Do you think girls are affected worse by underage sex than boys?

People say studies show girls get more affected by underage sex, but I think it's bullshit because in my experience girls don't get affected nearly as bad by having sex with older men.
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  • From what I've seen and heard Young women love having sex with older men

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  • Under age girls like everything with older men?

    • What do you mean

    • Do the date older men and have sex with them

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  • SO MUCH depends upon the 'context' and circumstances as to HOW the minor's perception was respected. The event, good or bad, will be remembered for a lifetime.

    "First cut is the deepest" goes the lyric. And, "no second chance to make a FIRST impression" IN MY OPINION, if the minor is merely 'used' as an animate object means-to-an-end it will PROFOUNDLY affect their core self-image. However... if instead (as in many Polynesian island cultures) juvenile tactile experience and response is FOREMOST and the Minor's ability to DECLINE proceeding further is RESPECTED; that TOO will become a lifetime's 'lesson'.

    IT SHOULD BE 'EXCITING' but NOT 'traumatic'. The Senior's role is foremost 'educator' NOT 'predatory assailant'!

    Do you think girls are affected worse by underage sex than boys?
    • Results are disastrous when you awaken sexuality in anyone before they're ready. I've read the writings of a woman who escaped from a Belgian brothel. She was lucky. That brothel beheads girls when they turn 17. Papua New Guinea is sick. The kids don't want sex for normal reasons. They learn that their only value is sexual value, and need to seduce to convince themselves they aren't worthless. This is monstrous.

    • Children shouldn't be having sex. Children especially shouldn't be having sex with adults.

  • No. I think it affects both to the same level in different ways.
    And individuals have their level of affect as well: Maybe some underage girls legitimately are just wilder and want something with an older man and just want to jump into the pond in terms of things and others don't realize that they made a mistake til years down the road and still some don't really understand what's going on at the time.
    Boys can be the same.
    I'm almost 25 and half the time I still have no fucking clue what's going on.

  • I don't think so. I think both are equally affected in their own way.

  • I think trauma can be serious regardless of gender so I think both underage girls and guys can experience large scale negative affects from trauma.

  • I think its easier to abuse any underage. They're very vulnerable and easy to exploit.

  • You don't know many girls who have been with older men when they were underage then.

  • If it's not incest or molestation, maybe not. If it is a younger girl and not a virgin, maybe not at all.

  • If I had to guess I'd say girls are more affected because girls are always taught to take sex more seriously than boys are, and in general girls and women do take it a bit more seriously.

    I don't know tho I haven't talked to very many people about that who have experienced it. What I do know is it depends very heavily on whether it was really consensual or not, and when it's kids with authority figures, that's really hard to know for sure until it's far too late.

    Tbh I don't think it really matters who is more affected. Both are affected and I think both should be protected from it. Age of consent is a very good thing even if it is a bit arbitrary around the exact dividing line.

  • I think that there's not a lot of studies involving trauma from underage sex in boys. So any data set that anyone can refer to is probably very skewed.

  • Yes, I do believe that underage girls get more pressure put on them to have sex and the guys can be of any age from age 20-40

  • No idea

  • Still asking about pedophilia, eh? Again, it depends on the age of the child. By that I mean, a 5-year-old, male or female, will be adversely affected more than a 10-year-old, and a 10-year-old will be more adversely than, say, a 15-year-old. This is assuming, of course, that the 15-year-old's, male or female, are consenting to sex. Remember, Jesus' mother was 12 when she gave birth to Jesus, so the story goes. This means, she had to have barely been 12, or more likely, she was 11 when she was impregnated. So this means that, by the laws of THIS country, God was a pedophile. Is it any wonder that pedophiles the world over don't see what they're doing as wrong.

  • Yeah I think so

  • can't say I'm no a girl

  • I think sex is a more important thing for girls than boys, emotionally. I don't think age factors into it.

  • Sexual abuse is damaging and I would agree with those studies.

    • But why?

    • You seem like a hypocrite

    • You seem like a pedo with all these question about adults having sex with kids and trying to justify it

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  • Underage males have it worse
    They're laughed at as rape victims, told they should be grateful they "got some pussy".

    • True

  • Yes. If they were forced into it. Or any of those manipulative methods.

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  • It's easy for both. But girl get the mosta attention

  • Physically, the process is more invasive, and there's a higher risk involved

    • So how are they affected

    • ^ Read the above

    • So what is the impact on the girl? You didn't give an effect of the impact, you just mentioned there is a risk

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