Because I don't want to have my first with a girl that might leave me because something silly
TigertyXper 4
+1 y
Haven't lost it yet would love get it over with
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ZanyInternetName
+1 y
Just visit a nearby Catholic church then.
deadish_elfXper 3
+1 y
I do every day I was 13 and I just feel like it was the wrong girl I wish I would have waited.
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Invalid_answerXper 2
+1 y
Yes.. I was 17 extremely drunk and she took advantage/raped me
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Anonymous
+1 y
No. I lost it to someone very important to me, my current significant other. He even made my first time really special.
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Anonymous
+1 y
No I don’t. I’m have my denial and saying yes I do but
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Anonymous
+1 y
I regret losing it to my hand I should’ve waited
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Anonymous
+1 y
I wish I’d been more patient and been with someone I was at least attracted to, but I don’t regret it, really. That’s too strong a word.
0100
Fathippy
+1 y
No way
Opinion Owner
+1 y
? huh?
littlem946
+1 y
Did you feel pressured at the time you lost it? Were you reluctant at the time or were you excited and ready to go for it?
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Opinion Owner
+1 y
My crush rejected me and I was tired of feeling like the last virgin and horny and sad. So I just hooked up with this guy from school who hit on me that I didn’t even find cute.
Opinion Owner
+1 y
I didn’t regret, but it wasn’t good at all and I wish I’d been a bit more patient.
littlem946
+1 y
Gotcha thanks for sharing!
Anonymous
+1 y
Nope. That pussy tasted good
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Anonymous
+1 y
I lost it at 13 to a 16 year old I kinda miss her so no
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Anonymous
+1 y
My first time I was actually raped so yeah I 100% regret it.
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Higgins02
+1 y
That's awful. My thoughts are with you. Hope you are alright x
Opinion Owner
+1 y
I’m alright now. Still weird to think about though. Wish I would’ve done something about it and reported him.
Higgins02
+1 y
Why did you not report him? Pigs like him need more than imprisonment to punish them. It's disgusting how some guys have that stuff run through their heads
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Opinion Owner
+1 y
I didn’t know his name, where he lived, or any features of his.
Higgins02
+1 y
Oh irght... Well they could have worked it of DNA, CCTV of who was in the local area etc. But any how I'm glad your okay. Would you like to private chat?
Anonymous
+1 y
I regret not losing it!
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allyt90
+1 y
How much did your first time hurt
ZanyInternetName
+1 y
@allyt90 you do grant understand, opinion owners is still a virgin.
Anonymous
+1 y
Not at all... Was a great experience, I think it was just the right moment for me, I did it with a guy that I knew he loved me a lot and he still dose cuz we are together till today and we will marry prety soon :)
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allyt90
+1 y
How much did your first time hurt in terms of pain on a scale of 1-10? Did you bleed?
Opinion Owner
+1 y
@allyt90 I haven't bleeded at all... It hurted like a 9 for 3 seconds then faded to a 3... then just disappeared completely and started to feel really good... Luckily enough my guy was extremely careful and always asked me if it feels alright or If it hurt, he left me on top so I could find the angle that worked for me and to control the speed... The next 2 or 3 times I still felt Avery subtile pain in the beginning... But nothing extreme
allyt90
+1 y
So you’re saying it’s just the initial few seconds that hurt then I’ll be okay? I heard it’s better to lie down so he can do the work. I’m so nervous I almost feel sick thinking about the pain
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Opinion Owner
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@allyt90 don't be... Is not such a big dial, it's diferent for everyone, you might not even fell any pain... Just be sure you have some lube will make it more easily... And I don't know we started with me laying down but we changed after a bit and it was much better with me on top... Never underestimate how uncomfortable a wrong angle can be... It can make the difference between a nice experience and a bad one
GracefulCharm
+1 y
@allyt90 It doesn't have to hurt, just take things slow. Enjoy the moment, I hope your guy understands this too. It's just a myth that it is suppose to hurt or bleed the first time. It actually doesn't have to be like this if you are with a good guy.
allyt90
+1 y
@GracefulCharm so just tell him to be slow at first? I’m scared I’ll disappoint him he’s so experienced
GracefulCharm
+1 y
@allyt90 Yes it's your body, if you wanna go slow, tell him to go slow. If he doesn't listen to you. Then he's not a good guy...
allyt90
+1 y
@GracefulCharm he doesn’t know I’m a virgin
GracefulCharm
+1 y
@allyt90 That shouldn't matter, if he loves you. He would want it to be enjoyable for you too. I remeber my first time, I actually wanted to go slower than her. But she didn't want to lol. She was trying to make me pop before she got off. I didn't let that happen tho lol. I made sure she got off first. She tried to get me to rob her boyfriend after it tho... that's enough information. I was kinda living la vida loco before. LOL
Anonymous
+1 y
Not at all 😂 best sex in my life was my 1st time
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allyt90
+1 y
Really? How painful is your first time? I’m terrified
Opinion Owner
+1 y
Only around 25% of girls experience pain the first time. The rest don’t. But the reason it seems so common is bc they talk louder than the girls who don’t. I personally didn’t experience anything but pleasure. I didn’t bleed or anything :)
allyt90
+1 y
I’m so scared. Do you have any tips for me? What if it’s so painful I can’t go through with it? Do you think that would happen
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Opinion Owner
+1 y
Lube is your friend ;)
allyt90
+1 y
Will it hurt with lube?
Anonymous
+1 y
yes.
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allyt90
+1 y
How much does your first time hurt
gib1233
+1 y
Why?
allyt90
+1 y
Cause I’m about to lose t virginity so I want to know
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340sunny
+1 y
@allyt90 it's a bit uncomfortable at first and hurts a bit but that subsides
allyt90
+1 y
@340sunny so how long does it hurt for like just a minute or two then the body adjusts? Any tipis I’m so nervous. Did you bleed and if so how much
340sunny
+1 y
@allyt90 It hurt for about a minute yeah, and he took it slow. Tell your partner when it's uncomfortable and have them stop while you get used to it and then keep going slowly. I didn't bleed but I know some girls do
allyt90
+1 y
@340sunny so I shouldn’t tell him it hurts the second it goes in cause it’s normal?
340sunny
+1 y
@allyt90 wait no. Let him know it hurts. It's normal so don't freak out, but definitely let him know so you can get used to it
allyt90
+1 y
@340sunny do you think I’m making it out to be more painful in my head then it actually is? I’m so stressed about this
340sunny
+1 y
@allyt90 it's probably nerves. Ik it's hard but relaxing will make you feel better
allyt90
+1 y
@340sunny thanks. Should I play with a dildo in order to prepare or will it not really help prepare me?
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How painful was your first time?
Goodness, your a child
Im old enough
No you are not
I haven't 😭
No I enjoyed it
No not at all just who it was with
Still a virgin advice not to lose it
Why?
Because I don't want to have my first with a girl that might leave me because something silly
Haven't lost it yet would love get it over with
Just visit a nearby Catholic church then.
I do every day I was 13 and I just feel like it was the wrong girl I wish I would have waited.
Yes.. I was 17 extremely drunk and she took advantage/raped me
No. I lost it to someone very important to me, my current significant other. He even made my first time really special.
No I don’t. I’m have my denial and saying yes I do but
I regret losing it to my hand I should’ve waited
I wish I’d been more patient and been with someone I was at least attracted to, but I don’t regret it, really. That’s too strong a word.
No way
? huh?
Did you feel pressured at the time you lost it? Were you reluctant at the time or were you excited and ready to go for it?
My crush rejected me and I was tired of feeling like the last virgin and horny and sad. So I just hooked up with this guy from school who hit on me that I didn’t even find cute.
I didn’t regret, but it wasn’t good at all and I wish I’d been a bit more patient.
Gotcha thanks for sharing!
Nope. That pussy tasted good
I lost it at 13 to a 16 year old I kinda miss her so no
My first time I was actually raped so yeah I 100% regret it.
That's awful. My thoughts are with you. Hope you are alright x
I’m alright now. Still weird to think about though. Wish I would’ve done something about it and reported him.
Why did you not report him? Pigs like him need more than imprisonment to punish them. It's disgusting how some guys have that stuff run through their heads
I didn’t know his name, where he lived, or any features of his.
Oh irght... Well they could have worked it of DNA, CCTV of who was in the local area etc. But any how I'm glad your okay. Would you like to private chat?
I regret not losing it!
How much did your first time hurt
@allyt90 you do grant understand, opinion owners is still a virgin.
Not at all... Was a great experience, I think it was just the right moment for me, I did it with a guy that I knew he loved me a lot and he still dose cuz we are together till today and we will marry prety soon :)
How much did your first time hurt in terms of pain on a scale of 1-10? Did you bleed?
@allyt90 I haven't bleeded at all... It hurted like a 9 for 3 seconds then faded to a 3... then just disappeared completely and started to feel really good... Luckily enough my guy was extremely careful and always asked me if it feels alright or If it hurt, he left me on top so I could find the angle that worked for me and to control the speed... The next 2 or 3 times I still felt Avery subtile pain in the beginning... But nothing extreme
So you’re saying it’s just the initial few seconds that hurt then I’ll be okay? I heard it’s better to lie down so he can do the work. I’m so nervous I almost feel sick thinking about the pain
@allyt90 don't be... Is not such a big dial, it's diferent for everyone, you might not even fell any pain... Just be sure you have some lube will make it more easily... And I don't know we started with me laying down but we changed after a bit and it was much better with me on top... Never underestimate how uncomfortable a wrong angle can be... It can make the difference between a nice experience and a bad one
@allyt90 It doesn't have to hurt, just take things slow. Enjoy the moment, I hope your guy understands this too. It's just a myth that it is suppose to hurt or bleed the first time. It actually doesn't have to be like this if you are with a good guy.
@GracefulCharm so just tell him to be slow at first? I’m scared I’ll disappoint him he’s so experienced
@allyt90 Yes it's your body, if you wanna go slow, tell him to go slow. If he doesn't listen to you. Then he's not a good guy...
@GracefulCharm he doesn’t know I’m a virgin
@allyt90 That shouldn't matter, if he loves you. He would want it to be enjoyable for you too. I remeber my first time, I actually wanted to go slower than her. But she didn't want to lol. She was trying to make me pop before she got off. I didn't let that happen tho lol. I made sure she got off first. She tried to get me to rob her boyfriend after it tho... that's enough information. I was kinda living la vida loco before. LOL
Not at all 😂 best sex in my life was my 1st time
Really? How painful is your first time? I’m terrified
Only around 25% of girls experience pain the first time. The rest don’t. But the reason it seems so common is bc they talk louder than the girls who don’t. I personally didn’t experience anything but pleasure. I didn’t bleed or anything :)
I’m so scared. Do you have any tips for me? What if it’s so painful I can’t go through with it? Do you think that would happen
Lube is your friend ;)
Will it hurt with lube?
yes.
How much does your first time hurt
Why?
Cause I’m about to lose t virginity so I want to know
@allyt90 it's a bit uncomfortable at first and hurts a bit but that subsides
@340sunny so how long does it hurt for like just a minute or two then the body adjusts? Any tipis I’m so nervous. Did you bleed and if so how much
@allyt90 It hurt for about a minute yeah, and he took it slow. Tell your partner when it's uncomfortable and have them stop while you get used to it and then keep going slowly. I didn't bleed but I know some girls do
@340sunny so I shouldn’t tell him it hurts the second it goes in cause it’s normal?
@allyt90 wait no. Let him know it hurts. It's normal so don't freak out, but definitely let him know so you can get used to it
@340sunny do you think I’m making it out to be more painful in my head then it actually is? I’m so stressed about this
@allyt90 it's probably nerves. Ik it's hard but relaxing will make you feel better
@340sunny thanks. Should I play with a dildo in order to prepare or will it not really help prepare me?