Do you think mutual masturbation with a friend/friends of the opposite gender (or same if you're into it) is weird?

Have you done it before? It seems normal to me at this point but I've been told it's not
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Most Helpful Guys

  • From my experience, mutual masturbation is the ONLY way to have a full understanding of what a woman wants and needs as far as sex is concerned. I have only had ONE partner that masturbated with me, (SADLY) and it was from her that I learned about the Clitoris, what the inner labia looked like, and the differences between women with regard to their external genitals, and to have a 'hands on' knowledge of what she did to satisfy herself when alone.

    With that said, she learned about the penis, how it works, the sensitive areas, and HOW I masturbated to satisfy myself. I suspect that you and I are not in the minority in that regard, because I had a college 'friend' that told me that her and her boyfriend masturbated together. Surprise, surprise!

    As you know, mutual masturbation can be an 'option' to sexual intercourse when that is not an option, for what ever reason.

    Not Weird at all...

    • Not sure why some women find it 'objectionable' or out of the ordinary.

  • It can be fun to watch. And while enjoying watching you can also learn what touching pleasures the other person the best. But hopefully you will then go on to enjoying sex with each other.

Most Helpful Girls

  • like tough each other? Or touch selves while watching the other? Is watching done via text/call/ or in person?

    I think any are okay. Wouldn't just jump into it with any friend.

    and hey- people take birth control and some may just stick to oral? If this is your pleasurable contraceptive or quickie, then go for it? Don't feel pressured into anything more, if you don't see it for yourself. Plenty of time to do exploring of all sorts.

    • touch*

  • Its uncommon in our group but not unheard of. Long as you're both enjoying it, have fun, no judgement.

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  • No it certainly isn't the norm!

  • I've sometimes masturbated on the floor, while I'm kissing her feet or licking her asshole, but she didn't participate in the masturbation.

  • Naw not weird at all…it’s kinda fun. I haven’t done it much but have done it with both a girl and guy

  • Why not just have sex?

    • Yea, why not?

  • I have done it with previous girlfriends and it was always way fun.

  • Love doing that

  • It's not a common thing but I don't think it's weird

    • Funny that's what I said too

  • Are you serious? it friends with benefits stuff, what stop you from taking it further to sex?

    • Seems like an objectionable way to lose Ur Virgin I don't know

    • I don't understand what you saying, it's objectionable way to lose one's virginity?

    • Yeah

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  • I don’t think it’s weird. I think it’s amazing. I enjoy this greatly.

    • It’s a great way to handle a friends with benefits connection that is not nearly as loaded as intercourse.

  • Don't see anything weird there.

  • Would be weird to me but then aslong as the people comftble are happy doing it good to go

  • I got through my Junior year in HS with my SO doing MM.

  • I don't think it's weird at all. I'm actually really into it.

  • Yes , because girls masturbate weird

  • It’s an intimate gift when you have other restrictions.

    • So when you want to be intimate, but sex is going too far, this was always a fun option. Some people would say the same about oral sex but with oral sex you still have to worry about STDs. that’s not the case with masturbation.

  • Yes, I'd just be wondering why we aren't just having sex instead if they were attractive and if they weren't it would kill the arousal.

  • If it's the opposite gender, I'd say it's normal.

  • It is to me. I do it with friends and strangers too.

  • It's not weird. As long as the friend from opposite gender is ok why worry about others.

    I am ok if some reading this ask me to do it together 😜

  • I have done it before

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