Do you think bdsm is normal or weird?

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chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

i tried it a few times then i got hit in the head with a belt bucklet knocked out and woke up in an empty hotel room,,, that was the end of my bdsm days... at best it gives you an adrenlaine rush... at worst you can get a skull fracture like i got back of the head not my face... i'd like to think it was an accident... i do remember getting whipped pretty badly by this guy in a hotel room with a pants belt then he turned the buckle on me started whipping me with that then the buckle hit me and i saw white and passed out unconscious... i took a bad beating as i woke up with gashes and red marks light blood so it can be dangerous and can get out of hand

Varanus · Accepted Answer

It is both normal and weird. Totally cool for anyone to be into it as long as they're being safe, but bdsm is chock full of weird shit, lol

It's mostly not my thing, but some light bdsm is cool once in a while. I have some friends that are REALLY into it, so whatever makes you happy.

Reaperbot666 · Accepted Answer

everyone has their own fetish or kink they like during sex. some are just a bit more outside the box then others. but so long as no unwanted harm is done, everyone consents to what happened and they all enjoy themselves. there is not much of an issue with how they go about there own private time. say unwanted harm because some people are into some very kinky stuff.

Curmudgeon · Accepted Answer

In the statistical sense of the word, it's "weird" meaning that most people are not practicing it. This also goes for homosexual behavior. That is, it is an outlier on the frequency distribution plot of life. (Not making a value judgement here, just explaining that they are not that common).

laurieluvsit · Answer

VOTE C : It's not normal because most people aren't into it and it's only weird to those same people, not to those that do it.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I'm not into BDSM and can't understand why being tied up, spanked, and having clamps on your nipples would be sexually arousing.

ohshee · Answer

It is what it is , it's just another level of kink and what we like or don't I don't care what it is if it's done right it's hot lol

nerdybutlazy · Answer

If you asked this in 2012 everyone would say weird but we are moving forward in being more sexually open which is great for society. Nowadays, its weird if you aren't kinky to most people