I had fantasies about my teacher when I was in high school. I only found him attractive and I discovered he finds me attractive too later on. He was about 36. We had sex for 2 weeks afterwards and then stopped as he moved schools. I still have him on Facebook. Of course nobody knew, but I really enjoyed it.
Do you think its wrong for a student to have sex with their teacher?
Do you think it was wrong?
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5 65Did the an affair happened.. during your high school years 😬
Yes...
Well... It's happens. You liked older educational men. If it happen when you were 18 then your consider as an adult. 17 and 16 I think you need permission but you couldn't do sexual activities I think? 🤔. At least you didn't get caught. Also everybody has their own personal needs and wants there needs to be fulfilled.
I was legal
That's good you're both adults. There's nothing wrong with that. I'm sure he found you very attractive, confident woman.
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No.. it was consensual.
If it was between two, legal consenting adults, then I see nothing wrong with it.
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If you are under 18 it’s very wrong
If you were underage, yes. But it’s always wrong for a superior to take advantage of a student or employee while they have power over them in general.
I wasn't underage
No. I don't think there was anything wrong to it.
At least, unprofessional. His entire career could have gone down the toilet because of you.
The only wrong thing about it is that it could cause the teacher to have a conflict of interest in regards to the teacher judging the student's performance in-class, giving the student an unfair advantage. Aside from that, I don't see any inherent issues with the it.
It was wrong for a teacher to sleep with their student.
But outside of school, it would be fine.
How old were you?
If you were of age then it wasn't wrong on your end. I think that your teacher probably should have only acted on his desires once he left the school. honestly.
It's not supposed to happen but it does.
If you are happy who is there to say you should not...
Yes, It is a violation of the trust that we put into teachers. Its fine that you two have feelings for each other but he shouldn't have acted on them
No feelings, just attraction
i have the same response to that
If your under 18 when it happened yes
If it's consensual then that is fine.
I mean if word got out, and the cops got involve then yea for him, but now no not really
With a teacher is toeing the line, with their teacher is wrong. So it would be questionable if you only had sex after he finished teaching you. If you had sex whie he was teaching you then it was wrong.
Why questionable?
Because he's still considered an authority figure in relation to you. Yet he isn't directly above you because his views regarding you do not affect your grades. So of he was actually teaching you during the time period you had a relationship, it was wrong. Otherwise it could be okay.
I think that the teacher is in the wrong.
I don't think that anyone in a position of authority should have sex with those that they have authority over. Especially underage but even if they are both grown, a boss shouldn't have sex with those that work for him, as an example.
How old was you then
I was legal
Thats not why I asked that
Why did you?
I in boxed you
If you was legal then what's the problem
You didn't say whether or not he was married, nor what your actual age was.
He was single I was legal
OK, that would only leave the issue of 2 people having sex outside of marriage. Not that I'm perfect in that regard, as I had a lot of sex as a single guy
Uh. Yes, not for you for him.