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Do you require some sort of connection before you find a person sexually attractive?
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47 113my dick say's no.
No I don't need to
do you experience any attraction sexually or physically when you see hot/sexy guys? (without knowing them, without talking them)
Yeah but I'm attracted to girls
Yes, Marriage
you don't experience sexual attraction instinctively when you see attractive person? before some sort of connection you are asexual?
Yuuuup
before some sort of connection you don't feel any attraction physically or sexually towards your opposite sex? before some sort of connection you did you know that what is your sexual orientation?
@QuerulousXytenar What?
you said, you require some sort of connection before you find a person sexually attractive. I asked... before some sort of connection you don't feel any attraction physically or sexually towards your opposite sex? when do you see guys and girls do you feel same?
@QuerulousXytenar mainly yea I d say they are attractive But unless I am already horny to the point where I d just fuck myself if not, I need connection before getting excited. An attractive person can make out with me and rub my clot and I won t feel shit
so, when do you see attractive guys and girls you feel same? Just a neutral appreciation. Your eyes can just acknowledge them but feel nothing? If it's the case then how do you know that you are straight or gay?
@QuerulousXytenar I am bi curious
Aren't you are demisexual? because you don't experience any attraction physically or sexually when do you see attractive person. Also you can't recognize whether a person is sexually attractive or not before some sort of emotional connection?
@QuerulousXytenar I do think I am demi sexual Already thought about it Ehybare you so interested about my state? 😂
Yes. because I am interested to abnormal things.
@QuerulousXytenar how rude
Who?
@QuerulousXytenar you
No, I am not.
@QuerulousXytenar whatever
No because for Men, we need sex and the moment we see a hot sexy woman (or if women that is average looking and tells she wants to have sex) automatically we are sexually attractive to her and when talking if there is a connect its more excitement for us.
There is always that connection there if sparks are going to fly. Without it, it never works properly. The look that sends the shivers of knowing is not there.
I mean a normal attraction generally mean you are sexually attracted to them because you think the look good it's like love at first site really but I don't have sex until a:I talk to then and connect with them before hand or b:the drinks kick in
No. I am not demisexual.
Nope. If I see a really hot girl, an instant instinctual urge to fuck her arises. Most males feel this way, I assure you. An emotional connection and overall compatibility are, however, what complete romantic relationships.
Sexual attraction is visual, so all that I require is to like what I see.
Acting on that attraction to progress things to a sexual act requires a connection, for me.
I cannot have anonymous sex with strangers.
No but I'd need a connection to want to date that person
Yes, i need to be in love with her before i could see her as a person wh is sexual attractive, i can see her as attractive without being in love but not as attractive like "god, she is sexy/hot or whatever"
This is where guys are different than girls. Guys size girls up in an instant - as soon as they lay eyes on them, are they do-able? HELL YES or HELL NO. Regardless if they really would do them or not. It's just what they do.
I have no research to back me up, but based on personal anecdotes, I think this is more true for younger people (especially men) rather than older people. As you get older, it seems that sex becomes much less exciting or important and other aspects of people are required before you find them attractive.
Broadband connection.
Lol :-p
Yeah but I try to fight that shit. My dick has steered me wrong too many times.
No. Physical appearance at first sight matters the most. Agree with or not, but subconsciously people do analyse others on the basis of looks first. Sexual attraction comes from the same.
no but i do need that before wanting sex with them xD
Hmm to a degree yes.
I feel sexual attraction like a girl. I need an emotional connection of some sort to feel attraction.