Do you think guys with small penises are more likely to be submissive in bed?

I'm looking for people's judgement and opinions, as many have strange prejudices against guys with smaller ones.
Yes, they are more likely to be submissive
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No, they are not more likely to be submissive
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  • I'd think that depends a lot on where his mind is. If he has seen a lot of porn and/or been naked in locker rooms for example, he might have a bit of a complex. But if he has escaped such experiences, he might be 'normal' and not even think about his size. I must admit though, that I think the second variant is rather rare these days.
    I voted yes because... more likely than what? Can still be more likely than guys with big dicks and not be the majority at all. Also, having a smaller dick means they are more likely to actually get turned on by femdom, specifically regarding the small penis humiliation kink.

  • I've been with a few guys (I'm bi) and the most dominant of them had the smallest penis. Antidotal evidence of course, but maybe since the lack dominance in the size department they made up for it by being dominant in bed?

    • Interesting!

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  • Penis size isn't an act of will or a lack thereof. It's just a thing, like boob size, that's determined by genetics, and I really can't say that the smaller guys I've known were more submissive, as a rule. Sooner the opposite, in fact, and often with the added bonus of actually giving a damn about what I wanted.

    Submissiveness, and/or the opposite, is in the psyche. The size issue is purely physical, so, while they could both be factors in one person's sexual identity, it would be by coincidence more than any reliable rule that the one condition implies the other.

  • I always wondered that too and like if they were the ones that were more likely to be the panty boys? ... lol

    I know it's in there somewhere? ... lol
    I know it's in there somewhere? ... lol

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  • Nope not really a thing outside porn.

    a collard sub can be 6ft and built like an athlete with a large cock.

    it’s surprising those that pitch up at Domme parties.

  • Tell that to Asian guys

    • Why?

  • As a "short round" in good standing, I became expert at fingering and oral sex early on. It wasn't that I couldn't fukk. it was simply that I could more reliably deliver a dish rattling orgasm better with my mouth and hands.

  • I wouldn't know

  • I don't think size has anything to do with it. I'm above average and I am somewhat submissive, enjoy being objectified and masochistic.

  • No one deserves small cock or small tits...

    • To be the one with small dick/tits or to be with someone with small dick/tits?

  • Maybe, but I think it is more about the personality. I think people who lacks confident, who are unsure in theirselfs are more likely to be submissive. I am sure there are men with small penises that are really dominant and maybe there are guys with big ones, that are submissive.
    Speaking on my behalf, my is not that small and its not big, just average, but I am really submissive and I am a panty boy.. :) It's a nice question tho. :)

  • Depends on the guy

  • Probably

    • Why do you think that is?

    • I don't know. Ask them. I don't have that problem

  • Well... You either have the insecure people going on and on about penis sizes and practically trying to tell others what size they should be ok with or you have an unatural submissive who feels he has to offer more than the average guy to compensate.

    I think a natural submissive can come in any size.

  • i dont know that its relative to eachother either way i can be a bit submissive in bed sometimes.

  • I’d say they’re angry, hummer driving, assholes who try to dominate in bed and the relationship.

    • Yeah. And they probably vote Democrat.

    • @Agagagagaga right, liberals love hummers.

  • Most likely

    • What makes you think that?

    • Because guys with small penises tend to think they are inferior, plus they pay more attention to their partner's pleasure.

  • And have big trucks...

  • What would it be with. small boobies

    • I don’t know, I’m asking for prejudices for men with small penises. I’ll make another one for womens breast size, give me a moment

    • Would you have sex with someone with a small dick

  • I would say yes. I became submissive early and have been ever since

    3.5 inches

  • yes. I like to dominate as it's the clichè thing to do. however as a 5'5 length dude would love to be submissive but don't have the guts to ask =)

  • Your dick has nothing to do with the way your mind works. Does the size of your tits shape the way you live your life or think?

    • I don't know, does it?

    • Someone can be strong and have a strong mind, no mater what the size of their tits or dick or ass is.

    • What does dominance in bed have to do with strength, in your opinion?

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  • I know from female in my world that have been with tiny dicked males that often they have some insane delusion that they are god like studs in bed, to the absolute disappointment of these women.

    • Interesting! Why do you think that is?

    • I assume it’s just some Napoleon syndrome crap. Most small dicked guys are meatheads and jocks so they get this egotistical head up their ass a out being macho. So chances are the locker talk and the closet homo-erotic nature of sports make them believe they are over exceeding sexually.

  • Most won't have a choice but to be submissive.

    • Why do you think that’s the case?

    • because the small dick gives him low or no self esteem and near 0 self confidence therefore they become quitters before they even could begin.

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