about my hook ups
So if they asked would you refuse to tell
Yes, I don't see how that is important in finding a relationship.
Because maybe they wanna know if you just throw yourself at anyone or if sex is special to you
If they really want to have a serious relationship and they truly care for this I guess I just tell them but of course I also expect to hear what they have back. I don't do one way and that it
No its totally expected to tell in return
yeah for me body count is gonna play a role in if I'll even date them.
@t-8900 i agree
There has always been a double standard in those, if guys have high numbers they are " the man" but if a girl has high numbers she might be called a hoe.. I really don't agree with that!! And because we tend to judge people, guys might exaggerate because if they say a low number then he's thought to have not as much experience... he might lie to the fellas with a high number just to seem cool, but tell his lady a lower number soo she doesn't feel insecure.. soo, It really doesn't matter for me cuz my numbers a little up there, soo she wouldn't believe me anyways...🤣🤣😅😅
Yea they’d both be a hoe in my book. Hoes dont discriminate by gender lmao
Thats why I like Desi when it comes to this issue. I dont want a girl with a high body count and i myself do not by choice. However I met even virgin girls who want to wait till marriage but want guys with high body counts... its interesting tbh. I dont think I could bring myself to do that to impress a girl. I can't jump in bed with someone I dont love.
@t-8900 ya i dont understand the girls wanting “experienced guys. Some of them dont even know what theyre doing lmao. They probably have a high body count because they couldnt get it right the first few times 😂
@dizzydesii the fun is learn what MY girl likes. Not what some other dude's future wife or single baby mama wants. I don't know sleeping around always bothered me. Of course there were urges, I'm a guy and i'm human. But just doing it for the fun or w/e. I tried that, reluctantly... and I should have listened to my instincts before I went there because I already knew in my heart it was wrong. Then the act happens and now not only did I know it was wrong, I just confirmed it and now I'm stained.
Well, unfortunately not everyone was brought up with the same... morals if u will... as a teenage boy/ guy most guys I know, just wanted to get some... and different if possible.. lol.. you really don't know and appreciate love and wut exactly ur heart wants till ur a bit older..
Snore…. Such a boring overdone subject.
So you didn't have to come answer but glad you felt the need to
I never ask & for the most part don't tell either.
Lmao why you say for the most part 🤣
If a guy pushes for an answer I will tell. Then again I have nothing to hide.
I tell if I'm asked. And I usually don't ask others.
Sidenote. How far back did you go when snooping? 😂🤣
🤣😂😂 i saw it sometime in October, i just never said anything. We answered one of the same posts so i technically wasn't snooping but I was like shit lol
Damn, I can't remember the post. 🤣
If I'm asked I tell.
Thats good
Only if asked. Actually just had that conversation the other day.
Its 74
I believe in full transparency. Just lay it all out there right at the beginning. No games.
If we both like what we see, fine. If we don't, fine. No worries.