Do you think it’s weird if a girl loves to give head, but refuses to receive it?

I’ve been talking to this guy and I love giving him blowjobs. After I finish the job he wants to give me head in return, but I always refuse because I’m very insecure about my body and the thought of someone giving me head just makes me uncomfortable. Do you think it’s weird if a girl always gives blowjobs but refuses to receive them? Or am I actually doing him a favor?
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  • It's not weird in my opinion. The issue seems to be a common one with a lot of girls. They don't feel comfortable in their own skin and oftentimes have a negative body image about their vulvas. That is a roadblock to their receiving oral pleasure and a disappointment for their boyfriend the vast majority of which want to give oral to their girlfriend. Both because they know that for many girls that's one of the only ways they can orgasm and also because it's fun and a huge turn on for him to do.

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  • You are doing him and yourself a disservice. If he was not turned on by your body, he would not be there with you. Many guys get great pleasure out of giving a woman oral sex, because for many women, it produces their strongest orgasms and we feel good when we make you cum hard. There is nothing offensive about the taste of a woman and I get a great thrill when she starts cumming and I feel her legs squeezing my head in that involuntary movement that overtakes her. Let him do it once and you will overcome your discomfort.

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  • It's kinda weird in my opinion. I half the time wouldn't want a guy to do it if I pooped prior (aka haven't showered yet) out of fear hed smell my ass. Lol but if I had showered I'd be like TOUGH ME

  • Once you trust someone vulnerability is part of getting to know each other better. Personally I don’t get off well to being licked but many do. You might like it

    • @forevelost you like sucking cock tho?

    • @MarkyMark77 yeah it’s not the worst

    • i'd rather give than receive... often i feel it might be too much for the guy also after they cum they're not as horny so why force it.

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  • Each person has their own quirks, so don't worry. If you don't like to be given head, then that is not your thing.
    Maybe in the future you will feel more comfortable about it, who knows? Don't overthink it. ;)

  • I feel bad for her

  • Yeah, that's weird, and a big turn off. Insecure women are not worth dealing with..

  • It little odd in a sense that you refuse something that you likely can enjoy, but it's not uncommon for girls to be submissive and insecure. Many guys prefer it that way, but maybe he is a kind of that like giving oral and not only getting oral.

  • It’s pretty weird to me. Receiving head is an amazing feeling to me, and I don’t particularly enjoy giving head.

  • We all have our own preferences and desires.
    There is a lot to say about your own mindset.
    Perhaps we should talk about it somewhere else where others can't see

  • Kinda yeah 🤣 usually the problem is reversed, sounds like you've got horrible attempts of guys going down on you

  • It depends on the guy some guys on here really want to give oral but others would be fine with just recieving.

  • Not weird.

  • not that rare really. some girls are insecure about their own body. and others have had a bad experience in the past. which ruined the ordeal for them. because the person had poor skill or no desire to pleasure her in that way. they just wanted to get to the next stage of the encounter. had a partner in the past who had this happen to her. took her time to open up about it and let me prove to her. she can enjoy it if the person doing it. wishes to pleasure her in that manner.

  • I've experienced this with an ex. It's irritating when you want to do it back in return but it's not a bad deal overall

  • it can go both ways depending on how you think about it. But i dont think you are doing him any favors. I think you are taking away that act of him to pleasure you back. Some guys really enjoy satisfying a womans sexual needs. But i guess at the end it is your choice.

  • It is weird for sure. if your s. o gave you head what would change? Would they for some reason decide they don't like you?

    I don't think you have anything to worry about here.

  • Not weird at all. If you like giving him head and not getting eaten out there's nothing wrong with your choice.

  • Loser.

  • I don't think that's weird. I can be like that sometimes

  • No not at all , no longer sexually active , was happy to give , but never liked BJ's

  • She is a giver

  • sounds like a question I would have asked. I hate it when guys go down on me. When it's a girl, it's great, but guys, ick.

  • I have heard of this happening before, Its not weird just unusual.

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