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Do you require some sort of connection before you find a person sexually attractive?
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47 113i don't usually rise (apologi) to word stimulation but your handle is driving me nuts and the graphic is, well, it is
I can find a person sexually attracted by just looking at them for half a second.
I don't need the connection to find someone sexually attractive, no. But I do need the connection if I'm gonna act on that attraction.
No, I don't need an emotional connection to feel physically attracted to someone, but I do need one in order to act on those feelings.
Yes very much so.
LOl!!! funny asexy
To have sex with a person, yes.
I would never have sex with a person purely because they are hot.
Question - Do you require some sort of connection before you find a person sexually attractive? Your ans - Yes very much so. It mean before some sort of connection you can't acknowledge that whether the person is sexually attractive or not. So, according to logic you don't experience any attraction physically or sexually when you see guys or girls.
Well I've only ever had sex with one person in my life. But I've found many people hot. I see a difference between hot and attractive. I can be attracted to people who you may not consider hot once I've connected with them. But there's also people I connect strongly with who I am not sexually attracted to... so whys that?
You you said you don't experience any attraction sexually or physically when you see guys and girls. You need some sort of connection to feel it.
Well that's not entirely true, I can tell the difference between someone who is considered hot and someone who isn't. Doesn't mean I want to have sex with them however?
You can tell the difference between someone who is considered hot and someone who isn't but doesn't mean you want to have sex with them however. So, it's just a neutral acknowledgement? You don't feel anything when you see hot guys or hot girls? You can just recognize them whether they are hot or not?
I don't want to have sex with people because of how they look, that's male behaviour.
it's your fathers behavior, not men behavior.
I'd find them sexually attractive without connection, but I'd never do stuff without a strong connection, no matter how attractive they are.
No, I feel there is no connection required to find someone sexually attractive, sexual attraction based on looks is simply attraction and its totally okay, life is too short to think you need a connection everytime you feel attracted to someone based on looks.
Anyone can find anyone sexy and attractive before having any connection. But for me having the connection right away with the attraction would make it a hell of a lot sweeter.
No, I can be sexually attracted to a guy without having some sort of connection with him. BUT connection is required in order for me to act on the attraction and (possibly) determines how far we will go (in terms of relationship and whatnot).
In some ways, yes. In some ways, no.
I absolutely find some things about people sexually attractive - and will therefore (hopefully) always be attracted to that - but at the same time, there's just something about knowing someone - and being known by someone - that makes the sexual attraction that much greater. That much sweeter. So I guess... still, the answer is no.
Na, they just have to be fit.
A pulse and heartbeat are generally good, lol.😂 I'm obviously joking, but seriously an educated woman I find very attractive and can turn a plain Jane into a sexy creature. I've said this before, nothing worse then eatin' breakfast, Sunday paper in hand and I say "you see what Trump did?" I look up, right at her, and she's got a blank look! Who's Trump? Having food with a "BAG of BRICKS!" Nope!😂😂
but poor old jane again how insensitive of you being a well educated guy and-have to post got a giggle coming on, t'
Looks like you, commenting on another guys reply? AGAIN! Such a sad existence! Good luck in that thing you call a life. OUT-
didn't you already ask this question a while back? or was it someone else. hmmm. anyways. yep I need a certain connection with someone to find someone sexually attractive.
Was someone else :-)
ah ok ;p. how about ur self miss. crumble? you need that connection ;)?
Yes I do :-)
More like the other way around... a romantic connection is desired because you initially found the personal sexually attractive...
Ugly people can have a clean cut image on the outside
No, I can find a woman sexually attractive based on looks before even taking to her. I think people misunderstand the "emotional connection in order to have sex" phrase. Anyone can find a random person of which ever sex they are attracted to "sexually attractive" based on looks. What they mean is that they need a emotional connection to choose to have sex with them.
Nope. There is objectively sexually attractive but to actually have sex with her, there must be a connection. I call it being "in like".
43% of guys said yes?43%
Not of mother fuckin liars in here. As of this time 36 liars lol
Yes, I do. I NEED that connection. It just bonds you two together. It doesn't matter how attractive you are, if I don't feel that connection, sorry buddy.
I feel the same way
you don't experience sexual attraction instinctively when you see attractive person? before some sort of connection you are asexual?
@QuerulousXytenar demisexuals are considered 1/2 asexual
@QuerulousXytenar It depends honestly.
It depends honestly. :O you said you don't experience any attraction physically and sexually when you see hot guys.
@QuerulousXytenar For the most part I do not. Every now and then I might but for the most part, no.
Yes, i want some type of connection before i engage in any sex with a girl and for most i believe in waiting for marriage before having sex.